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| Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Nobody: 5:15am On Jul 18, 2015 |
Divorce is one of the worst experiences that an individual can go through because it spells the end of the highest level of commitment that exists in human society. When two people are in love, it is hard for them to notice faults in each other, especially when they are burning with passion for each other. Many people tend to rush into marriage as fast as they can rather than taking enough time to understand each other well, in order to discover whether there are any issues in their potential life partner that they cannot live with.Most marriages fail because the wife and husband develop problems that affect howthey communicate. The couple can also allow finances to become a source of conflict, and trust issues can develop. Furthermore, couples face issues when one or both of them feel as if the other person is not meeting his or her expectations, or when insecurities begin to develop that start tearing the couple apart.However, it is important to note that a husband and a wife can overcome every type of relationship issue out there and save their marriage, regardless of how serious the issue is.The profession that a person is in can alsobe a cause for divorce, owing to its ability to pull the couple apart. Poor pay can lead to conflict, as well as crazy hours that choke the life out of a marriage, and the temptation to be unfaithful with. source: http://www.therichest.com/expensive-lifestyle/10-professions-that-will-likely-lead-you-to-divorce/?utm_source=TR-FB-P&utm_medium=Social-Distribution&utm_campaign=TR-FB-P 3 Likes
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| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Nobody: 5:18am On Jul 18, 2015 |
1. Musician/Actor/Actress Music, sports, and movie celebrities who are married need a lot of discipline to remain faithful to their spouses because their fans love and adore them dearly. Some fans go to great lengths to get their favourite celebrity’s autographs while some would do anything to meet the celebrities in person. All this attention and adoration can quickly get to the heads of these celebrities, to the extent that they neglect their spouses. Furthermore, these professions require a lot of time and commitment, and an individual might feel as if his or her spouse is pulling them down because they keep demanding attention. These professionals receive relationship offers from very attractive people all the time, and the marriages that survive are those where the professionals realize that their relationships are too important to lose over fans who do not really know them. 17 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Nobody: 5:20am On Jul 18, 2015 |
Look before you leap 2 Likes |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Nobody: 5:21am On Jul 18, 2015 |
2. Nurse/Caregiver. One way to kill a marriage is to stop spending quality time with your spouse, a situation that can arise due to either neglect or a tight work schedule. Nurses and caretakers tend to have the worst working hours in environments where theyare constantly surrounded by pain and suffering. A normal day at work for a nurse can involve losing a patient, dealing with a stressful patient, or even dealing with extremely demanding bosses. When you add up the above stress with extra-long and unsocial working hours, you get a partner who will really need you to put in all you have to make the marriage exciting.Furthermore, the care they have to give to all their patients can overstretch, in some cases, to offering other benefits that can tear down a marriage. The many nurses and caregivers with thriving marriages never lose sight of how important their marriages are, despite the challenges. 7 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Swiftboy(m): 5:24am On Jul 18, 2015 |
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| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Nobody: 5:24am On Jul 18, 2015 |
3. Masseuse/Masseur. Nothing can compare to relaxing at the spa after a hard day at work with your favourite masseuse or masseur massaging every inch of your body. It is possible for you to fall in love with your massage therapist, because the experience you get in his or her arms is just out of this world. However, do not forget that he or she makes at least a dozen other people feel the same way you feel every day. Rubbing oil and massaging someone’s naked body is sure to arouse some feelings in you, especially if you find them attractive. If a client shares the feelings of attraction with his or her massage therapist, then little can be done to prevent the infidelity that is about to happen. Either the marriage will end because of infidelity or the spouse of massage therapists will become tired of feeling jealous. 11 Likes 3 Shares
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| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Nobody: 5:26am On Jul 18, 2015 |
4. Bartender. So you fell in love with a bartender and got married? Brace yourself for issues in your marriage because his or her job might seem harmless for now, but in time it is likely going to cause serious relationship issues that will lead to a divorce. Your typical bar is the place where people go to get drunk, hit on anyone or everyone around them, lose control, and expect to go home and have sex with someone new.As much as you trust your spouse and he or she respects your marriage, bartenders will get hit on so many times and chances are that he or she will give in eventually. Furthermore, since the pay here is not so good and the hours are not friendly to a marriage, bartenders and their spouses will start to pull apart and eventually get a divorce. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Nobody: 5:29am On Jul 18, 2015 |
5. Dancers. Dancing is very entertaining, especially when it is done well. However, as the audiences enjoy what they see on stage, the dancers are probably breaking down on the inside because they have serious relationship problems that have the potential to end their marriages. Dancing requires a high level of team work, time, deep emotions, and physical contact, qualities that can make dancers develop feelings for each other despite their marital status. Furthermore, some very sexy dancing genres and styles not only make the audiences want to get up and close with the dancers, but they also mess up with the dancers’ feelings and emotions when they have to repeat the moves over and over again with their dancing partners. If the dancers do not break off their marriage because they have feelings for someone else, their spouses will break off their marriages because of trust issues. 4 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by psucc(m): 5:38am On Jul 18, 2015 |
One was not meant to do any job. They are meant for certain category of people of a lifestyle. 1 Like |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by makzeze: 5:51am On Jul 18, 2015 |
adultery 2 Likes |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by tayoxx(m): 6:03am On Jul 18, 2015 |
Me marry dancer chai God forbid....everybody no say dancers for Nigeria na olosho na...confirm ashana 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by boboLIL(m): 6:15am On Jul 18, 2015 |
i wan mari a nurse cef...if God define ur marriage,notin lyk divorce... 9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Nobody: 6:21am On Jul 18, 2015 |
I naija here you got Pilots, sailors, soldiers, doctors, bankers, politicians, pastors, heck anyone who has money or appears to have money 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Nobody: 6:33am On Jul 18, 2015 |
6. Waitress/Waiter. People say that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, a saying that carries a lot of truth in it. When a waitress serves a man well, treats him like a king, and flirts with him a bit, it opens up a number of possibilities. Furthermore, even waiters who treat their customers with respect, make them smile, and make them feel important can sometimes get much more than a good tip for the great service. It is possible for these jobs to unknowingly be the source of conflict at home because workers never get to go home with huge salaries, their jobs involve having to stand all day and take numerous orders, they have really bad working hours, and they have to tolerate rude and ignorant customers on a daily basis. The above stress and pressure makes it hard for the waitresses and waiters to concentrate on their marriages. 1 Like 1 Share
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| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Samiceman: 6:52am On Jul 18, 2015 |
Booked |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Nobody: 7:27am On Jul 18, 2015 |
Keep it coming bro.. |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by eyenibibio(m): 7:35am On Jul 18, 2015 |
This is stereotyping at it's highest form . Anywhere, i'm expecting a counter thread on this. 7 Likes |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by shikshark: 8:01am On Jul 18, 2015 |
agbero and omo onile nko? 1 Like |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Nobody: 8:36am On Jul 18, 2015 |
7. Law Enforcement And Military. Long deployments away from their families contributed to sharply increasing divorce rates among enlisted soldiers and officers, according to reports from 2005 and 2008 published by "USA Today." Jeff Shannon, a police officer and licensed marriage and family therapist in California, in a blog post republished by "Law Enforcement Today," blames "police personality" for high rates of divorce among law enforcement officers. According to Shannon, citing John Gottman's book "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work," men who refused to share control with their wives had an 81 percent chance of divorce. 3 Likes
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| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Nobody: 8:42am On Jul 18, 2015 |
8. Psychiatrist/Psychologist. These professionals are on this list despite being the ones that all other professionals on this list should run to when they need help to overcome mental and emotional issues that may be affecting their marriages. Psychiatrists and psychologists can be very difficult people to be married to because they will tend to treat their spouses like their patients, and consider their spouses as the ones with the problem; never themselves. It is also possible for a psychiatrist or a psychologist to manipulate his or her spouse because he or she has the trainingneeded to get into people’s heads, a situation that can be very disturbing to a spouse. Furthermore, since a patient is supposed to open up to these professionals, their patients might disclose too much information and start getting involved in activities that could threaten their marriages. www.livestrong.com/article/263455-top-five-jobs-with-high-chance-of-divorce/ 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by captcochrane(m): 8:43am On Jul 18, 2015 |
Sile12: Why always them  |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Nobody: 8:47am On Jul 18, 2015 |
9. Tobacco/Food/Factory Worker. Factory workers are not always exposed to environments that encourage them to givein to sexual temptation as are many other professions on this list. These professionals are forced out of their marriages owing to frustrations generated by their working environment. Factory workers are not some of the best paid people anywhere in the world, and their seriously long hours and tedious jobs only contribute to them getting home tired, angry, and frustrated. In addition to bringing their frustrations home, many of these workers will lack the time and moneyto make their marriages loving and exciting, a situation that will begin to tear down the marriage slowly. When a problemcomes up in the relationship, the frustrations from both sides will make a problem seem bigger than it actually is and eventually lead to a divorce. 2 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by captcochrane(m): 8:47am On Jul 18, 2015 |
Ni Sile12: Hmmmm, dunno about the psychologists, but psychiatrist would not likely go through that, most are so "thick" 3 Likes |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by winetapper: 9:38am On Jul 18, 2015 |
Nairaland Moderators too 29 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Caracta(f): 9:41am On Jul 18, 2015 |
I'm waiting for you to include Bankers and Marketers in Nigeria especially. 15 Likes |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Funjosh(m): 9:55am On Jul 18, 2015 |
This is another Thread. Am Expecting to see Sailor among them, I have a sailor friend he sas left the shore of this country since February while the wife was still pregnant, the wife gave birth april my guy still nova come back o. But whenever he returns, it's always with a lot of money and goodies I still respect the spouse of these people.  29 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by WIZGUY69(m): 12:37pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
Sile12. Remaining 1. Ashewo  2 Likes |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Syphax(m): 1:42pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
Nurses?OP,are u kidding me? 2 Likes |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by ijustdey: 3:55pm On Jul 18, 2015 |
Syphax:maybe you need to visit the hospital and see the imprint of these nurses 4 Likes |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Nobody: 11:55am On Jul 20, 2015 |
'Programmers' should be on the list... 2 Likes |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by tuoyoojo(m): 6:55pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Well na condition make crayfish bend. When looking for comfort, a price has to be paid. Its hard to marry a nurse esp when she is on light duty but d gud tin is dat, when she is "off-duty", u wud be adequately compensated 1 Like 2 Shares |
| Re: Some Professions That Will Likely Lead You To Divorce. by Nobody: 7:17pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
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