what are de signs that u get from your cheating partner? mine was acting a bit weird, when we meet it's either he puts his phone on silent or vibrate. and wen i went into his house. he wud switch de fone off at nyt. so one of de gud days, he came home drunk and he forgot to switch his phone off ha ha thatz hw i caught him. de messages and de phone calls frm other chick were so hurtful ane the pics damn i decided to delete everything. i deleted all de contacts, de messages and even de pics then i switchd de phone off. in de morning i acted as if i knw nothing. he didn even had de guts to ask. de phone was brand new inside. thats hw i caught him, wat r ur experiencez guys?

I have never been in such a situation, but I am sure I will be able to tell ( 100% of the time sha) cos I will very close to him so it will be easy to predict his moves.

but . . . . na wa for ur guy o. Switching his fone off wen u are around is sure a big sign

@Dream

Nice one,

But does that stopped him from cheating,

What of if I derail ur thread a little bit,

Like: What should I do to stopped my partner from cheating on me, if I caught him,

There are a lot of resources in NL.

There will be help,

@aus123 i support ur question
My ans
learn to always call him sweet pet names like HEARTBEAT, MY BREADTH and whenever he is not there call him on his phone and say honey i am choking and if he ask y tell him cos i cant breath and if he says y tell him cos my breadth is not here and bet you girl friend that will make his head go gaga.

The truth is maybe you are not playing your role well as his gf or is he just good at cheating.

aus123:

@Dream

Nice one,

But does that stopped him from cheating,

What of if I derail ur thread a little bit,

Like: What should I do to stopped my partner from cheating on me, if I caught him,

There are a lot of resources in NL.

There will be help,

You can’t stop a cheat from doing his thing. If you want to stick with him despite his indiscretions then you have to remove your mind from that. Stop checking his calls, stop watching for signs, stoop snooping around on him. Just let him be.

I have a friend who insists that her BF travels with Condoms anytime he’s going out of town. Infact when she packs for him, she puts condoms in the bag. When I asked her why she does that she said with or without her consent, he’ll still cheat, so he’s just making sure that the cheats ‘safely’.    

But you have to be careful, if he dosent respect yu enough to hide these thinsg from you, then its time for you to walk!!


@ Tgirl you've not met a professional. Trust me some guys are damn good at this thing. Infact you'll be surprised what a guy can do to cover his flirtings.

ha ha cheating guys are good at what they do. my partner cheated on me with this other chick for more than a year behind my back. so what do u call that? he's a top dawg. jack of all trades

uju I KNOW THAT HE WON'T STOP BUT I KNOW BY NOW THAT HE HAS LEARNED HIS LESSON. I'M BAD BABY

UrDreamGal:

what are de signs that u get from your cheating partner? mine was acting a bit weird, when we meet it's either he puts his phone on silent or vibrate. and wen i went into his house. he wud switch de fone off at nyt. so one of de gud days, he came home drunk and he forgot to switch his phone off ha ha thatz hw i caught him. de messages and de phone calls frm other chick were so hurtful ane the pics damn i decided to delete everything. i deleted all de contacts, de messages and even de pics then i switchd de phone off. in de morning i acted as if i knw nothing. he didn even had de guts to ask. de phone was brand new inside. thats hw i caught him, wat r ur experiencez guys?

WOW. , . Never been in that situation so i wudnt know.
but i guess you shud b able to know

If you very suspicious about your partners cellphone/ computer behaviour, then you must be in the right track! http://www.solutionbay.org/problems/how-will-i-know-if-my-partners-cheating-on-me try this link. Maybe you might caught your partner's suspicious behaviour.

you will know,its very clear when we are cheating on a woman expect you are not close to him.

his attitude

We guys can be very good players if we want to and can do just about anything to cover our tracks. The best method is say or do things that will make her think you're kidding or just testing her trust level, after a while she'll dismiss your actions on basis of jokes. But when a guy finds out she's the jealous type, you will more than you have wanted to, show her love and express it in a way that flatters her. If anyone lets her in on any of your escapades she will find it hard to believe. However, smarter guys won't show you any kind of signs. We can always password our text message compartment or create another folder where we save these "special" messages and put a lock on it. It's a little complicated for a guy to put into practice let alone for a woman to detect. _{Guyz! Stop the cheating now, will ya?}

TheSeeker:

We guys can be very good players if we want to and can do just about anything to cover our tracks. The best method is say or do things that will make her think you're kidding or just testing her trust level, after a while she'll dismiss your actions on basis of jokes. But when a guy finds out she's the jealous type, you will more than you have wanted to, show her love and express it in a way that flatters her. If anyone lets her in on any of your escapades she will find it hard to believe. However, smarter guys won't show you any kind of signs. We can always password our text message compartment or create another folder where we save these "special" messages and put a lock on it. It's a little complicated for a guy to put into practice let alone for a woman to detect. _{Guyz! Stop the cheating now, will ya?}

A couple of more good tips:

Have your wife/GF wear the same fragrance that your OW wears or have your OW change hers so that when you have your LovePeddler in your bed your Wife/GF wont smell a different scent.

spikedcylinder:

@ topic

Attach a micro (by that I mean invisible to the naked eye) camera to their body. That why you can decipher through millions of satellite images and advanced technology what your partner has been doing.

On the other hand, you can use plain 'ol magun.

You're a bad girl! Sowwy but I don't think 'ol magun works on males. Satellite images won't work baby, is she Sarah Palin?

MrCrackles:

Poster

It will be written on your partner's forehead!

And on his manliness too?

sistawoman:

A couple of more good tips:

Have your wife/GF wear the same fragrance that your OW wears or have your OW change hers so that when you have your LovePeddler in your bed your Wife/GF wont smell a different scent.

WTF!!!! I never thought of that. Maybe I will try that in my future escapades.

UrDreamGal:

what are de signs that u get from your cheating partner? mine was acting a bit weird, when we meet it's either he puts his phone on silent or vibrate. and wen i went into his house. he wud switch de fone off at nyt. so one of de gud days, he came home drunk and he forgot to switch his phone off ha ha thatz hw i caught him. de messages and de phone calls frm other chick were so hurtful ane the pics damn i decided to delete everything. i deleted all de contacts, de messages and even de pics then i switchd de phone off. in de morning i acted as if i knw nothing. he didn even had de guts to ask. de phone was brand new inside. thats hw i caught him, wat r ur experiencez guys?

Now i find that emboldened part hilarious!

tubabie:

Now i find that emboldened part hilarious!

Why am I surprised? I wonder if he has stopped cheating since then.

TheSeeker:

Why am I surprised? I wonder if he has stopped cheating since then.

Did I imply anywhere in my post that it was a deterrent? I only stated that i found the action of the OP funny!

Another tip:

If your OW is trust worthly introduce the OW and Wife/GF so that they can be good friends and then your OW can tell you if the wife is suspecting anything.

For instance wife needs a new computer OW works with you and is great with PC introduce wife to OW for PC shopping. Women will be women and they will hit it off. And your LovePeddler can tell you when you slipping.

tubabie:

Did I imply anywhere in my post that it was a deterrent? I only stated that i found the action of the OP funny!

I found it very amusing too. But was that really necessary? The OP sounds to me like she's 17.

sistawoman:

Another tip:

If your OW is trust worthly introduce the OW and Wife/GF so that they can be good friends and then your OW can tell you if the wife is suspecting anything.

For instance wife needs a new computer OW works with you and is great with PC introduce wife to OW for PC shopping. Women will be women and they will hit it off. And your LovePeddler can tell you when you slipping.

I have done that before and I tell you the escapade lasted for as long as we wanted it to until we got tired of each other. It's the second sweetest thing to do next to making love with your girlfriend/wife.

well wen she stats saving ur name wit femine names like John or sweet hart 2 alero docas!

UrDreamGal:

uju I KNOW THAT HE WON'T STOP BUT I KNOW BY NOW THAT HE HAS LEARNED HIS LESSON. I'M BAD BABY

What lessons might you think he learned? Be realistic to yourself. You just let him in on his flaws and I bet you that he'll be better next time.

;d

How Do U Know If Your Partner Is Cheating?

You can never stop a cheat from cheating. Period!
If ur partner is faithful to u, just trust it in ur heart dat it was his/her personal decision.

yes, cos u cant force it!

his character will change then he will start mischeveouse attitude

i dont think so i dont have the blood or mind for that check yourself very well something must be qwrong somewhere

women are generally more emotional creatures-they generally cant have mindless sex(emotions r involved-that's why to them it's not just sex,it's making love),so for a woman to cheat on you,she's disconnected from you on some level. Those are the signs to look for-an emotional disconnection;maybe she doesnt talk to you as much as she used to,she's no longer interested in both of you doing stuff together,and when you're with her,there's this indifference,like she's not even there,so the signs of emotional disconnection,that's what you should look for.