i need your advice,cos i am a whole lot confused.
thing is i had this boyfriend (demi), he is almost everything i want in my man,the tall, dark and handsome and to cap it all God fearing. the relationship went on steady, both of our families got involved and it was all so too good to be true. all of a sudden i started noticing he was drifting away, pointed this out to him, there wasnt any remarkable change, then i started to panic and finally he looked me in the eyes one night and told me he will rather have us be JUST FRIENDS.i was hurt and i couldnt allow myself realise how much so i started seeing this guy(niyi) i had known for 2years just 2 months after the break up.
niyi is good to me in more ways than i could say, although my heart is a bit rigid in opening up to him. niyi is not so much of a God fearing person but he is trying.
the problem now is demi wants a second chance, they both are proposing marriage and i am confused. i dont want to hurt niyi because he as been hurt severally and besides he as been too good to me. i dont even know the right thing to do anymore.

Stick to niyi. Afterall, you say he has been good to you.

What's the assurance that demi will not come up with another breakup line if you go back to him? Don't get carried away by his marriage proposal. Na today
Was he not proposing marriage before he suddenly called your relationship off?

story story story!

dont stay with Niyi cus of sympathy but bcus u[b] luv [/b] him
dont go back to Demi cus he was ur one tym luv but bcus lyf without him had not been d same

none of them will do you any good dear

Why does Demi want to come back after wanting to be just friends with You?
Your life isn't a play ground where he can walk in and out at his convenience.
He has made his choice. . . let him live with it.

I think if there's any feasibility of you opening your heart to
Niyi. . . .Go for him.

in my human perspective, Demi is not d right man 4 U. GBAM! and U never knew what Niyi can turn in2 also! But if you feel, see and know dat Niyi truly loves U and want 2 be with U 4 d rest of his life, y not open ur heart 2 him?

Pray about ur choice and follow ur heart baby. But I'll advice U DONT FALL IN LOVE AGAIN!, WALK IN LOVE, so U can easily walk out, whenever U realise d guy is not good 4 U!

i'll advice u av a seven days white fasting and prayer, God'll reveal to u who is best.

cheers

pay me, i'll do it for u

tytylayor:

pay me, i'll do it for u

Do U attend Cele(white garment church)? .lol. just kidding

na cherubin & seraphin

none of d above

i go to sat guguru maharhji

Guys and gays, This sis is actually confused ,
She need help!

Life is actually a paradox,

Sis what is ur inner heart telling u without sentiments attached,

d right and best answer is for her to go to God herself, dats wat she needs @ dis junction.

U are obviously very young,Stay with niyi.

the bottom line is: u want to go back to dami but you dont want to hurt niyi.

my analysis
I really pity mr. niyi, his heart will definitly be broken just the way dami broke your heart. (the world it a round place)

mr. dami will have you back and feel like a champion with u (sometimes bad acts pay off)

mr. dami is now a champion. then after some years u wont really matter to him, afterall u will always come back because u can hurt any guy for his sake (even if he hurts you)

my advice, choose who Fu, cked better. perhaps the right decision could come from there, you never can tell. (the world is a funny place

Well you’re the one dating them so you should know better.

But if am to speak, I would advice that you cling unto the new guy, you’ve been emotionally destabilized by your first guy; now he’s begging for a second chance it’s up to you to choose.

You’re matured enough and you should know who loves you more so go ahead and make up your mind because time and tide waits for no one.

tytylayor:

pay me, i'll do it for u

Money nor go kill igbo girls

Stick with Niyi _{that's my bf's name}

stay with niyi he deserves u after all what if u give demi another chance and messes u up again then u would be left loney bcack to sqaure one got the picture?

did i hear you said he is god fearing? run and run fast. would say niyi.

thank you all, you were of immersurable help.
you were right when u pointed out that my heart still yearns for demi in some sort of way but my head goes with niyi. the head should take precedence right?
thanks so much once more, think ill go with niyi, and i ll keep you posted.
N B
if you have the time, please say a word to the heavenly father abt me.thank you.

Nice girl. I just did.