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Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by BornnAgainChild(f): 11:55am On Jun 27, 2015 |
sexaddict08: Never do that to an in-law even when its clear you on the right part,cos no soon as u try that they would always expect you to resolve issues through that,rem once a thief always a thief so applys to once you kneel down always a kneel down 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Nobody: 12:04pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
What's the nature of the job? |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Saraha1(f): 12:27pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
Hmm. This is serious |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by drealtruth(m): 12:36pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
southernbelle:Seconded... I wonder what the Husband is doing that his parents are making a crucial decision concerning his wife.. In-Laws should back off and stop interfering in the affairs of grown Up Adults.they can only advise and not enforce. 1st Discuss d Issue with ur husband and then Approach a genuine Career counsellor or Man of God for Advise but the decision should be yours. 1 Like |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by blackprowler: 1:16pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
deebee13: Good luck for the rest of your life since you signed "till death do us part." Your in-laws are part of the normal people in Nigeria, who are the problem with Nigeria. Good Luck! 2 Likes |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Mamaflex(f): 1:33pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
diamondtutu:Do I know you? I would have answered your question, but I won't give you that honour. I have made your day by replying you. Now, be gone!! |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by CutieViva(f): 1:46pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
deebee13:U should knw Y dey dont want it & den talk it ovr wit ur hubby. |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by uscofield: 1:57pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Nobody: 3:10pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
deebee13: This is not an issue. It never was. Take the job! Don't ever beg them or try to reason with them. If your husband finally make up his mind about the job, be sure to clarify whether it was based on his parents decision or not. However his opinion should be irrelevant if he never had an issue with the job in the first place until your in-laws butted in. NB- it seems that they have misunderstood your humility for stupidity, you wouldn't want them to control what goes in your family or run your life for you, would you? Then you need to set a boundary for your them. I am not advising you to stop respecting them however you need to cut out the unnecessary and necessary extras. Don't try to argue with them, limit the number of jokes you crack with them, when you make your decisions stand by them and go ahead with them. All you need to sgive them are “Yes sir and Yes ma". The only person that you needed to consult is your husband but I think he is not strong enough to take decisions without his family influencing them. |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by onelife97: 3:55pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
Sunofgod: May God bless you.The best answer I have read on this thread so far. @op if you think your job will be the source of your happiness,you can take it and start destroying your family little by llittle. You can always come back here and tell NLers and make another thread a la "how I lost my family". 1 Like |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Batman123: 4:57pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
uncommonice:The picture is not her. The lady in that picture is a Ghanaian plus size model. 1 Like |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Nobody: 5:25pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
adiwils: Ode! 1 Like |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
nkem123: In-laws o not husband |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by kennylawd: 6:10pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
deebee13: You need to know God for your self or else you will ruin your life and your marriage and may end up with out remedy. You need to be born again and confess Jesus Christ as you personal Lord and Saviour then you can seek for his guidance on what to do. It's not a physical thing but spiritual but you are going to come out victorious if you can accept Jesus and ask him to lead you. Once God is with you you won't regret any decision God has led you to. Don't trust any advice but God's leading through Christ Jesus. And you will be happy and make your husband proud and your in-law will respect you for only decision that Jesus has given to you. Stay on the loving grip of Christ. Cheers! 1 Like |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by nkem123(m): 6:56pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
Insidous:some husband would allow their parents push for their own interest in disguise.so, who knows if this falls under such scenario |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Nobody: 7:10pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
nkem123: My position still remain the same |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by Femistico(m): 8:10pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
That's why I can't and won't marry from a too religious family (S.U's) bcuz dey stinks.. btw @op dis is ur future, if they didn't want u to accept the job then divorce the man and get on with ur life..men plenty for town.. they dont want ur progress..I blive |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by AdimGreat(f): 9:54pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
zinachidi:Lovely name/moniker |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by zinachidi(m): 1:10pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
AdimGreat:well thank you... |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by zinachidi(m): 1:10pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
AdimGreat:well thank you... |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by ebiskem(m): 2:10pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
END TIME JOB!!! |
Re: Finally Got A Job After So Long, But My In-Laws Won't Let Me Have It! by bellotaofeek: 2:41am On Jun 14, 2017 |
In laws ? Which kind ppl like that ? Sometimes we need to lock up on some issues cos getting a good job these days is by grace , if God is not by your side someone else could have got the job . Just pray on your own and consult your pastors or Imam for support . All is well with you . The funniest , the so call inlaws will tag you jobless soon if you can't take care of your home . |
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