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Women And Marriage Curse?? by czarr(m): 9:41am On Aug 02, 2015 |
Just wondering, Why men don't put the same importance to marriage like women. They don't get all panicky or worked up when their mates are getting married, neither do they trick women into marriage. In fact they feel more pity rather than jealousy for fellow guys getting married. WHY? 1 Like
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Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by iceberylin(m): 9:44am On Aug 02, 2015 |
cause we pay the bills |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by delishpot: 9:44am On Aug 02, 2015 |
Cos society doesnt push them as hard as it does women. |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by Nobody: 9:48am On Aug 02, 2015 |
Ok |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by Cutehector(m): 9:51am On Aug 02, 2015 |
Cuz konji doesn't hold us as the ladies think it does... |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by czarr(m): 10:11am On Aug 02, 2015 |
iceberylin:OK True,but things are changing right? |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by czarr(m): 10:12am On Aug 02, 2015 |
delishpot:I don't agree Men are also very much pressured |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by czarr(m): 10:13am On Aug 02, 2015 |
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Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by iceberylin(m): 10:13am On Aug 02, 2015 |
czarr:yh. naira is getting devalued |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by czarr(m): 10:13am On Aug 02, 2015 |
Cutehector:yeah,we just do it for the glory Lool |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by czarr(m): 10:15am On Aug 02, 2015 |
iceberylin:no I mean women also foot the bills now abi? |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by iceberylin(m): 10:17am On Aug 02, 2015 |
czarr:.yh. at least they now sponsor their makeups 1 Like |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by delishpot: 10:23am On Aug 02, 2015 |
czarr: I said not as much as women. For women it starts earlier and people believe that at a certain age a woman has almost no chance of getting married while a man can marry and have kids even at 70. So tell me who had more pressure to marry at a certain age? |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by czarr(m): 10:23am On Aug 02, 2015 |
iceberylin: |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by czarr(m): 10:24am On Aug 02, 2015 |
delishpot:I see True sha |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by Gurgle(f): 10:25am On Aug 02, 2015 |
Women lose their ability to have children at a certain age, men do not. So the pressure is automatically on In the beginning, women get more disapproval for remaining unmarried But as they age, unmarried men are also looked down upon. A man who has refused to marry, especially a Nigerian, is seen as irresponsible, useless and ultimately a shame to his family Unmarried people are treated with disdain in general, just that women are the first to face the "heat" About the "panicking". Women do not like feeling left out, that is just a feature of female relationships. It can be embarrassing for some women to be the only one from their clique that has not yet tied the knot. Such women can feel like failures because they have not yet secured a fellow. And their friends/ female family members can make comments that set them on edge Its only a lady who is really sure of themselves and their life that can resist being pained by such incidents 2 Likes |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by czarr(m): 3:24am On Aug 03, 2015 |
Gurgle:enlightening. |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by Adaeze003(f): 5:57am On Aug 03, 2015 |
You'll feel the pressure... just give it time, like gurgle said, ours just comes first. |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by magabounce(m): 6:10am On Aug 03, 2015 |
Abek!!!! Marriage now? Gotta have d cheddah 1st No compromise abt dat |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by Nobody: 6:10am On Aug 03, 2015 |
I don't agree, married guys even feel pity for their friends who's about to marry. They look at you like 'guy can't you see we are in hell'? It's not encouraging for unmarried guys at all. A friend just told me last night that it's when you are married, your rent is due, you just lost your job and no means of paying. That when you will know that there are two definitions of love from your wife, whatever he means, it's not a good thing at all, I don't go asking cause I don't like poking my nose in those kind of matters. And this is a girl that loved him to pieces that year, guys look before you leap, if anybody really wants you to get married give them the total bill, Nigeria is not smiling. |
Re: Women And Marriage Curse?? by wordbank(m): 6:28am On Aug 03, 2015 |
I just received a text that her best friend is getting married. Smh |
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