Dharniel:
the love for their kids is for the kids...

rockstarB:

Meaning?? Do u know some women now see their husbands as a mere sperm donor?

chibwike:
they carried that child in their womb for nine months

naijaboiy:
Hmmm...I wouldn't like my wife to neglect me and transfer all her love to my kids.

I would also avoid anything that will make such a thing happen.

falconey:

I think I can.

rockstarB:
This question have.been bothering me and I dnt really know how to get answers to it. I have noticed that in this society married women/mothers place their kids above their husbands. Maybe am not able to get the point cos am not yet married with kids.
But it still doesn't make sense The husband come first bfr the kids, you aren't the sole owner of the.baby so why should a.woman shift her attention from.her husband just because of a kid that belongs to both herself and her husband
That is why I have also noticed that mothers tends to take all the glory in raising and bringing up kids, you see several messages on mothers.day, several pictures taken with mummy and so on which isn't always so on fathers day. No single father's day topic on NL frontage
Some mothers even downgrade their husbands infrnt of the kids . You distance yourself from your husband in the course of being a good mother to your kids that is why some men end up cheating cos there isn't love in the family no more, unlike when Twas just you and ur husband with no baby yet.

naijaboiy:

I think I can.

falconey:

naijaboiy:

Tell what?

Is it not possible for you to make your wife love you as well as love your children at at the same time?

The reason why so many men don't get love from their wives after marriage is because they neglect their wives and abandon all the responsibility of taking care of the kids on her shoulders.

When the children are growing up they see all these things and tend to be closer to their mums.

I won't let that happen in my own family. My children will love both me and my mum unconditionally.

It's very simple. I wouldn't neglect my family.

It's not all about providing the money for their upkeep. A man has to be there for them too. And I won't slack on that.

falconey:

Well i'm not going to be among those men that will allow work get in between I and my family.

To each his own.

miblolo:
Thats because most men do not treat their wives after marriage,as suçh women turn to their kids as source of happiness.

rockstarB:
This question have.been bothering me and I dnt really know how to get answers to it. I have noticed that in this society married women/mothers place their kids above their husbands. Maybe am not able to get the point cos am not yet married with kids.
But it still doesn't make sense The husband come first bfr the kids, you aren't the sole owner of the.baby so why should a.woman shift her attention from.her husband just because of a kid that belongs to both herself and her husband
That is why I have also noticed that mothers tends to take all the glory in raising and bringing up kids, you see several messages on mothers.day, several pictures taken with mummy and so on which isn't always so on fathers day. No single father's day topic on NL frontage
Some mothers even downgrade their husbands infrnt of the kids . You distance yourself from your husband in the course of being a good mother to your kids that is why some men end up cheating cos there isn't love in the family no more, unlike when Twas just you and ur husband with no baby yet.

falconey:
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donholy28:
No love on earth is greater than a mother's love

Gurgle:
if I were behaving like that it would be because

the guy had been maltreating me all this while and now I at least have someone to share my life with in the house

so I would just start ignoring him and concentrate on my children

if he was a good guy I would try and split my attention

Gurgle:
if I were behaving like that it would be because

the guy had been maltreating me all this while and now I at least have someone to share my life with in the house

so I would just start ignoring him and concentrate on my children

if he was a good guy I would try and split my attention

falconey:

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Rainess:
The bond between parent and child is greater than that between man and wife

suzzy16:
yeah,correct woman