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5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by Nobody: 5:41am On Jul 07, 2015
One of the difficulties you might face in your
quest to get a girlfriend (if you don't have one 
right now,) is to knowing how to ensure you 
never come short of words any time you are 
with the girl.
This is a serious issue and a majority of the 
guys avoid approaching girls because of it. 
You don't have to do that as I want to show you
5 effective ways that ensure you don't get
tongue-tied when you are with a girl.

1. Girls like to talk, and your duty is to
capitalize on that. 
She wants to tell you how her current hair style
is cuter than the last one she made. 
She wants to tell you why she is wearing this
colour of dress today. She wants to tell you
everything that interests her.
Your job is get her talking by asking the right
questions.
2. Be a good listener
This is an important point!
If you take the time to listen to every word she
says, like your life depends on it, you will be
well liked by any girl.
While she talks, she wants you to listen and ask
meaningful questions.
Stop thinking about yourself. Get her talking.
Listen to her and you will know what to say next.
3. Share your own experiences
As you listen to her, if there's any incident you
can relate to, say it.
You should have your own opinion on things as
well. Let her hear them.
This should be simple to do because you are
re-telling incidents you have experienced or have
some opinion about.
4. Read her body language
While you are with her, try to read her
countenance. 
If she's not comfortable with a topic, change the
topic quickly and concentrate more on issues she
is happy about.
At times she might be wanting you to end the
conversation and take your leave
If you notice that's what she wants, take your
leave. It makes her respect you and want to give
you a minute or two next time.
If you come off as a bore, she will start avoiding
you
5. If you run out of things to say, admit it.
It's normal to have a pause in between
conversations. Use the time to think of something
to say.
If nothing comes to mind, look her in the eyes and
tell her you are thinking of something that
relates to one of the topics you guys have already
discussed.
You can't place your hands on it at the moment,
but you'll tell her about it once you remember.
In the meantime is there any thing  she might want
you guys to talk about?
This is genuine, takes the pressure off you and
opens another communication channel.

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Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by Hazardd(m): 6:32am On Jul 07, 2015
Story for the gods undecided


yourmain, you are just viewing this topic as if your life depend on it wink

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Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by gamaliel121(m): 6:35am On Jul 07, 2015
Nice one
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by Nobody: 6:40am On Jul 07, 2015
Not all girls fancy these fah.
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by IamLEGEND1: 6:46am On Jul 07, 2015
if she think say she sabi talk
me i make noise pass am.
#ClassNoiseMakersChairman
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by Gurgle(f): 6:49am On Jul 07, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
if she think say she sabi talk

me i make noise pass am.

#ClassNoiseMakersChairman

go back to sleep
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by IamLEGEND1: 7:01am On Jul 07, 2015
Gurgle:

go back to sleep

me na 4:00am i dey wake up everyday na
#AsPerManOfTheHouse
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by Gurgle(f): 7:02am On Jul 07, 2015
IamLEGEND1:



me na 4:00am i dey wake up everyday na

#AsPerManOfTheHouse

what for

you want to watch the sun rise
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by kamair237(m): 7:05am On Jul 07, 2015
always try to be uninterested... and always try to be very interested.... beta still always Kip her in suspence cool cool she will be commin for more....
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by IamLEGEND1: 7:16am On Jul 07, 2015
Gurgle:

what for
you want to watch the sun rise

FOR WHIA?
#I'dRatherWatchTheSunset.
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by Gurgle(f): 7:19am On Jul 07, 2015
IamLEGEND1:



FOR WHIA?

#I'dRatherWatchTheSunset.


why don't you sleep. its not good
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by osemoses1234(m): 7:20am On Jul 07, 2015
Owk we don hear yu...nxt plssss
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by IamLEGEND1: 7:25am On Jul 07, 2015
Gurgle:

why don't you sleep. its not good
i dey sleep oh
i dey sleep pass u sef!!!!!!
#I♥AGoodRest
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by Nobody: 7:33am On Jul 07, 2015
Does this still work?

Nice one tho
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by sandrannna(f): 7:51am On Jul 07, 2015
I.Diot guys, let ur money speak for u. Don't mind all this crappy list.
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by constance500: 8:06am On Jul 07, 2015
Show her the money, she'll do the talking
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by Nobody: 10:35am On Jul 07, 2015
[color=#000099][/color] smileynice one dude
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by ireneony(f): 10:39am On Jul 07, 2015
i hate long talk especially wen a guy talks too much
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by JoeCutie(m): 11:33am On Jul 07, 2015
ireneony:
i hate long talk especially wen a guy talks too much
You love it short and straight to the kpim? grin
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by may01(f): 11:39am On Jul 07, 2015
^^^^ grin grin
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by Nobody: 12:45pm On Jul 07, 2015
Hazardd:
Story for the gods undecided


yourmain, you are just viewing this topic as if your life depend on it wink

grin grin I've nothing to say so I guess ill just pree
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by ibrahym47(m): 3:20pm On Jul 07, 2015
Tnz op but lemme make money before getting a diploma in women affair. Jobless niqa
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by ibrahym47(m): 3:20pm On Jul 07, 2015
Tnx op but lemme make money before getting a diploma in women affair. Jobless niqa
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by Hazardd(m): 8:12pm On Jul 07, 2015
YourMain:


grin grin I've nothing to say so I guess ill just pree
Okay... grin
you are not looking bad smiley
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by Nobody: 8:20pm On Jul 07, 2015
Hazardd:

Okay... grin
you are not looking bad smiley

Lol. I am not looking good either ?

Well thank you smiley.
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by Hazardd(m): 8:49pm On Jul 07, 2015
YourMain:


Lol. I am not looking good either ?

Well thank you smiley.

you are looking good sha but i admire your small eyes the most... wink
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by Nobody: 8:55pm On Jul 07, 2015
Hazardd:


you are looking good sha but i admire your small eyes the most... wink

Haha yeah them Chinese slits is it. Alright. Well thank you. Again.
Re: 5 Important Ways Of Maintaining Conversation With A Girl by Hazardd(m): 10:10pm On Jul 07, 2015
YourMain:


Haha yeah them Chinese slits is it. Alright. Well thank you. Again.
you are welcome dear

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