Dear Julie,

My girlfriend doesn’t like condoms. She prefers sex naturally without any artificiality. We have begun having sex recently. The first few times we did, we used condoms. But she
doesn’t feel good with it. She said she prefers to feel me. Lately, we stopped using it. I always pull out before I come. Is this still safe? Is it safe to re-enter after this? I will appreciate all the help. Thanks.

Efe, Warri

Dear Efe,

I want to understand the problem here. Is it sexually transmitted infections (STIs), pregnancy, or both? In the case of STIs, the answer is a resounding NO! Pulling out, or
withdrawal, isn’t an effective method of STI prevention because most disease-causing microorganisms don’t depend on ejaculation for transmission. A condom will only help
prevent the spread of STIs if you put it on before sex and leave it on the entire time you are having sex. If both of you have been tested before you started having sex with each other, you may not be concerned about STIs. If you haven’t been tested you may want to consider doing so. As a primary means of pregnancy prevention, withdrawal
has several disadvantages. First, there’s the pre-ejaculatory fluid on which the withdrawal method has no effect since it’s
released well before you ejaculate. Pre ejaculate itself doesn’t contain sperm, however it may pick up sperm left in
the urethra from a previous ejaculation, and thus, re-inserting your penis after ejaculation (outside of the vagina) does present a risk of pregnancy. Next, and what perhaps has even more of an impact on the effectiveness of the method, is the issue of consistency and self-control. Can you use the withdrawal method correctly and consistently each time you have sex? If not, then you might want to think about whether this method is right for you. Of course, you
do have the option of emergency contraception. Withdrawal does have its advantages. It’s free and always available. Second, no side effects are associated with this form of contraception. The estimated failure rate for typical use is around 22 percent. When practiced perfectly, the
failure rate is estimated to be around 4 percent. This means 4 to 22 women out of every 100 who use withdrawal as their
contraceptive method get pregnant. If you haven’t already, perhaps you and your girlfriend could talk about your concerns and work toward reaching a mutual decision on what form of contraception and/or safer
sex you both want to use. Besides the issue of STIs, it’s best to talk about how willing you are to risk having to deal with a
pregnancy and what either of you would do if a pregnancy occurred. Withdrawal is definitely less effective than, say, the birth control pill. But, if both of you are okay and comfortable with the risk involved, then you may decide that withdrawal is a good method for the two of you. To make a decision like this, it’s helpful to have as much information as possible.

http://www.edondo.com/2015/07/she-doesnt-like-condoms

But she likes HIV, Herpes, Trichomonas, and Chlamydia abi?

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u copy question and also copied answer....who like condoms sef... na just for security purposes we dey use am....if no be say some 9ja babes carry STD...wetin we go use condom do?

Gosh... Pls send me a gurlfrnd dah doesn't like condoms

Then use Nylons like cossy

Get married or abstain if she cant use condom.

Then subscribe to white nylon...or better still Sugar nylon.

Hopes she likes stds
Or children...she probably likes the baby mama title

Nnemuka:
Get married or abstain if she cant use condom.

Your pic is just so hilarious!!!.......
Rotflmao

guys, but why is condom always not good. I mean it doesn't feel good like having it raw. I don't even joy having sex with condom. just feel like stressing myself,no sensation at all. pls help guys. any condom that is good like skin to skin?

Hian! Who likes condom



Anyway it not mandatory bu very necessary

To avoid super story.

Its pretty difficult. Most girls prefer raw.from studies, it has been discover that condom always have side effect on a woman's womb. Its hardly u see girls that like condoms des days. 98% of des girls luv it deep n raw.

#me......