vichks:
How can she not want to have sex with me? Eventually if we get married is this what I will face

Lol. Sometimes relationship fire quench, and it becomes both of your duties to lite it up again. For some it takes few months others years, You don't think after 10years together with the same daily routine it will remain the same. As bitter as it sounds it won't. The best you can do is to become the guy she first met ne the fun person she wanted, remind her you are still who you fell for and awaken her passion.

baibijay:


Lol. Sometimes relationship fire quench, and it becomes both of your duties to lite it up again. For some it takes few months others years, You don't think after 10years together with the same daily routine it will remain the same. As bitter as it sounds it won't. The best you can do is to become the guy she first met ne the fun person she wanted, remind her you are still who you fell for and awaken her passion.

sure will do that, thanks

Twaci:
Dear how about this, instead of talking to us and seeking for our advice (inappropriate as they may seem), I'd ask u to call ur babe down and talk to her.

It wouldn't kill. Just communicate. Ask her if she's tired of you or the relationship....could be that she's even tired of your sex positions. Only then you will know what's really wrong wif ur relationship.

#my2kobos

I have tried that a thousand times and she kept on saying nothing

Gurgle:


uwc

I talked to her this evening, asked her what is wrong, of all the pestering and sweet talking I did she said nothing again, eventually she saw this thread and read half of the frontpage and was just laughing, she made a dangerous comment saying that it's sex I want abi that she will show me, later on she was joking saying that I have not seen anything, should I take this comment serious or what do you think?

vichks:
I talked to her this evening, asked her what is wrong, of all the pestering and sweet talking I did she said nothing again, eventually she saw this thread and read half of the frontpage and was just laughing, she made a dangerous comment saying that it's sex I want abi that she will show me, later on she was joking saying that I have not seen anything, should I take this comment serious or what do you think?

mehn I don't know

so was she angry or what. what did she think of the comments

Gurgle:




mehn I don't know

so was she angry or what. what did she think of the comments

she was just laughing, she did not even want to read the others, but that first comment she made is just disturbing

vichks:
she was just laughing, she did not even want to read the others, but that first comment she made is just disturbing

it doesn't sound disturbing to me

at least she cheered up, isn't that what you wanted

vichks:
I talked to her this evening, asked her what is wrong, of all the pestering and sweet talking I did she said nothing again, eventually she saw this thread and read half of the frontpage and was just laughing, she made a dangerous comment saying that it's sex I want abi that she will show me, later on she was joking saying that I have not seen anything, should I take this comment serious or what do you think?

Sorry but this is very funny.
You mean you know she is reading and you are still asking what to do?

OK. From her response She is not understanding and deliberately cruel +immature

Reading the thread should have made her see you truly worried. You even mentioned you love her enough to marry her and she is saying it sex you want
She probably dont feel shit for you anymore.

baibijay:


Sorry but this is very funny.
You mean you know she is reading and you are still asking what to do?

OK. From her response She is not understanding and deliberately cruel +immature

Reading the thread should have made her see you truly worried. You even mentioned you love her enough to marry her and she is saying it sex you want
She probably dont feel shit for you anymore.

she was saying it sarcastically and was like referring it to my johnny, she cheered up later, I know she definitely loves me probably even more I do to her but it's just that her mouth is saying one thing and her behaviour is saying another

Gurgle:


it doesn't sound disturbing to me

at least she cheered up, isn't that what you wanted

it's the sex aspect that is disturbing

baibijay:


Sorry but this is very funny.
You mean you know she is reading and you are still asking what to do?

OK. From her response She is not understanding and deliberately cruel +immature

Reading the thread should have made her see you truly worried. You even mentioned you love her enough to marry her and she is saying it sex you want
She probably dont feel shit for you anymore.

I see your point, probably it's a case of love lost right?

vichks:
it's the sex aspect that is disturbing

Ok

you'll have to wait and see

halfway through helping you on this thread I realized I shouldn't really be encouraging this so I think I should bow out

but good luck anyway

Gurgle:


Ok

you'll have to wait and see

halfway through helping you on this thread I realized I shouldn't really be encouraging this so I think I should bow out

but good luck anyway

ok thanks on your help, blessed sleep

vichks:
she was saying it sarcastically and was like referring it to my johnny, she cheered up later, I know she definitely loves me probably even more I do to her but it's just that her mouth is saying one thing and her behaviour is saying another

vichks:
I see your point, probably it's a case of love lost right?

Am sorry I don't understand women myself
Possibly love lost. Possibly not... Women are complicated my friendp

vichks:
And so I have been dating this lady for over a year now and I will say our intimacy has been really good, recently she started avoiding all the tricks that she knows that will lead to the intimacy giving one silly excuse or the other for over a month now, the last intimacy we did was like forcing a horse to drink water, romancelanders is this a bad sign that she might have started seeing another person?
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