shaiba:
Young lady as long as you are under my roof I own everything you do.

We quickly forget the case of Cynthia, she is older than your friend and is dead, but the pain, emptiness and the fight to bring her murderers to book is carried on by the parents.

Social media has its advantage and disadvantage and parents have that duty to look out for u, it might seem hash but many years from now you will look back and thank them for guiding u.

Your friend should first obey and then talk with dad to know his reasons for asking her to stop FB chats and try to prevail on him.

Remember that honoring your father and mother is the first commandment that attracts a gift... LONG lIFE

eddyland:
A friend of mine just told me that now, that her dad asked her to stop Facebook chat. Is it OK to do that? Will you advise parents to toe that path?

tpiander:



why is she blabbing about her dad's instructions?

Are you the person she's chatting with?

shaiba:
Young lady as long as you are under my roof I own everything you do.

We quickly forget the case of Cynthia, she is older than your friend and is dead, but the pain, emptiness and the fight to bring her murderers to book is carried on by the parents.

Social media has its advantage and disadvantage and parents have that duty to look out for u, it might seem hash but many years from now you will look back and thank them for guiding u.

Your friend should first obey and then talk with dad to know his reasons for asking her to stop FB chats and try to prevail on him.

Remember that honoring your father and mother is the first commandment that attracts a gift... LONG lIFE

shaiba:
Young lady as long as you are under my roof I own everything you do.

We quickly forget the case of Cynthia, she is older than your friend and is dead, but the pain, emptiness and the fight to bring her murderers to book is carried on by the parents.

Social media has its advantage and disadvantage and parents have that duty to look out for u, it might seem hash but many years from now you will look back and thank them for guiding u.

Your friend should first obey and then talk with dad to know his reasons for asking her to stop FB chats and try to prevail on him.

Remember that honoring your father and mother is the first commandment that attracts a gift... LONG lIFE

SAMBARRY:
Only in nigeria you see nonsense like this

no wonder a 37 year old grown man will still be staying under his parents roof and be asking for food and money shamelessly
No wonder you will see some hungry hawks ready to take advantage of her naievity when the parents will not allow her to grow up

shaiba:


And you think 20years is the right enough to be on your own? Facebook chatting is a way to allow her grow up?

The countries where you think at 37 years a man should be independent, take a good look at their environment (infrastructure and such) and what is going on the life of 50 percent of the youths, then you can draw a line between our rich cultural heritage and family values and theirs.

A visit will convince you. Don't believe the wild lies of 18yrs is self independent

KanwuliaJara:
A parent can always give advice, no matter how old the child may be!

shaiba:


And you think 20years is the right enough to be on your own? Facebook chatting is a way to allow her grow up?

The countries where you think at 37 years a man should be independent, take a good look at their environment (infrastructure and such) and what is going on the life of 50 percent of the youths, then you can draw a line between our rich cultural heritage and family values and theirs.

A visit will convince you. Don't believe the wild lies of 18yrs is self independent

killercute16:
Smart

Arsenate:
this is the only sensible comment I've ever seen you post on Nairaland.
hope dey

SAMBARRY:
A 20 years old is an adult physically mentally and biologically. If you still monitor and cage a 20 year old like a child then don't question why you see so many grown women behaving childish when the parents will not allow the child see exposure make mistakes learn from it and grow wiser


that one too will enter labour market with entitlement mentality because she's been used to her parents restricting her and giving her every thing she wants


and please don't come up with Cynthia case because na greed aka longer throat kill that one