Most Nigerians( especially men) right off partners that already have kids from other relationships.

These category of people became Fathers/Mothers in different ways. Some had the baby while they were young(before marriage) & some had the baby after marriage but got widowed/divorced/separated.

Sometimes, I sit and ask myself: Why do we discriminate against these set of people? cos I'm also guilty of having this mentality.
I feel having a child doesn't stop a man or woman from making a good husband/wife. In fact, it's possible for a mother of one a.k.a “After one” alias “My X1” to make a better wife, better partner and build a better home than a virgin lady.

Ladies & Gentlemen, can you marry someone that has a child from another relationship? Tell us your reasons and your conditions

Olutola88:
Most Nigerians( especially men) right off partners that already have kids from other relationships.

These category of people became Fathers/Mothers in different ways. Some had the baby while they were young(before marriage) & some had the baby after marriage but got widowed/divorced/separated.

Sometimes, I sit and ask myself: Why do we discriminate against these set of people? cos I'm also guilty of having this mentality.
I feel having a child doesn't stop a man or woman from making a good husband/wife. In fact, it's possible for a mother of one a.k.a “After one” alias “My X1” to make a better wife, better partner and build a better home than a virgin lady.

Ladies & Gentlemen, can you marry someone that has a child from another relationship? Tell us your reasons and your conditions

...only if she is lightskin & she gots Big Nyash, big Boobsi, hip, heavy thigh plus yellow lips & flat stomach plus real hair & natural smile plus nice legs & kissable face plus straight legs and look like wifey mterial... HELL YES!!!

Yes I can

if she get money wella, then we can arrange something...

If there's mutual understanding.

But to me
A widower....Yes
Divorced/separated....No
Small time u go see the babymama knocking with baggages to own a room.

Mynd44:
Yes I can

Don't forget, I said give us your reasons and conditions. Look @ the Gentleman below you, na kudi, owo, ego ihm dey follow

Small thing

No, I can't.
The stress of being in such union is quite hectic, especially on the child.
I'm speaking from a cultural point of view.

Mynd44:
Yes I can

ermm bro..not sure I u read well but thread is about marryin a woman.....not marryn a man!! (no ofeinse)

MrCork:



...only if she is lightskin & she gots Big Nyash, big Boobsi, hip, heavy thigh plus yellow lips & flat stomach plus real hair & natural smile plus nice legs & kissable face plus straight legs and look like wifey mterial... HELL YES!!!

lol! Don't worry bro, you'll get her if you can go to heaven to tell God to help you create this specification

Having a kid should not be a hindrance as long as there is mutual understanding between us.
Women with kids are better lovers......... Yes I will marry her.

Olutola88:
lol! Don't worry bro, you'll get her if you can go to heaven to tell God to help you create this specification

...correction..am all ready datin 2 lightskin females wit kids...One Nigerian & one jamaican

i can marry a widower with kid but not divorced or seperated

I am loving the woman and no obstacle can change or stop that (So far she is not a demon). The child might be a blessing in disguise


But after a better explanation on how the child became a bastard.

Why U wanna know

Olutola88:
Most Nigerians( especially men) right off partners that already have kids from other relationships.

These category of people became Fathers/Mothers in different ways. Some had the baby while they were young(before marriage) & some had the baby after marriage but got widowed/divorced/separated.

Sometimes, I sit and ask myself: Why do we discriminate against these set of people? cos I'm also guilty of having this mentality.
I feel having a child doesn't stop a man or woman from making a good husband/wife. In fact, it's possible for a mother of one a.k.a “After one” alias “My X1” to make a better wife, better partner and build a better home than a virgin lady.

Ladies & Gentlemen, can you marry someone that has a child from another relationship? Tell us your reasons and your conditions

Sure if the kid is beautiful/handsome and the baby mama a stunner then I ain't gat no problem man.

Yes I can, if other factors click.

Having child from previous relationship isn't a disease.

Yes, but only if there's no crazy baby mama in the picture. However, a guy with children from different women is a no-no. I'm quite judgmental about that. It tells me he is irresponsible. Not a quality I find enticing.

In all honesty, I can never! if she hides it and I later discover, end of murrafucking marriage

Yes, if she is still a virgin.

Olutola88:
Don't forget, I said give us your reasons and conditions. Look @ the Gentleman below you, na kudi, owo, ego ihm dey follow

She is a human being. Is that reason enough?

depending on circumstances surrounding d child and d woman in question. yes i could.

Exponental:
depending on circumstances surrounding d child and d woman in question.
yes i could.

Yes, we know! Give us ur terms