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Re: Husband And Wife Issue by cococandy(f): 7:41pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
freecocoa: But you read my first post on the thread na. It was only a matter of trying to get what she was saying. God forbid I support such behavior from the lady. When I'll even use my own money to treat my MIL, na my mama I go come stingy for. I'll starve to take care of that woman. |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by Kimoni: 7:53pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
I can't keep up with alternative monikers walahi |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by laide4: 7:55pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Kimoni:He started it. He's jobless and i am super jobless. Where is that 39years old medical doctor wannabee? |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by Kimoni: 7:57pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
laide4: Laide I am cracking my brain to know who you are Kulyie likes long and funny monikers, Francistony prefers posh English names So Biko, Laide who are you naa |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by cococandy(f): 7:58pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
laide4: He even thinks folks don't know he's the one Dude has been pained from the last encounter he had with me where I called out his hypocritical Christian ass. Na to hide now dey throw jab e fit do. 5mins you know I know it's you. But when you get your balls back, come back and I'll treat you like this embarrassing pathetic episode of your life didn't happen. |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by damiso(f): 8:00pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
This is a bit extreme as the bills in question is the wife mother's medical bills.. But there are loads of women who believe that any money they spend in the household is a 'loan' to their husbands. Some will not cook a certain type of food that THEY feel like eating even if they have the money because the feeding money hubby dropped is not enough for it (don't get it sha in this one short life that we have if I was not married won't I feed myself ni ) . Countless who will stay in darkness and not buy diesel till the husband gets back even if they have the money (again who is in the darkness ) That said some men encourage that 'almighty alpha behaviour I must provide everything behaviour'(we had one on another thread today ) they feel that's the only way they can get 'respect' . I know I would be super irritated by it as a man especially if I know you have the money.its like leech behaviour to me. I don't get it sha and never will but we are all different. I was brought not to feel entitled to anything and if my hubby does things for my parents I don't take it for granted as his 'responsibility' I even know working women whose husbands pay ALL or most of the big ticket bills that still get upset that they don't get an allowance. Now I am not saying you can't get each other gifts ( my husband puts money in my acct sometimes and says buy yourself something nice) but to actually resent the man for not doing it when you have your own money to do as you wish is something I can't get. Maybe am too proud sha 1 Like |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by laide4: 8:01pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Kimoni:I am francisT. |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by freecocoa(f): 8:01pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
cococandy:I did, was just kinda surprised at the post I misinterpreted. This kind woman need deliverance(eventhough I don't believe in it) I just have to make this exception. |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by cococandy(f): 8:03pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
freecocoa:she needs her bum bum to be whipped. That's what will cure her. |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by Kimoni: 8:04pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by laide4: 8:04pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
cococandy:He's not smart. He was accusing me of being a moniker just like 5mins did. 5mins was on science/tech section thread i told sum1 about my birthday and he was using the lines to yab me. Dumb dude! 2 Likes |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by freecocoa(f): 8:05pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
cococandy:Serious whipping o, if I were the husband, I won't even pay her back for putting up an attitude over it. |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by laide4: 8:06pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Kimoni:He knows i am the one. I am not pretending. |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by kaboninc(m): 8:20pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
bukatyne: The husband believes he's the C in C ONLY within his nuclear family and NOT the extended family. So he can only CONTRIBUTE and not ASSUME FULL responsibility. That is the mentality! 1 Like |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by cococandy(f): 8:21pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
laide4:me I know the thread that's paining him. It was right after that he started targeting me. Emotional baby imp 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by bukatyne(f): 8:27pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
TooNoisy: Madam, How would I respond to you without quoting you? Ode 2 Likes |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by TooNoisy(f): 8:28pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
damiso: Dami, even whatsoever mentality, it should not get to extended family. The woman may have brothers, sisters or even a father. Should the man now shoulder all their responsibilities because he married one of them? C in C even in the extreme is applicable to the nuclear family. Very soon if the wife gives money to a friend or a beggar on the street she will collect it back. May be she also collects her church offering back too. By the way she is working o! 1 Like |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by TooNoisy(f): 8:31pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
bukatyne: You are Sooo not funny! Mor0n! 5 Likes |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by Efeswerve(m): 8:33pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
nltrue: Dont mind francis. The 17yr old paaained teenaga Loolz |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by nltrue: 8:35pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
laide4: Useless son of a LovePeddler,who are you?You are nothing here and outside NL. So he spent his Bday here and alone?ahahahahahahahha lonely dude. What about your uncle who dis-virgin you?didn't he give you your usual dose? Shameless useless lonely vagabond with no father figure,struggling in life.You think you are young?your mates are done with university and working,making money.You kept repeating classes because your mother can't afford to pay your school fees. A 23 years old transgendered with no ambition,he started a blog then failed,a failure you are. |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by Efeswerve(m): 8:37pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Francistony yuh obsession wit 5minsmadness knowz no bounds Yuh will kip on creating new monikerz til yuh leave diz site 5 Likes |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by nltrue: 8:38pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
Efeswerve: 17 years old,who told you?he has been deceiving people here,the gay is 23 years old jobless,useless,lonely she.male. He is a failure,his father abandon him and his mum when he was told that francistony is a cursed child.His mother couldn't get pregnant so she had to sleep with the drunkard by the road side. 2 Likes |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by laide4: 8:39pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
nltrue:A worthless shecow scared to post with her real moniker. Lonely plus depressed simpleton. You are nothing but an ill-bred gutter rat with no achievement to its laurel, nincompoop. Go choke yourself in satan's heine. Goblin. |
Re: Husband And Wife Issue by bukatyne(f): 8:40pm On Jul 20, 2015 |
freecocoa: Households are run in different modes depending on the belief system of the couple. Some men believe they are Commander in Chief and rule their household with a heavy hand. Their word is law and they are the sole provider e.g. a colleague of mine said his wife cannot watch teleemundo because He doesn't like it and it is 'his money' and He paid for it. I willbet that the wife will never pay the subscription If it expires neither will the husband allow it; it has broken his control over What his wife watches. Extend it to other things. C in Cs generally maintain their rule with money. In some families, the husband is responsible for all the wife's family especially nuclear. The husband wanting to 'borrow' tHe money from his wife also speaks volumes. 3 Likes |
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