As a Woman, Its not in your duty to FIND a Man to love you, but it is your duty to be FOUND by a Man!!!.

I've in recent time; Scaled through Dating Sites, & what marvelled me was Seeing lots of Women Looking for Men to Love them, with
requirements as
"He must be Godfearing ! ,
He must be Caring!,.
He must Respect you!,
He must be True to his
words and Consistent on his Actions!".
&Must be ready for a Future together..

Now, this is what i call
DESPERATION of d Highest Order!.
As a lady, You cant go
in search for a Man!, for by so doing, it brings you closer to False Men
&Hurtful/ Disappointing
Experiences, who would only play /Feed on your
Desperation, then when
satisfied enough; they'd
flee..

This is also where you'd see such ladies screaming "MEN ARE HORRIBLE!, MEN ARE
DOGS!, ALL MEN ARE D SAME..

But they forget that they are d ones who settled for Any Man who comes in disguise
of Fulfilling their Sought as Desperately desired..

What as a Lady you are
expected to do is, Prepare yourself worthy enough to be Responsibly Attractive to Men who seek your kind.
Just learn to be Patient
&keep working on your
Imperfections to be Seen by True Men!..

A woman is meant to be FOUND!, not d other way round.. Remember d quote in d bible? "HE WHO FINDS A WIFE, FINDS A GOOD THING"?,, its not "SHE WHO FINDS A HUSBAND".. So work
on been FOUND!..

Tell'em.

seconded!!op u have said it all.

Na still the samething nah

How will you FIND one when they all go "NUDE" and exposes themselves publicly?

If u r a woman, if u like seat or hide for ur fada house dey expect man to come find u, no come out to come show case ur talent....

The two(men and women) are meant to find each other.
A scenario where the man finds a woman who he loves but in turn, to the lady he is incompatible I.e she doesn't love the man. Should she be compelled to love him


Hell NO.

At OP, your idea is purely AFRICAN MENTALITY.

LOVE IS A TWO WAY THING & THIS TOO IS THE 21st CENTURY.


We find love in a hopeless place.