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Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by 5minsmadness: 7:01am On Jul 08, 2015 |
cococandy: My answer was very straightforward. Women are NOT naturally polygamous. End of. 2 Likes |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by 5minsmadness: 7:05am On Jul 08, 2015 |
cococandy:Yes you are monogamous. As told by men ? Maybe. As defined by nature? Definitely. As endorsed by society? Oh yes. As directed by almost ALL world religions? Absolutely. You couldn't handle two husbands even if you wanted to . You are monogamous. Deal with it. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by 5minsmadness: 7:10am On Jul 08, 2015 |
coogar:Totally agree. Esp at bolded. |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by SirAweezy(m): 7:21am On Jul 08, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: Just Google that's all you Need! |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by julietchic(f): 7:36am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Not every man.
my man is not like that.....he is faithful. |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by 5minsmadness: 7:37am On Jul 08, 2015 |
BuddhaPalm:I must have a very intelligent a$$ then Can u kindly list 5animal species where the female is polygamous ? Let me help you with one...female lemurs keep more than one mating partner for life. That's from my intelligent as$ as well. My intelligent a$$ vs your brain. Let's go. 2 Likes |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by 5minsmadness: 7:38am On Jul 08, 2015 |
julietchic:No one is saying your man isn't faithful ma. It simply translates to the fact that he has very good self control. 2 Likes |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by 5minsmadness: 7:38am On Jul 08, 2015 |
julietchic:No one is saying your man isn't faithful ma. It doesn't mean the tendency for polygamy isn't there. It simply translates to the fact that he has very good self control. Kudos to him. 2 Likes |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by snakebeat: 7:51am On Jul 08, 2015 |
5minsmadness:Na convoluted way be dat o 1 Like |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by PreciousBro: 7:56am On Jul 08, 2015 |
lol Threads like this makes me literally eat pop corn let me chill out first,read comments/posts before I become a boko haram and drop my own bomb on this notoriously alpha sambi"Sir" Thread. |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by 5minsmadness: 7:56am On Jul 08, 2015 |
bukatyne: It has already been stated here. Lots of self control. |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by Nobody: 8:13am On Jul 08, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Thank God the world religions is ALMOST. cos as a Jehovah's witness,you must be monogamous,men and women alike! Eve was given to Adam,still wondering why two wives were not given to him. People wey no pass God don plenty. Oginidi! |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by BuddhaPalm(m): 8:22am On Jul 08, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Lol, you'll actually have a hard time finding animals that are sexually monogamous. A very hard time actually. Monogamy in nature, is rather the aberration. Google is your friend man. 1 Like |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by 5minsmadness: 8:22am On Jul 08, 2015 |
bellong: Ok bro. |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by 5minsmadness: 8:22am On Jul 08, 2015 |
cc seun, lalasticlala, royalroy. What say you? |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by 5minsmadness: 8:25am On Jul 08, 2015 |
PreciousBro: Pls no "Boko haram" on this thread Its a non-terrorising thread |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by 5minsmadness: 8:27am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Optimall: The same God wey bless Araham, Issac, Jacob, David, Solomon, etc with plenty wives? 2 Likes |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by 5minsmadness: 8:29am On Jul 08, 2015 |
BuddhaPalm: No google is YOUR friend bro. You didnt answer the question. We are looking for a mammalian species in which the females have more than one alpha male catering to them I gave you one, search for another 1 Like |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by snakebeat: 8:32am On Jul 08, 2015 |
5minsmadness:This is the gospel truth. The male lascivious drive by nature is very high, it takes high level of self control to put it under check, which is almost impossible. Maybe that was why God didn't lay emphasis on knowing a male virgin physically. Because the sex drive in male isn't limited to humans alone, but all mammals & even spirits. We were told in d bible how angels transformed into human form just to sleep with women, animals are not left out, lizards, goats, buffalo, just name it. The sex drive deposited inside d male system is very high, compare to dat of a female. it takes high degree of self control. So I wouldn't say allowing only men to marry more than one partner, means d society is cheating on women by limiting them to one man. I would rather say is to probably create a balance by offsetting d overdose libido deposited inside d male system by nature. 4 Likes |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by Nobody: 8:33am On Jul 08, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Thank God you call them wives not adultery. |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by SirAweezy(m): 8:36am On Jul 08, 2015 |
julietchic: Hmmmm I agree! |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by PreciousBro: 8:41am On Jul 08, 2015 |
5minsmadness:Point taken sir,no bombs. |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by Nobody: 9:31am On Jul 08, 2015 |
5minsmadness:Sorry, this isn't front page worthy because it has no moral value to pass.. More like seeking justification for cheating husbands. .. Thank you 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by 5minsmadness: 9:51am On Jul 08, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:No one is seeking justification for cheating husbands here. Have u seen any post so far saying that a husband should cheat? Are u also denying the fact that there are legally polygamous homes in the real world? What,you don't have Muslim friends or you think all polygamous associations will go to hell? Stop being biased pls. These are facts backed up by society,culture and science. Most of the knowledge in the original op were garnered from leading documents, magazines and online sites known world wide. Your husband is already aware of his nature so don't think he'll suddenly turn into a womanizer overnight if he reads this thread. This thread IS frontpage worthy and will be a nice topic for discussion as against some other threads we see up there discussing the same topics under different headings daily. Cc lalasticlala, royalroy,seun. Thank you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by Nobody: 10:06am On Jul 08, 2015 |
5minsmadness:I'm not being biased, it's just what I feel cos I see no reason telling guys it's naturally ok to want to have multiple partners. .. This may mislead young and naive guys... But then, to each his own... @bolded, so funny 1 Like |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by coogar: 10:50am On Jul 08, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: i dunno why a guy's polygamous nature is making your temperature rise. you are not even a guy - why are you so concerned. are you afraid of the truth? telling the truth does not mislead - it actually prepares young & naive guys to know what to expect. you are the kind of mother that would not teach your daughters sex education cos you believe it would mislead them. truth is - men are naturally polygamous as it is with all male mammals. in your leisure time, read about the coolidge effect. the phenomenon simply means males exhibit renewed sexual interest if introduced to new receptive sexual partners. if you drop a male rat into a cage with a receptive female rat, you see an initial frenzy of copulation. then, progressively, the male tires of that particular female. even without an apparent change in her receptivity he reaches a point where he has little libido-and simply ignores her. however, if you replace the original female with a fresh one, the male immediately revives with a fresh boost of libido and begins copulating again. you can repeat this process with fresh females until the rat nearly dies of exhaustion. the rat's renewed vigor does not reflect an increase in his wellbeing - although it will look (and temporarily feel to him) that way. his vigor comes from surges of a neurochemical called dopamine, which flood the reward circuitry of his primitive brain... so that he gets the job done always when he sees a new female partner. in a nutshell, animals do not choose their mates randomly. they identify and reject those with whom they have already had sex. their sex drive becomes lower for such partners. scientists know this reflex as the coolidge effect. so if you are wondering why a man would leave his beautiful wife at home to chase after FUTO students in owerri, it's because he has lost the sex drive for the wifey & his interest is now in a new receptive female! 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by Richiy(f): 12:19pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Of course they are. Their brains are wired that way. |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by Nobody: 12:23pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
coogar:Making my temperature rise? Lols.. Only expressing my concern. . I don't just see the usefulness of this thread, I don't see the good message it conveys... What about ladies that have high libodos and like to try out new partners? Hope it's ok they feel and act like that? Or theirs isn't natural? .. How many men will take this? Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you.. Truth is no one would like to be given a reason why it's ok for their partners to have the urge to cheat on them..... Even if all you wrote above is true, what about opening a thread about how possible it's to be monogamous, self control, keeping the vows made before the lord, respecting one's wife and children as opposed this ?? 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by coogar: 12:34pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: the thread is very relevant! it's just that some of you women are kinda allergic to the truth. the earlier you understand men's primal instinct, the better for you guys.
and who told you women don't try out new partners by the way? of course they do but not in the same high level as men. besides, women who have multiple sex partners do so as a means to an end in most cases. they have sex with multiple men to get favours. money, jobs, material things, children, etc. they rarely do it for pleasure like men are naturally wired so there's a big difference in what motivates males & females to seek other partners.
what men can or cannot take is an academic point. only a foolish man actually thinks a woman is incapable of sexing other men. all those women that raise bastards under their husband's roofs are what? aliens?
that will be hiding from the truth. it's better for young wives & potential husbands to be aware of what to expect. there's going to be a point when the nüdity of a wife would mean nothing to her husband. it's a fact that both of them must deal with. the earlier they know, the better prepared the couple would be. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:38pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Your position that animals are monogamous is a MASSIVE faux pas on the scale of the running joke in which some girl said she preferred London to UK. Seriously. Scientists have three classifications of monogamy in animals: Sexual, Social and Genetic. Of the 5,400+ known species of mammals, only less than 5% are considered SOCIALLY monogamous. Sexual monogamy, on the other hand, is almost non-existent in ALL animal species. Female chimps for example, are known to have intercourse with multiple males in her group, so as to confuse the paternity of their babies. And if she bangs all, the males think the babies could be theirs, so they don't kill them. The most socially monogamous animals are birds. With the percentage running upto 90%. But it stops right there... Sexual monogamy for them, however, is another story entirely. 3 Likes |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by lezz(m): 12:39pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
cococandy:hmn, this is a new, reborn cococandy. Whatever happened? |
Re: Are Men Naturally Polygamous? by bqlekan(m): 1:13pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:i support jare.. but bros, you don change o.. 1 Like |
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