amokeme:
if he is hard working, full of potentials, and respects me (am more into respect than the love ish) why not? I will, its only a matter of time and we will both be balanced

Midehi:
What is she talking about

Niklausa:




You all keep complaining that ladies have the mindset of following rich men around.

Now a lady opens a thread urging members of her gender to desist from such and channel their mindset towards investing on themselves so they would serve as helpers to their men and not beggars.

Yet you guys still don't want to believe her, despite the fact she is doing what you desire.

What else do you want? For her to write a book? Or for her to go on CNN and swear with a holy book, for all of you to see?

It's not everything you should find fault in.

amokeme:
if he is hard working, full of potentials, and respects me (am more into respect than the love ish) why not? I will, its only a matter of time and we will both be balanced

ShutTheFhuckUp:

ohk so wah else now....

darkenedrebel:


what she means is that the womenfolks should focus on building their own wealth instead for waiting for a Rich man to come pick them up.. ✘

LadyBoss1:
Op this is what I like to see
Lazy girls take note ohh .. Hope say una dey hear

Op i hope ur working n this is not just words tho

Niklausa:


What do you mean?

darkenedrebel:


what she means is that the womenfolks should focus on building their own wealth instead of waiting for a Rich man to come pick them up.. ✘

Midehi:
Don't cast all your financial burden
on a "rich husband" or a
"boyfriend"


lets really face the facts here, the above statement is not 50% correct, reasons;
a caring rich husband/boyfriend knows his wife/girlfriend may not be financially bouyant at a particular time and need to financially take up her needs till she is bouyant;cos she will definately not like to remain a burden, a reasonable & financially woman will never want to be a burden to her man. so why the above statement, maybe only a golddiggers.


so women bn tagged "a glorified beggar" is nonsense cos if she is financially balanced, i see no reason she wd want to be a beggar;....asking her husband/boyfriend money is just because she dont have it that moment; and confides in him to help out.


glorified beggar can be the ones doing bombiyala out there not the one asking their hole digging caring boyfriends for financial help.

Niklausa:


Post the link where you copied and pasted this from.

Cause I know a bimbo like you can't write this of the top of her empty head.

Midehi:

hehehehehe...you just made me laugh, i really dont want to quote nymph like you cos you dont worth it.

i think am done with you.

Cutehector:
Can a lady date a man without directly or indirectly askn him for financial assistance?

Cc
Ladyboss1
Midehi
Amokeme
Redgem

Niklausa:


Were you not the one that quoted and insulted me first?

Now learn to use what remains of your common sense, stay off my mentions and mind your fvcking business.

Midehi:

one more word for you 'be who you are, whether you are ugly or not,be proud of who you are.


tchao.

Midehi:
Don't cast all your financial burden
on a "rich husband" or a
"boyfriend"


lets really face the facts here, the above statement is not 50% correct, reasons;
a caring rich husband/boyfriend knows his wife/girlfriend may not be financially bouyant at a particular time and need to financially take up her needs till she is bouyant;cos she will definately not like to remain a burden, a reasonable & financially woman will never want to be a burden to her man. so why the above statement, maybe only a golddigger.


so women bn tagged "a glorified beggar" is nonsense cos if she is financially balanced, i see no reason she wd want to be a beggar;....asking her husband/boyfriend money is just because she dont have it that moment; and confides in him to help out.


glorified beggar can be the ones doing bombiyala out there not the one asking their hole digging caring boyfriends for financial help.

amokeme:
I get your point, and this post is not for that category of ladies. My post is for the lazy minded ones with the mentality of "since my husband/boyfriend is rich, I have no business trying to make my own money" or the "I must marry a rich man or have a rich boyfriend for my life to be better"

Iv met ladies who are financially ok, but still have the silly mentality that, a woman must not spend her money on herself, they ll continue to ask the guys.. And they don't mind the insults(directly or indirectly) they get, as long as he drips the money.. A lot of guys have lost faith in Nigerian women because of this act.. And that is exactly what I mean by my post not the way you interpreted it.

Niklausa:


Look at who is talking....

I will rather be ugly in the face than be ugly and empty in the brain like you.

Learn to critically examine, compare and logically analyze before jumping into _stupid conclusions like you did yesterday.

Cutehector:
Can a lady date a man without directly or indirectly askn him for financial assistance?

Cc
Lady boss1
Mid ehi
Amo keme
Red gem

Midehi:

missclasssy

Cutehector:
Can a lady date a man without directly or indirectly askn him for financial assistance?

Cc
Ladyboss1
Midehi
Amokeme
Redgem

amokeme:
YES! YES YES..
Ok, maybe am speaking for myself,.. There is no guy that can boldly tell me he assisted me financially in anyway!

Midehi:

Aiit...but i still dont believe that such women exist, women who are lazy and dont want to make their own money even if there's opportunity to do so; in this present society....ok o!

vizkiz:

wait, you actually prefer a guy who respects you to a guy who loves you?
Hope you know these are two different things

Cutehector:
respect... I like this... Will u respect him too

Midehi:

and if a guy willingly want to assist you financially, will you accept? the truth please cos am learning here now.

amokeme:
YES! YES YES..
Ok, maybe am speaking for myself,.. There is no guy that can boldly tell me he assisted me financially in anyway!

redgem:



A lady can date a man without directly or indirectly asking him for money/financial assistance...

What some ladies desire is love, sex, companionship and not money cos they've got the money......her man pleads to her for him to spend his money on her..

Why are you called a man if you can't provide for your lady even though she has all the money in this world and she doesn't ask? I'm just saying

Only a broke ass nigga will complain about spending money on his lady.. And also ladies should not be financially dependent on their men, its a bad sh*t

amokeme:
Let's have this mind set.. And trust me, our men will love and respect us more..


Don't cast all your financial burden on a "rich husband" or a "boyfriend"

We should be help mates to our men and not glorified beggars...

Cutehector:
r u single?

MrCork:

amokeme:
it depends on who the person is, I mean, the kind of relationship between us. If he is a long time friend, I'll defiantly accept without hesitations (I can even ask him, because we v been friends for long and we both understand how we process information) but I cannot accept assistance from a friendly stranger or a distance friend.