have been in a relationship with my gf for a year now and i should say everything has been moving very well .
3 months ago she asked to move in with me but i refused and told her to stay along first untill i sort out some things in my life first.
i did that because i am yet to decide if i will spend the rest of my life with her
i dont know if this really sits well with her although she appears she is ok with my decision.
the problem right now is that i have a friend that is always telling me about her cheating on me although i didnt see anything yet to show she is cheating.i cant afford to loss her and i am thinking of asking her to move in with me since i dont know if its where the problem is coming from .
i dont know her mindset right now although she appear to feel happy
i dont know if she will cheat on me because of that ,i am really confused

If you consider her moving in because she might be cheating, then i will tell you that's a very big mistake.

Women and men cheat even when they are married, cheating doesn't just go away!

If you really want her that much, put a ring in that finger and don't be a pussy! if not, just continue doing the normal dating stuff and commot ur eye for cheating things, it's always a possibility

One way to find if she's cheating is to go through her phone.

When you are together, demand to see her phone. If she says yes, go through messages and pictures.
If she refuses to show you, something is fishy.

You can start your investigation.

Good luck bro!!

martin500:
have been in a relationship with my gf for a year now and i should say everything has been moving very well .
3 months ago she asked to move in with me but i refused and told her to stay along first untill i sort out some things in my life first.
i did that because i am yet to decide if i will spend the rest of my life with her
i dont know if this really sits well with her although she appears she is ok with my decision.
the problem right now is that i have a friend that is always telling me about her cheating on me although i didnt see anything yet to show she is cheating.i cant afford to loss her and i am thinking of asking her to move in with me since i dont know if its where the problem is coming from .
i dont know her mindset right now although she appear to feel happy
i dont know if she will cheat on me because of that ,i am really confused

Ask her about it first. . . but don't let her moving in if u don't want unnecessary troubles

martin500:
have been in a relationship with my gf for a year now and i should say everything has been moving very well .
3 months ago she asked to move in with me but i refused and told her to stay along first untill i sort out some things in my life first.
i did that because i am yet to decide if i will spend the rest of my life with her
i dont know if this really sits well with her although she appears she is ok with my decision.
the problem right now is that i have a friend that is always telling me about her cheating on me although i didnt see anything yet to show she is cheating.i cant afford to loss her and i am thinking of asking her to move in with me since i dont know if its where the problem is coming from .
i dont know her mindset right now although she appear to feel happy
i dont know if she will cheat on me because of that ,i am really confused

why is your friend telling you that she is cheating? does he secretly like her? and if he knows for sure that she is cheating, why not point you to the guy he saw her with? or show you proof or even confront her in front of you?

Don't move in with anyone because you are afraid that they are cheating. At least not until you know if she is or isn't cheating. you can also be honest and let her know that though you love her you are not ready to move in together.

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