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Why Men And Women Cheat On Their Partners Even When Everything Seems Perfect.. by HelpeeDeck(m): 12:40pm On Jul 06, 2015
I’m sure many of us have been in a relationship where our partner hurt us, or betrayed us, which makes a girl or a guy crazy wondering of all the reasons why people cheat when everything just seems perfect.

1. They’re Not Ready to Settle down

Even if someone may love another person, one of the main reasons why people cheat, is they are afraid to settle down and commit. Even if they say that they are, inside they have a fear of being vulnerable enough to stay with a person long term, or they are afraid of only being with one person for a long period of time. They may even date whomever they’ve cheated on you with for awhile, but eventually, usually they end up cheating on them too.

2. They’re Insecure

This reason is exactly as superficial as it sounds, but one that should be considered when thinking of why people cheat on someone they seem to love. Many people are insecure with themselves, and having a side fling makes them feel wanted, sexually desired, and as if they still have what it takes to play the dating field. Even if you do everything possible for them, some people are just excited over the idea of having someone on the side. It boosts their ego, which is insecure, and cheating helps them feel better about themselves.

3. They’re a Habitual Liar

There are tried and true habitual liars in this world, and most them end up cheating on whomever they date. They don’t just lie in relationships, but in every part of their life. It is a habit they don’t even realize they’re doing because they are so used to living this way. You definitely want to stay far, far away from these types of people, because no matter what they say, you can’t trust them. Remember, they’re also really good at lying, which will make their alibis even harder to spot.

5. They Don’t Love the Other Person

Some people don’t mean harm, but can cheat on someone because deep down, they just don’t love them. While this isn’t a good reason to have to cheat on someone, it is a very common one that many relationships experience. You should never be with someone just to have a partner, and you deserve someone that will truly love you where cheating won’t be part of the picture.

6. They Enjoy the Playing Field

This reason is similar to not wanting to settle down but differs because some people actually just like having multiple things on the side and appearing as if they’re a one-relationship type of person for their friends, family, co-workers, etc. However, secretly, they just enjoy playing the field.

7. Lack of emotional satisfaction in your primary relationship.

Seeking emotional intimacy can be nearly as compelling a reason to have an affair as can seeking physical intimacy. Participants who stated the need for emotional closeness in an affair felt they were lacking a connection to their primary partners.

8. Lack of sexual satisfaction in your primary relationship.

Both women and men who enter into affairs are hoping to improve their sex lives. They may enjoy many other mutual activities but, for whatever reason, the sex is not working out for them.

9 Falling in love with someone new.

Very few people indicated that they had fallen head over heels for the person with whom they had the affair. Again, emotional intimacy plus sexual closeness seems to be a more important factor that leads partners to stray...


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Re: Why Men And Women Cheat On Their Partners Even When Everything Seems Perfect.. by Emmaville(m): 12:54pm On Jul 06, 2015
Op, Pls where's d playing field? I've been looking for it since. I want to go dere and play.

Pls dnt tel Messi to com oo grin
Re: Why Men And Women Cheat On Their Partners Even When Everything Seems Perfect.. by justmag(m): 12:56pm On Jul 06, 2015
Lmaooo..the OP put his contact details in case you need help. OP can you save a runs girl from herself

grin grin
Re: Why Men And Women Cheat On Their Partners Even When Everything Seems Perfect.. by kamair237(m): 1:00pm On Jul 06, 2015
same Chop/food(beans) everyday go bite/porsh your belle.... change dishes... But dere can be only one real n true dish(beans).... u get me??
Re: Why Men And Women Cheat On Their Partners Even When Everything Seems Perfect.. by Spaxon(f): 1:04pm On Jul 06, 2015
I smell FP
Re: Why Men And Women Cheat On Their Partners Even When Everything Seems Perfect.. by Precious91(m): 1:10pm On Jul 06, 2015
ok
Re: Why Men And Women Cheat On Their Partners Even When Everything Seems Perfect.. by ArchEnemy(m): 1:10pm On Jul 06, 2015
What about indiscipline
And long throat
And habitual cheating
Re: Why Men And Women Cheat On Their Partners Even When Everything Seems Perfect.. by talk2cj08(m): 1:23pm On Jul 06, 2015
Ok
Re: Why Men And Women Cheat On Their Partners Even When Everything Seems Perfect.. by SuperSuave(m): 1:25pm On Jul 06, 2015
angry ++
Re: Why Men And Women Cheat On Their Partners Even When Everything Seems Perfect.. by Nobody: 1:28pm On Jul 06, 2015
No 1 apply to men most especially while ladies 2 and 7.
Re: Why Men And Women Cheat On Their Partners Even When Everything Seems Perfect.. by libertyfather(m): 2:47pm On Jul 06, 2015
Taste
Re: Why Men And Women Cheat On Their Partners Even When Everything Seems Perfect.. by Nobody: 2:49pm On Jul 06, 2015
I speak for myself when I say variety is the spice of life

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