Geeks are familiar with the acronym ‘WYSIWYG (WIZ-ee-wig).’

It stands for “What You See Is What You Get”, meaning, when you a certain kind of editor for text and graphics, the final product will look more or less the same, be it on a printed document or web page.

Now, when it comes to sex, there is a slight difference where it becomes ‘WYGIWYG’ “What You Give Is What You Get”.

What this implies is that who, where or when you have sex is not as important as how you go about it – it then means that you get out as much as you give and the person you are with is not as important as how you handle the sexual experience.

How?

It takes two to tango. Have you ever heard that phrase? Well, it is true for the bedroom too. You cannot just get naked on the bed and expect your partner to do all the work. You must work together as a team. When your partner sees the complementary responses, he or she will go the extra mile.

Everything you do during sex is a feedback. Action speaks louder than words is not just a phrase. Do you know that body language says a lot? So when you are in bed, saying nothing, but acting in a certain way, you already have given a feedback. For example, spitting often can mean you find your partner disgusting. Also, keeping a straight face and moving mechanically may mean you’re just having sex for the sake of it. So ensure you give positive vibes and your partner will be encouraged to give more.

Sex is more of emotions than actions. Many people focus more on the physical aspects of sex than the emotional. This is wrong because even casual lovers want to see the desire, at least for the duration of the sex. Acting like a mechanized robot that moves only by instructions won’t encourage your partner at all.

You can achieve more sexually together than individually. Two heads are better than one will mean two lovers are better than one in the sex circles. This means that you are going to derive more pleasure from doing things to each other simultaneously than waiting to receive alone. How? Positions like 69 allow give-and-take MouthAction. Also complementary positions like the cowgirl/missionary alternated will leave you both satisfied.

Sexual adventures/fantasies are better shared. Two in the dark is better than one. Yes, when lovers experiment on shared sexual fantasies, they seem to enjoy it more. Talk about what you would have loved to do, however unconventional, and activate it – together.

Remember, What You Give Is What You Get!

You cannot expect to have the wonderful bedroom experience and not be willing to give yourself entirely.

It is either you have sex or not.

http://ngfolds.com/5-reasons-why-sex-is-wygiwyg-what-you-give-is-what-you-get/

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