I am in love with this guy that I met in 2013. I met him wen I was actually in need of a companion, he was ma senior in sch, same faculty buh different dept. Everything was going on fine for like a year wen for d first tym, he raised his hand on me. Blinded by love, tws settled nd we moved on. T wasn't long after then that I made a silly mistake, u know, in a bid to revenge on ma ex, I decided to meet some pple. To cut d long story short, I confessed to ma bf coz I was feeling so guilty buh since then things avent bn d same wv us till now., that was around May 2014. We re no longer close to each other now as he's no mre in sch nd m jz abt to graduate. Things have been crumbling, u know, no trust thus he's been in one escapade or the other. He says quit every time nd I just v been finding it hard to cope . This isn't meant to expose him or anything coz I really do love him, I still do. how can I save my relationship. He knows I love him nd I can say he loves me too, what to do wv fights all tym I need to kip ma relationship or walk away like he always suggest!!!
matured minds plz, no bashing

Cutehector

INTROVERT:
Cutehector

lol yes

NONSENSE

he says u shld quit? then u shld, because u might regret settling down with him if u go ahead to marry him. afteral he suggests quit. dis a fabricated story, looking at ur dp, u dnt even worth dieing 4

elijah2u:
he says u shld quit? then u shld, because u might regret settling down with him if u go ahead to marry him. afteral he suggests quit. dis a fabricated story, looking at ur dp, u dnt even worth dieing 4

Maybe u nid a brain check or something. must u display ur stupidity hia?

Op I think he doesn't take u seriously... Why not just try moving on..

Your story is incomprehensive. What led to your meeting with some guys over avenging your ex?

Trust can't be rebuilt when broken, happened to me!

You can't blame the dude because when you 'met' with some guys he realized you can still 'meet' with other guys in the future so it's better he finds his way...

I suggest you back out of the relationship because he will never trust you, you have the tendency to 'meet' with some other guy later on if you need it

Met wv them doesn't mean I was avin things to do wv them. U know students stuff. he shudnt find it hard trusting me coz I don't kip things from him, even things not meant to be said. I js wanna save ma relationship,
Moreover ts lack of trust from both sides as he's now into different "love stories"

Me read this story


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Na comments I come read!

I don't think you love him.
If you truly loved him, your being with him would have been enough to get back at your ex. Your being proud of him would have been enough payback for your ex.

But u felt he wasn't cool enough or wealthy enough or hunky enough or handsome enough (I wouldn't know what ur reason might have been) to get back at your ex. That was what led you to engage in some escapades that will hurt your ex.

When you were doing all those things, I'm sure ur instincts must have told you that what you were doing, not only MIGHT they hurt ur ex, but that they would SURELY hurt ur current boyfriend. But u waved aside the voice of reason and did whatever you felt you could do.

You didn't value him. Yet you claim you love him.
I don't think you love him.
I don't think you value him.
I don't think he is worth anything to you.
Yet you want him to value you.

Women!
Women!!
Women!!!

Na wa 4 una.

I need glasses chai,

Nobilis has said it all.

emperorchedda:
Your story is incomprehensive. What led to your meeting with some guys over avenging your ex?

Trust can't be rebuilt when broken, happened to me!

You can't blame the dude because when you 'met' with some guys he realized you can still 'meet' with other guys in the future so it's better he finds his way...

I suggest you back out of the relationship because he will never trust you, you have the tendency to 'meet' with some other guy later on if you need it

hahahahaha.... Cant stop laughin

nobilis:
I don't think you love him.
If you truly loved him, your being with him would have been enough to get back at your ex. Your being proud of him would have been enough payback for your ex.

But u felt he wasn't cool enough or wealthy enough or hunky enough or handsome enough (I wouldn't know what ur reason might have been) to get back at your ex. That was what led you to engage in some escapades that will hurt your ex.

When you were doing all those things, I'm sure ur instincts must have told you that what you were doing, not only MIGHT they hurt ur ex, but that they would SURELY hurt ur current boyfriend. But u waved aside the voice of reason and did whatever you felt you could do.

You didn't value him. Yet you claim you love him.
I don't think you love him.
I don't think you value him.
I don't think he is worth anything to you.
Yet you want him to value you.

Women!
Women!!
Women!!!

Na wa 4 una.

well, u re ryt only if I continued wv ma revenge plans after I met him. I was seeking d revenge b4 I fell in love. I need him to just overlook that Nd love me for who i am. one thing, I feel he shud be happy I told him myself, what if he heard outside M not saying m ryt buh I love him, heaven knows Nd I just nid to save my relationship

Let me tell you the truth.Stop trying to save what is dying and is comatose.The trust between you and your guy is dead and you will just both be patching if you force it.
A lot of ladies in your shoes have forced the relationship only for them to regret it because the guy just plays the field.
Move on.Look forward to a new relationship and make sure you have ended your revenge game before you start.

Anything that does not kill you will glorify you: wait and keep praying.

is the dude willing to save the relationship as well?? I think you should chill and act as if you don't care no more after numerous attempts to save the relationship.... it takes two pple to be in a relationship and if the dude truly loves u as u claim then he shouldn't leave u hanging.. ...it might be has moved or he derives fun in knowing fully well how hard ure trying to save the relationship

elijah2u:
he says u shld quit? then u shld, because u might regret settling down with him if u go ahead to marry him. afteral he suggests quit. dis a fabricated story, looking at ur dp, u dnt even worth dieing 4

man, u harsh...u started really well like u care, u ended very harshly.. chai, diaris God o.





bak to d matta, op leave him and com to me. case solved!

The tot that someelse scattered ur puussyy is killing him.. He doesn't trust u again... Just wait sha, he might come around... Bit-cheese can cheat ee..after der'll say guys r cheats..

OP which UNI u dey? cos this your engrish get as he be

OP is kinda desperate. I av seen where u emphasized in ur comments dat "u just want to keep ur relationship" as if ur life depend on it.
#u were blinded by love wen he slapped u nd u'r still blind...mtcheww
Some gals are just empty.(No offiense)

Wen d purpose of a fin is not known, abuse is inevitable.

Stop giving ursef false hope, I don't see somfin left in dat thrift u called relationship.

##OP kindly give five good reasons why u av to save/keep dis relationship. Then I will know u are serious with life.

gamaliel121:
The tot that someelse scattered ur puussyy is killing him..
He doesn't trust u again...
Just wait sha, he might come around...
Bit-cheese can cheat ee..after der'll say guys r cheats..

Exactly that thought!!

A guy who truly likes you can't stand the thought of how someone was making you scream, it's not what he can stop to imagine no matter how much he loves you the scene of another guy fvcking you won't leave his imagination. Trust me on this

I believe you should move on because even if he takes you back it will be just for the fun of playing around with you till you choose to finally leave him yourself

This is how men work....its impossible to erase that memory

starlingslimnet:
OP which UNI u dey? cos this your engrish get as he be

Op? Ha! She murdered her English tutor


Xavierblue

datz harsh