INTROVERT:
Tell them

Dharniel:

mystage:
Havent been on nairaland since 2013, i must be deceiving myself if i fail to admit dis is without doubt the best topic hv ever read. @op, thumps up to u. bar man abeg giv op 360 champagnes on my behalf.

Cholls:
my brother thumbs-up to you na.

360ng:
The moment you agree to date a married man,you agree to be a second class woman and every second class person is classified as a person of lower values.

Now look at it this way.If he is with you and his wife calls, he lies that he is still in the office or on an official assignment. u dare not interrupt his conversation or query him but you can't call him when he is at home.......

My sister you be toy?

He sneaks you from his car into his hotel room but gives his wife his entire home.......

My sister grow up please He visits you at home and you introduce him to friends and neighbors as your boyfriend thereby blocking your chances of getting a genuine suitor yet you don't even know the name of the street where he lives......

My sister how long will you continue to sacrifice your future?

He takes you out and buys you assorted types of alcoholic drinks yet he will never allow his wife taste even a bottle of alcoholic drink, common sense should tell you he is only doing that to get you drunk so he can truly destroy you in bed.....

My sister Na your body good pass for experiment?

He gets you pregnant and gives you money for abortion but when his wife gets pregnant he celebrates and gives her money for antenatal and baby things........

My sister remember he is already raising his family oh Just in case you don't know, he describes your reactions during sex when he is with his friends but will never mention whatever happens between him and his wife......

My sister na your matter dem take dey drink beer He gives you a few cash and you're happy not knowing that whatever money he gives you is what he calls "Body no be firewood allowance" (Crumbs from the wife's table)You have his picture on you phone and saved his number as "My Sweetheart" yet your picture cannot be found on his phone and your number issaved on his phone as generator mechanic orrefuse disposer........

My sister you be learner?

PLEASE give yourself a proper re-evaluation Today.

Whynotthetruth:


Since you have learnt all these...I think is time I meet your family starting with your parents...let's move this ministry to permanent site... thanks for saying Yes...let's go there...

360ng:

You're indeed funny.

Whynotthetruth:


Yes...and serious too

360ng:


So, tell me how you hope to achieve that?

Jarizod:
wise words coming from a fine gehl

Rare

Gurgle:
but why wouldn't he allow his wife to take alcohol

mystage:

its natural. even guys to some extent dont take a girl they luv to places where tinz like alcohol and smoking are found. its called grooming her for a better future 2gether.

Gurgle:


but what does it actually mean

what will happen to their future if she takes alcohol

mystage:

to me it doesnt realli mean anything bt u knw dis is africa and we gat lots of tradition. its a popular believe in africa dat responsible ladies/wives/mothers/ dont indulges in stuff lik takin alcohol and smoking. most guys/men just cant withstand seeing someone they luv or their wives indulging in alcohol drinking and smoking,..me inclusive.

Gurgle:


really

I understand the smoking part but im surprised about the alcohol

when I came back a lot of my family offered it to me, even at home my dad often offers me some when hes taking it

hmm #learning