SHE NEEDS A JOB!!!! THAT'S THE ONLY SOLUTION.

dinachi:

What of words that insult the dick ? Or as usual it is only females that get insulted? Men don't
If you want to address an issue do so holistically. Of course you will be done with the back and forth because a woman is involved!

Do u see females writing rotten dick everywhere? Which words have u seen that insult d dick?

Idowuogbo:
SHE NEEDS A JOB!!!! THAT'S THE ONLY SOLUTION.

He needs another wife that is the only solution

dinachi:

I bet Ishilove has not seen this either? Now she will send Royalroy to do the job because it is a woman involved.
I think the amount of hypocrisy inherent in this section is beyond comprehension.

13. Please report any post or topic that violates the rules of Nairaland using the (Report) button.

That's rule 13, bob. I'm not omnipresent.

Ishilove:

13. Please report any post or topic that violates the rules of Nairaland using the (Report) button.

That's rule 13, bob. I'm not omnipresent.

I just noticed a ban from d romance section, pls unban me

ogawisdom:
Give it sometime then make arrangement to bring her back home. D major prob is dt she is selfish n jobless.

Pls dnt slap her again except she slaps or beats u if she nags u too much leave d houz for her or lock urself in d room or wateva works

Make arrangement to set her up in some kinda of biz if white collar job is nt forthcoming

wait a fking minute? make arrangements to bring who home?! someone that walked out on her decision? I would never do such nonsense the only people I can make such arrangements for are my kids and if I were op she's not leaving with my kids while I'm around. op let me let you know something LOVE YOURSELF FIRST, your kids before any lady unless the lady proves herself worthy. Many men have died, gone mad, living in hell why? because they directly or indirectly PERMITED it. From your post you have been trying to make the marriage work but on the other hand she's been pulling it down, marriage is a team work if the partners can't work together then there's no team so guy if you can't get your kids for now (I definitely would) ensure you go and see them and buy somethings for them but NEVER GO FOR THAT lady that ran out on her own.
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How can naija guys being encouraged to marry naija girls when most of the guys that married them are regretting it?

Kimoni:


Lol

If nagging kills full grown men, then they should be going extinct by now.

"Sticks and stones may hurt me but words will never harm me" - this is an English proverb basically saying I might have no control over physical violence targeted at me but I can choose to ignore verbal rantings. The latter is a choice.

Have you allowed NL bullying affected you in any way? Maybe initially, but now?

Note that I am not asking him to accept his fate permanently but it is not enough to separate or divorce her immediately like Dinachi advocated till he has tried to address the underlying root of her problems.

so your type think nagging cannot kill a man right?! well for your type slapping and whooping cannot kill you too. treat people how you would like them to treat you.

icedbeatz:
wait a fking minute? make arrangements to bring who home?! someone that walked out on her decision? I would never do such nonsense the only people I can make such arrangements for are my kids and if I were op she's not leaving with my kids while I'm around. op let me let you know something LOVE YOURSELF FIRST, your kids before any lady unless the lady proves herself worthy. Many men have died, gone mad, living in hell why? because they directly or indirectly PERMITED it. From your post you have been trying to make the marriage work but on the other hand she's been pulling it down, marriage is a team work if the partners can't work together then there's no team so guy if you can't get your kids for now (I definitely would) ensure you go and see them and buy somethings for them but NEVER GO FOR THAT lady that ran out on her own.
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How can naija guys being encouraged to marry naija girls when most of the guys that married them are regretting it?

Marriage is nt easy. If nt dt he slapped her I would ve accepted ur position.

Be sure that you are conducting yourself in ways that does not inspire her thinking that you are cheating.While she should have the liberty to work or not,you have to get her to work immediately,even if for a short time.Yes,in that case,she will know the value of earning and the necessity of prudent expenditure.A woman who is jobless is more likely to be grumpy.

More importantly,it was so wrong of you to slap her.I do understand how tempting it can get when angry and confronted with some women's extreme verbal misbehaviour,but just restrain yourself and understand that she is you in another body.She is your wife;respect and never physically muscle her.

Your in-laws' reactions are normal and fair for you slapping her.She is their daughter,and the very act of slapping her insults them.Visit them and apologize to her parents.Then explain what the issues are;of course,you will be wrong on this occasion.

It is all an experience that will deepen your marriage;you guys are growing.I have been there and I sharing this from a realistic heart.

Arizona1:
. I always stay @ home,help her with domestic work and take care of children coz we hav two kids and no house help. .

Just curious, r u not meant to do some domestic shores and take care of ur children? Its default for u to do those stuffs not highlight it.

dinachi snakebeat 5minutesmadness njokusboy may y'all be blessed for being real to yourselves and not allowing all these craps and sentiments affect your judgement or self worth or esteem.
clearly there's always a reaction to an action maybe not equal but that's the way it should be, don't let no one especially the females give y'all that she's a woman and it's your job to absorb insults, endure nonsense and other trash they dish out. if a lady doesn't like to be slapped or whooped then don't do what's going to get you slapped or whooped but if you feel like you can verbally abusive then be ready to be physically abused if u don't like it kill yourself.

ogawisdom:


Marriage is nt easy. If nt dt he slapped her I would ve accepted ur position.

so the only victim Is the physically abused ? what of the verbally abused?
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let us avoid sentiments, that guy have been tolerating nonsense that's why the stupidd ldiot developed the guts to give him more craps to swallow. op you better stop being a wimp and handle your business. DONT GO TO GET HER BACK let her comeback after she's tired and must have received insults from her siblings during their quarrels and don't oblige the first two weeks she tells you she wants to come back but always be their for your kids and don't even take a look at that evil you married while you're visiting your kids.

Dinachi, you never told me you have a twin brother nau

Chai!!! una resemble well well oooo

FrancisTony:

But Jesus said let no man be a judge?

Havent I seen you on here judging people especially in the feminism related issues?

WHy didnt you leave it to God to judge

Kimoni:
Dinachi, you never told me you have a twin brother nau

Chai!!! una resemble well well oooo

Who is the twin brother?

kimono i never know you be trouble maker o

raumdeuter:


Havent I seen you on here judging people especially in the feminism related issues?

WHy didnt you leave it to God to judge

Last I checked, anti-feminists condemn feminists with bible not me.

edwife:


Who is the twin brother?

kimono i never know you be trouble maker o

FrancisTony:

An eye for an eye, only leads to more blindness.

By the way, I don't see how verbal abuse equate Physical abuse.

If you marry such a woman u will understand better. forget all these your talk here.

Jennifer89:



If you marry such a woman u will understand better. forget all these your talk here.

Thanks for being honest and truth full.Once again you restore my confidence in the female gender.

MRSANITY:
you keep talking about being a christian, bible, yet you believe in homosexuality, damn u.

Hypocrite.

https://www.nairaland.com/1824053/share-3some-experience#24880151

Having 3some with a lesbian?

Logicalmind1:

Hypocrite.

https://www.nairaland.com/1824053/share-3some-experience#24880151

Having 3some with a lesbian?

they aren't lesbians, but I love those lesbians willing to Bleep me.

MRSANITY:
they aren't lesbians, but I love those lesbians willing to Bleep me.

Nothing do you.