Please let's advise this lady,

[/quote]Hello,I am in a serious situation right now and I need some honest and mature advise please.

I'm 30yrs old and I'm in a sort of a relationship with a 34yrs old man. I really like him and I think he likes me too,we've been together for like 2years now.

He talks marriage with me though he's never proposed to me but he talks of the number of children we'll have and makes plans of our future together. He also saved someone as "my wife" on his phone and saved me as "my baby".

My problem now is he usually says that "although he has a girlfriend, he's going to marry me". Should I keep believing him or is he lying to him?[quote]

He is obviously lying to you. Don't waste your time.

If you are tired of being "baby" leave and yes he is lying and toying with you.

2yrs? n still hasn't defyn d rltshp.

Don't let anyone make you a temporary source of enjoyment. Berra call him and ve a frank talk with him.
And are you sure this man is not married? Abi na Jaiye Jaiye man

Something is cooking that may not be in your favour when you finally get to know.

You said you are in a 2 year old relationship with him yet he has another girlfriend ?

So what are you to him ?

Never make someone a PRIORITY when u ar just an OPTION to him/her.

Aunty gwegwe, you are dating someone that admits to having a gf aside from you.. you are 30yrs old, 2 years and he ain't proposed, calls someone else "my wife"...

I got no words for you ma'am

The best thing for u is to leave the relationship and call it a day as the acute reasons lies in ur post. Live your life. Time waits for no one

my dear you are the plan B

Are you a learner? You are not "MY WIFE " but "MY BABY". And you still need someone to tell you that you are just an option.
Now I see y u are still single @ 30

my dear, i've heard n experienced dsame thng. Pack ur bags n live before ur hrt gets broken.

U beta take d exit door babe. Age is no longer on ur side