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12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by gifttracy(f): 1:56pm On Jul 28, 2015
woman wants a Bad Boy who is also a Good Guy; here’s why:

1. Bad Boys add much needed drama into your life. You may say you don’t like drama, but that isn’t entirely true, is it? You like drama because drama is what makes you feel alive. It’s what makes you feel as if your life matters. Women love Bad Boys because they allow for an emotional roller coaster ride, which often creates the most memorable moments of our lives — something that is seemingly lacking with the more stable, Good Guys.

2. Good Guys know when to curb that drama. Drama, like all things, is only good in smaller doses. Being reminded we are alive by the emotions that the drama in our lives allows for is only great until it’s not. That’s why you need a Good Guy in your life. He’ll make sure to control his own emotions, words and actions so that the drama doesn’t push you over the edge and away from him.

3. Bad Boys will take you on adventures. They have a knack for thinking outside the box and forcing you to go outside your comfort zone. Most people don’t like to push themselves outside their comfort zones — it makes them feel uncomfortable. Having someone to push you to do the things you wouldn’t normally do allows for a much more fulfilling life.

4. Good Guys will keep you safe. Going on adventures is great… but Bad Boys are often very selfish individuals. They may take you on an adventure, but they may just leave you there. Good Guys, on the other hand, are just as worried about your safety as their own — if not even more so. You don’t just want a man who will push you out of your comfort zone, but one who will also stay by your side on your adventures.

5. Bad Boys are great in bed. Why? Because they’re willing to do and try things that most would consider taboo. Bad Boys are always looking to live out their fantasies and are likely to bring you to new heights of sexual experiences.

6. Good Guys will make love to you. While Bad Boys are all about sex, Good Guys are about making you feel like the amazing and beautiful woman you are. They aren’t just looking to make their sexual fantasies come true, but are also looking to make yours a reality.

7. Bad Boys will make you take risks. Having him by your side will more often than not give you the courage to attempt things you otherwise wouldn’t have been able to find the courage to even try to do. This could mean following some dreams you gave up on long before you started pursuing them.

8. Good Guys know when the risks aren’t worth the rewards. Some risks are worth taking while others aren’t — Good Guys know the difference and feel the need to warn you when they think you may be taking on too much of a gamble. We don’t just need someone in our lives to push us to follow our dreams, but also someone who will tell us when the timing just isn’t right or when the desired outcome is almost certainly unlikely.

9. Bad Boys make great friends. They’re fun to be around. They’re fun to party with, to have new experiences with and to let loose with. They’re the guys who will make sure you always have a fun time.

10. Good Guys make great partners. They are there to support you, to motivate you, to keep you on the right track. They have your back when times are good and when times are bad. They give you the benefit of the doubt and they trust you — a quality few people are willing to offer.

11. Bad Boys will make you feel as if you could lose them at any time. Again, you may think this is a feeling you don’t wish to experience… but that isn’t true. All women — and men for that matter — want to think they could lose the love of their lives. We need to believe we could lose them because it reminds us how much they mean to us. Security in a relationship is a great thing, but 100 percent certainty gets boring.

12. If Good Guys promise you they will never leave you, they will never leave you. The ideal partner is a partner you fear losing every day, but know in your heart will never leave you. Good Guys will be there for you until the end if they continue to find you deserving of their love. The problem is that once we feel entirely safe, we get bored. We need that bit of extra excitement — a bit of uncertainty — to keep the fire alive. You need to find a Bad Boy who managed to turn into a Good Guy in order to get the best of both world


make your choice wisely..

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Re: 12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by INTROVERT(f): 1:57pm On Jul 28, 2015
ok


No 12 sums it up perfectly. I still prefer a good guy over a bad guy any day anytime

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Re: 12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by peeparty(m): 1:57pm On Jul 28, 2015
coolsome girls wants a nice guy who will love her, treat her with respect and spend time with her because he wants to. Unfortunately for them, by the time they realize the mistake they’ve made, there are only assh*les.


btw how are you
Re: 12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by peeparty(m): 1:59pm On Jul 28, 2015
am sure you did not read this epistle
INTROVERT:
ok
just booking space
Re: 12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by Akkord4gov: 2:02pm On Jul 28, 2015
As solat...I will be back
Re: 12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by vizkiz: 2:03pm On Jul 28, 2015
girls are confused mehn! undecided

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Re: 12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by gifttracy(f): 2:09pm On Jul 28, 2015
peeparty:
coolsome girls wants a nice guy who will love her, treat her with respect and spend time with her because he wants to. Unfortunately for them, by the time they realize the mistake they’ve made, there are only assh*les.


btw how are you
fine dear..miss you
Re: 12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by Akkord4gov: 2:10pm On Jul 28, 2015
Ok oooo
Re: 12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by cepha4: 2:24pm On Jul 28, 2015
Ok
Re: 12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by ApcSucks: 2:31pm On Jul 28, 2015
INTROVERT:
ok


No 12 sums it up perfectly. I still prefer a good guy over a bad guy any day anytime


Talk true na
Re: 12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by 2dice(m): 3:01pm On Jul 28, 2015
Women WEy no no wetin Dem want..
Re: 12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by Jorussia(m): 3:38pm On Jul 28, 2015
most ladies that want to get married to a good guy,always end up with a bad guy as husbands, because they seem not to always realise that there is a difference between a boyfriend and a husband.

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Re: 12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by Andy790(m): 5:32pm On Jul 28, 2015
Just hook up with a very good badt guy....

That's a good guy + a badt guy....

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Re: 12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by babyfaceafrica: 5:38pm On Jul 28, 2015
Ladies are confused creatures...
Re: 12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by Nobody: 5:50pm On Jul 28, 2015
Not every girl wants a bad boy tho.......
Re: 12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by Nobody: 5:27pm On Nov 19, 2015
So trueeeee
Re: 12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by xpac01(m): 6:29pm On Nov 19, 2015
Am very good boy but definitely not lacking in any department listed above, but BTW, can these help in discovering our missing 105 soldiers
Re: 12 Reasons Why Every Girl Wants A Bad Boy, But Needs A Good Guy by gifttracy(f): 11:09am On Jun 22, 2016
yes so true

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