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How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by HelpeeDeck(m): 8:45pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Matured and Responsible Person Will not insult me or comment in an irresponsible Manner to this post Nothing is more awkward than inviting a girl to your house for the first time, sitting down on the couch and saying, "Well, um, what do you want to talk about?" Turning on romantic music and dimming the lights might seem a bit smoother, but may seem like an obvious set-up. Make your girlfriend feel comfortable by breaking the ice as soon as she arrives, and you'll both be able to breathe easier Step 1 Create an interesting space. Hang art on the walls that might elicit questions such as "Did you paint this?" or "Where was that photo taken?" Put a few framed photos of family and friends around the room -- . If you play a musical instrument, keep it visible. There's nothing like demonstrating how to play the musical instruement to break the ice -- permanently. Step 2 Play a game. Leave a deck of cards or an interesting chess set on your coffee table. When she arrives, ask her if she'd like something to drink. Then, ask her if she wants to play a lightning game of chess. If she's interested, you automatically have something to do as you have fun playing or teaching her the rules of the game. Step 3 Ask her some questions. Good hosts do so by asking questions that come from a genuine sense of curiosity, Ask her how she got the scar on her elbow or whether she thinks she looks like her mom or her dad. Soon, you'll both be engrossed in conversation and any hint of discomfort will be gone. Keep your questions open-ended so the conversation doesn't stall. Step 4 Surprise her with a gift. Set a striking bouquet of flowers on your kitchen table, purchase a bottle of her favorite wine or wrap up that sculpture she was crazy about when you visited a local gallery. When she comes over, present her with your gift. Step 5 Ask her a favor," Try asking her opinion on whether you should go with blinds or curtains in the living room or if she minds helping you to finish organizing your DVD collection. Not only will the ice melt, but you'll have a chance to bond as you argue about whether or not "The Hunger Games" is a prediction of a coming mere commercial franchise. Step 6 Get adventurous in the kitchen and try making something new together. Find something you’ve never tried cooking before. Think of a new cuisine; perhaps the two of you could try Step 7 Get out your laptops and iPods and make playlists for each other. Then, next time your date is driving ,going anywhere,having boring time or hanging around with her friends she won’t be able to get you off her mind. Step8 Dont try to Rush her Into Bed with you,dont ever take advantage over her even when she is emotionally struck down on a first day in your house. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by CountDracula(m): 8:47pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Get a job 5 Likes |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by HelpeeDeck(m): 8:51pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
CountDracula: i have a good job, that even if you are my pa, it will feed and cloth you all the time you will be on this earth.. |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by CountDracula(m): 8:55pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
HelpeeDeck:Yeah. Typing trash is really lucrative in ur village |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by Cholls(m): 8:56pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
my brother am too lazy to do does just tell me how to fvck her straight when she enters my house. No Time my brother! 1 Like |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by Omotayor123(f): 8:59pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
OK na. You sound like a pro @Op |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by sinaj(f): 9:00pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
ur no. 4 iz kul |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by HelpeeDeck(m): 9:02pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
CountDracula: Thats what your poor empty IQ Tells..Cant Waste my time on a Dullard |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by HelpeeDeck(m): 9:04pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Omotayor123: lol...am not..just trying to help some people who may need it |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by HelpeeDeck(m): 9:06pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
sinaj: really, maybe you like gifts and surprises a lot |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by Omotayor123(f): 9:07pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
HelpeeDeck:You only help with what you have or know |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by sinaj(f): 9:11pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
HelpeeDeck:yea I love art works too |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by Nobody: 9:15pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
nice one, op earning her trust, on her first visit is the surest thing.....if you're able to control yourself......then, your weekends will be blessed with free lashing 2 Likes |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by Nobody: 9:16pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
HelpeeDeck: Just put drugs in her drink. |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by eddysernal(m): 9:26pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
CountDracula: you too get a job.if you had one then you wuldnt have had tym t read d post ...!!.get a job and live . @op nice one bro thumbs up 1 Like |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by willian10: 9:26pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
thanks, i hope dz works |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by afolwalex20(m): 9:27pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
sinaj: Girls and Gifts sha |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by kalufelix(m): 9:36pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
How do i rip off her bra?? This write up is not complete biko |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by sinaj(f): 9:40pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
afolwalex20:lol m in for bashing tonite |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by HelpeeDeck(m): 9:43pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
willian10: Try it, it might work for good |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by HelpeeDeck(m): 9:44pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Tomfrench: free lashing you say...funny bro 1 Like |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by HelpeeDeck(m): 9:45pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
eddysernal: thanks bro |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by VaselineJelly: 9:45pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
B Ya Sef |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
HelpeeDeck: |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by misspicy(f): 10:32pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
Tomfrench:Coming from my dearest mr NL... Am not suprised... You got all the cuteness for it. 1 Like |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by Nobody: 10:47pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
@OP, you have forgotten the most important one of them all; ASK HER WHAT SHE'LL EAT. . . If she says nothing, ASK HER AGAIN. And make sure you serve her swallow with lots of meat. . . There's no way to better way to bring out the killer instincts in a lioness than to give her raw meat. . . and I don't mean that in a bad way, food does help ladies open up. Any lady that can eat in your house will open up to you fast! |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
All that for some cookie? I'll say cook a meal, get a drink and invite her to hop in the bed. Simple as ABC. |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by valmunich(m): 11:42pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
jboy73:lol... no long things shey? |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by tomiobj(m): 11:45pm On Jul 31, 2015 |
This one can never work for a naija girl. HelpeeDeck: |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by Nobody: 12:03am On Aug 01, 2015 |
misspicy:thanks bae... cool dp btw |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by KingTom(m): 12:07am On Aug 01, 2015 |
No 8 |
Re: How To Break The Ice When Your New Girlfriend Comes Over Your House The Firstime by iamkingzlee(m): 12:12am On Aug 01, 2015 |
jboy73:hahahaha! Chairman, that one go worse.. |
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