starlingslimnet:
When you refuse to take your drug.

Freemanan:
These are the consequences

Freemanan:
These are the consequences

Good qualities? A rapist, a liar who knows what else please leave this man.

A spendthrift (also called profligate) is someone who spends money prodigiously and who is extravagant and recklessly wasteful, often to a point where the spending climbs well beyond his or her means.

Kasimaramma2:
I brought this to Nl because i know we have matured minds that would be of help.please this doesnt call for abuses,please.All that is needed is advice,and nothing more.God bless as you read what uche sent to me.

A guy approached me telling me his name is VICTOR,and i looked exactly like his classmate so that was why he approached me,he apologised for the mistake n we exchanged contacts.We started to chat,he told me he was 20 but trust me he looked 17 or 16.we decided to meet n later he asked me out.i went to his place without telling him only for who his friends called his brother to tell me no victor stays there,but Ibrahim(not real name).when he came n met me,i confronted him,he said that he was a muslim n his name is Ibrahim,and he belonged to the tribe people refer to as DEADLIEST.He told me that he lied because he was hurt in d past n wanted to find out if i would truly love him.he said he was 23 not 20 n he tld me 20 bkus he was afraid that i would reject him thinking he is too old for me.i asked him of the girl that he mistook me for d first day we met n he said she never existed that he just said that to get my attention dat day.I asked him of the boy dey said was his brother n he said he is not his brother but friend.our relationship was two days old n he started asking for sex,he is super lascivicious,very flirty.everytime sex,sex,sex.He raped me on the fifth day into our relationship but pleaded with me not to leave him.He told me he had a gf before meeting me,he later told me that he was just kidding.i nagged then he told me that he had left her before meeting me because a cultist threatened to kill him.today he told me that he has been dating both of us at the same time.
I later found out that the boy they said was his brother whom he told me was only his friend,was a friend that betrayed him alot by snatching his girl,painting him black with false rumours n organising guys to beat him up almost half dead.

He has some good qualities i admire:he is very gracious,very neat and organised n he is a spend thrift.But the bad outways the good,m confused

perry2020:


Plz how old are you
Seriously I need ur reply before I say somethings
U went to his house unannounced no1.
No2. Obviously u kept visiting n d touching started
No3. WHats ur definition of rape?? Coz obviously am sure u consented to it bt perhaps not fully

Am nt going to insult or judge coz I can see ur very young and naive and i could have u as a sister. So answer my qustn before we proceed,if u dnt want to discuss it here mail me @ mzkomsy@gmail.com

perry2020:


Plz how old are you
Seriously I need ur reply before I say somethings
U went to his house unannounced no1.
No2. Obviously u kept visiting n d touching started
No3. WHats ur definition of rape?? Coz obviously am sure u consented to it bt perhaps not fully

Am nt going to insult or judge coz I can see ur very young and naive and i could have u as a sister. So answer my qustn before we proceed,if u dnt want to discuss it here mail me @ mzkomsy@gmail.com

Kasimaramma2:

just clocked 16.
If you tell a guy you are going to his house,he may start plannig how to drug you or commit attrocites.And also it was good so if he had another girl at her back in the house,she would catch dem.D touching did not start when she visited.he raped her,she didnt consent to anything at all,he forced her and she cried and tried fighting

perry2020:


So obviously she likes him very well coz he spends else of coz if atleast u keep quiet abt an abuse,u should be so pissed that u let go of the guy atleast he dint dis virgin her.
N what she was trying to avoid(druging etc) turned out on her even without plans
Besides does this guy stay alone that she was able to go comfortably to his house and he abused her yet she fought and screamed bt Noone could help nt even his frnds or perhaps neighbour's.

My opinion ;the guy is a very good liar and a serial cheat and that line of "u look like some1 I know" is obviously used on many girls he comes across.i wouldn't be the one to advice her if she should stay in the relationship or not coz she is the know that knows what she is getting from it,i would just advice she be more careful
No1.u dnt bomb on a guy anyhow(uninvited),everyone needs their privacy and for ur own security reasons as well,she is in her parents house doing this so obviously if she is in school she will even move in with the guy just to be sure he doesn't have a bitchh or side chick that's too dangerous I remember a girl in ogun state (my cousins frnd) who went to her boy frnds place uninvited they had been dating for a years unknown to her that the guy is an armed robber so she went to the guys house uninvited,duplicated his keys unknown to him just to meet him and his friends sharing the money they got from their operations with guns on d table.their standing rule was nobody must know what they do not even their girl frnds and the consequence is death,the guy pleaded and all bt he was even d one who made d rule so they killed her and dumped her body somewhere close to her house thanks to people who knew her movement and a frnd that dropped her, what of the lady in abuja here gwags who went to see her boy frnd in the middle of the day I tell u not knowing he was a cultist and had clash with another group they attacked him and as they were on it she came in and they all raped her,these real life stories go on and on its reali good to be careful with guys coz u dnt know.them 100% it's what they say u believe and judge from the attitudes they pull off out of pretense. guys would always be guys some cheat bt know where their heart belongs,you don't have to body guard him or monitor his movement at the risk of ur sanity coz ho.estly if u find out anything it's u that would be hurt and crying.
What if she was gang raped U need to talk sense into this ur frnd.if there was no visiting involved he wouldn't have taken advantage of her and am so damn sure they have been having constant sex afterwards.

Kasimaramma2:

thanks in loadz...lots of love