Nairalanders, this is my first time of creating this kind of thread and i need you guys contribution. I have given a lot of good advices to other lost Nairalanders and i hope you could help me find my way too.
Please this is a true story going on in my life, but i wrote it in such a way it you will see the picture in your mind eye, that is why it looks like Nollywood. It is not Nollywood.
Here is it, her name is Mariam, we started dating when i was in JS3 and she was in JS1. You know the characteristics of b*tches and h*oes right? Mariam had all in her except that she had never been laid by any man. (i just know that, if you think i dont, then let's just assume that) Her lifestyle doest look like she is a virgin, but how am i to know? WE LOVE EACHOTHER so much coz she is my first love and i am hers too, but i had to pretend i didnt love her again. I wanted to break-up with her totally but i couldn't coz i love her, so i had to make her a side chick. With her love still 100% in my head, i had to move on with another girl, MUJI. We started dating just eight months ago and we got attached so fast. She is in love with me even before i approach her. She has started dreaming of becoming my wife, she sees herself as lucky coz she never believed i can date a girl like her. (because she believes my level pass hers) I am OK with everything about except her awful past. i still decide to go on with her coz if i refused. She will be shattered coz she is fully commited to me. One day, Mariam find out i was dating Muji and she wants an explanation. I told her it is because of her b*itchy attitude. I was surprised when she asked me how could she be a bitch when she is a virgin. She told me she is commited to me only (i know that she is telling the truth about her commitment to me, but i pretended that her virginity is not a big deal, but her attitude). I told her i cant leave MJ. She begged me to still let her stay in my life. She says she is willing to change her lifestyle or do anything to get her man back. (If she know how much i love her, she didnt need to beg that much)I allow her and she is doing a good job coz her new self is convincing. Muji on the other side questioned my affair with Mariam, i am straigh to her but not straight forward. I told her i only agree to be her BF because she is disturding me too much, but she (muji) is the one i really love. She tolerate our affair but she begged me not to leave her, coz if i do.. She is really going to lose a lot of things.
In summary, i want to be with Mariam because we love eachother. I want to be with Muji because i dont want her to be heart-broken.
Should i go for the woman i love most at the expense of another woman? Please tell me what to do.

Sorry bro,but in this your story are 3 main characters;

Liers

Cheats

And pretenders..

kk

Bros, u wicked!


Reminds me of the movie Savages

Just in case INTROVART oooooo u again

You wanted A transformation for Marian at the expense of Muji,now you've got it nd want to eat your cake...

My advise,discharge them both because if you truly loved Marian,you wouldn't have needed a distraction.

Pineapp:
Sorry bro,but in this your story are 3 main characters;

Liers

Cheats

And pretenders..

I know, i know.. But no matter smart one can be.. There is always a woman you want to be a fool for..

Cutehector:
Bros, u wicked!


Reminds me of the movie Savages

like you are any better.. I am a man so spare me the critics and Bleep*ing make a contributing contribution.

i have absolutely nothing to say regarding ur situation. But the philosophers are coming, so just hang in there.

In summary, i want to be with Mariam because we love eachother. I want to be with Muji because i dont want her to be heart-broken.

Ojukokoro dey worry you. Here lies the answer to your confusion. If you can't decipher from the above submission, then ojukokoro go make you lose both.

oyindare:
Just in case INTROVART oooooo u again

she was on ban so that she can be serious with her dream life instead of wasting all her time here; instead, she opened another moniker.
smh.

GeneralQuamdeen:
like you are any better.. I am a man so spare me the critics and Bleep*ing make a contributing contribution.

yeah am beRra.... So u want a contributing contribution right? Ama giv u one... Continue loving both of them

Children. So u are in JSS3 and still typin on NL? BTW when is junior WAEC comin up?

Young man ...seems U don't even know what You want

So far he has not paid ur dowry "u belong to everybody and u belong to nobody"
is he d only guy in d world?

Silly girls.

Doing tokeni tokeji for op,hmm op choose muji because if leave her (heartbroken) she might do the unexpected

Make I buy this land first. I will now go to baba Oluwo to consult oracle/Ifa about your matter. Please hang in there my confused brother. You will have my feedback

Pineapp:
Sorry bro,but in this your story are 3 main characters;

Liers

Cheats

And pretenders..

thank u very much bro may GOD bless u abundantly

op dey jss3 carried two gals burden for head !! If nah for institution nko they we be dozen ]! This iz when to setup yah life

@ OP
I have a question for u.

What class r u?
If u're still in secondary school, just play along with both, something will lead to another thing and one or both of them might leave u.


If u're in higher institution or ready for marriage soonest. Sit the two of them down and explain to them that u're dating both of them. One or both of them will leave in annoyance and will never come back to u again and one will stay,ready to stay with u eventhough u're dating anoda person. The one that stays is urs.

Last option. Follow ur heart and go with the one u love most, better stil loan one for me

Cutehector:
yeah am beRra.... So u want a contributing contribution right? Ama giv u one... Continue loving both of them

i will love to if nature permits it sir... But i need to choose one.. And can you tell me sir.. How can that helps? Thanks..

GeneralQuamdeen:
i will love to if nature permits it sir... But i need to choose one.. And can you tell me sir.. How can that helps? Thanks..

alright alright.. Let's do it dis way.. U love them both, u r not the problem... Let us assume they r d problem.. Who loves u more.. Put dem to test... Form sick or smth.. Tell dem at diff times... Anyone who shows much concern, choose dat prson.

lrguru:
Children. So u are in JSS3 and still typin on NL? BTW when is junior WAEC comin up?

Neyoor:
@ OP
I have a question for u.

What class r u?
If u're still in secondary school, just play along with both, something will lead to another thing and one or both of them might leave u.


If u're in higher institution or ready for marriage soonest. Sit the two of them down and explain to them that u're dating both of them. One or both of them will leave in annoyance and will never come back to u again and one will stay,ready to stay with u eventhough u're dating anoda person. The one that stays is urs.

Last option. Follow ur heart and go with the one u love most, better stil loan one for me

Pheals:
thank u very much bro may GOD bless u abundantly
op dey jss3 carried two gals burden for head !! If nah for institution nko they we be dozen ]! This iz when to setup yah life

I am now an ND2 student in Kwara State Polytechnic.. What i mean is we met when i was in Jss3. That is, 5 years ago.

GeneralQuamdeen:
I am now an ND2 student in Kwara State Polytechnic.. What i mean is we met when i was in Jss3. That is, 5 years ago.

ok. Follow ur heart

GeneralQuamdeen:
I am now an ND2 student in Kwara State Polytechnic.. What i mean is we met when i was in Jss3. That is, 5 years ago.

Ok, follow ur heart then. How exam they go bro? Loan one of them for me nao, k.p girls kuku dey envy we Unilorin guys before

Cutehector:
alright alright.. Let's do it dis way.. U love them both, u r not the problem... Let us assume they r d problem.. Who loves u more.. Put dem to test... Form sick or smth.. Tell dem at diff times... Anyone who shows much concern, choose dat prson.

Nollywood sh!t! it doesn't make sense

zealot4me:



Nollywood sh!t! this doesn't mame sense

so wat do u tink makes sense?

Cutehector:
so wat do u tink makes sense?

He should follow his heart or beta still play along for the main time. He will definitely get a reason to dump one of em'







@Op wetin the girls see sef?

first and foremost, what class are u now? 2nd is that you don't marry people based pity. if you do,bro, its at your own peril. All u need do is to make your mark in the later girl's life, remember she might actually be keeping her real self too. I would subscribe to you taking that first girl if truly you love her. you can thank me later