It was on a cold morning, the weather was a bit nasty. And shivering is never a thing of my liking. On noticing that the ceiling fan was on motion, i got up in distress and put it to an end as i simultaneously got myself veiled with my dads coat.

At that junture i notured a second thought and planned never to attend classes that day but all to no avail as mum disgusted me with her silly shout like a brass. You are in SS3 and you really dont need to miss out for any lecture, go cleanup and dress up immediately. I had no other choice than to obey her else dad might invade in our affair.

Unknown to me, Fate had already prepared I and Christabel for a meet. She was a new student who i fell inlove with at first sight and till this day the love is still at ablaze.

On first seeing her, She was the best thing i have ever seen. She is fair in complexion, her accent and her social correspondent got me turned on (for the fact that she was a first timer never stopped her from beign intriguing). Oh!!! yike how do i get to make this girl my friend and even a life time partner?. I knew the answer but kept panicking when ever i set my eyes on her.

Each time i tried to meet up and tell her my love for her. My brain got obfucated as i was bitten by a gynophobic fly (fiction). Oh God come to my aid and grant me confidence. If love is a disease i should have been a deceased folk by now.

Two (2) years came and gone and i was free from my problematic secondary school. On the date of my final paper, i wrote and cogitated at same time how i might loose this diamond opportunity. Submit your paper as was said by the supervisor, which i did, carefully observing and drawing a plan on how to meetup with her and quote my love for her. Even if it wouldl cost me shame and disgrace i just need to take it. I walked closely to her covered in shame and fear as i was known for shyness with the opposite gender. Hey Christabel i said with a drop of tears from mine eyes. Please do not turn me down. to cut the long story short i made friendship with her and it grew from time to time.

We have both sacrificed alot for our relationship which is aged at 8. As the spring glitters around on daily bases it never seem as if we are getting bored of anyone. After i graduated from tertiary i tried all i could to fix my life up so as to meetup to our subsequent demand since i have plans having her for a wife (which i have kept confidential for years).

Now i have my own personnal business which lures a very huge amount of money for me on daily bases, its lucrative i must say. And now i think i am ready to unlock my wedlock destiny.

What an enigma and coincidence. Our relationship is such a lingered one and here is the devil who made me run on her way subsconsiously and now she is in-depthly crazy with me.

Its 2 weeks now and she doesn't want to pick my calls, neither does she even listen to her parents who does act on my behalf on the bases of my expedient and "kind apologies" to them. Her friends had also rendered pleadings and yet she doesn't want to forgive me.

I really dont want to loose her. No, not at all (we have gone too far for that). Please what should i do to get her heart back?

I really need your kind contribution. Thanks follow nairalanders.

Kindly pay 20dollars for my comment on this

i just scrolled down, what was he saying?

Werinn be ur offence

misspicy:
Werinn be ur offence

Ashame of saying it.

How are we going to help you without you telling us what happened...


Go and listen to "it wasn't me by craig david ft shaggy"

sseunth:
How are we going to help you without you telling us what happened...



Go and listen to "it wasn't me by craig david ft shaggy"

Okay okay okay!!! I really need you guys help.

I slapped her.

wordbank:
Who don read the essay abeg
I have to reply dis op

the babe way he dey yansh no gree gv am pussy again....so he need us to beg the babe cus him family don beg her too but this babe no gree....e be like say the babe don see another guy way dey yansh her wella....

MJEndow:
i just scrolled down, what was he saying?

lol. I was about to to ask the same question. I couldn't even read a sentence in the op before scrolling down to read comments.

**Scrolls up again**

WAIT WAIT IS VERY SIMPLE NAAAA HABA NA HIM U GO COMPOSE 9 PAGE, GIVE ME HER NUMBER MAKE I WORK AM SHARP SHARP...

pelij18:
Okay okay okay!!! I really need you guys help.

I slapped her.

bravo


Congratulation bro, you have won ursef a gold medal....


I will cme and unslap her for you....



It means you don't have self control when it comes to getting angry and you want to marry her....you gonna kill her with slap oo....

sseunth:
bravo


Congratulation bro, you have won ursef a gold medal....


I will cme and unslap her for you....



It means you don't have self control when it comes to getting angry and you want to marry her....you gonna kill her with slap oo....

I think someone cast a spell on me. Because i had never got angry with her in such a way.

pelij18:
I think someone cast a spare on me. Because i had never thought and even got angry with her in such a way.

the SPARE is working bro, you need to run for ur life....



Walk up to her like a man and tell her you are sorry and if she insist, bro life goes on...

NO TIME

Beg her now. What else

Personally o, don't invite anybody with u!

afolwalex20:
Beg her now. What else

Personally o, don't invite anybody with u!

Before doing this i have to let her know on phone isn't it?

And unfortunately she nolonger pick my calls.

All this wole-soyinkarist write up all because you slappt your babe.




Well beg her some more. You said you make alotta money right then what u waiting for. Hit the pawn shop and get a fairly used epic diamond ring and pop the question .

tonididdy:
All this wole-soyinkarist write up all because you slappt your babe.




Well beg her some more. You said you make alotta money right then what u waiting for. Hit the pawn shop and get a fairly used epic diamond ring and pop the question .

Considered

Young man, pls if u need sincere answers den u'v got to b sincere and tell us all there is abt ur relationship with her and what led to d chaos.

pelij18:
Before doing this i have to let her know on phone isn't it?

And unfortunately she nolonger pick my calls.

Don't call her. She's still angry

Just visit. Hope u can beg sha

afolwalex20:


Don't call her. She's still angry

Just visit. Hope u can beg sha

Thanks for such a kind reply. Begging her is not a problem, just that she doesn't seem as one who is ready to forgive me now. Meanwhile this is actually the time i really need her pretty much.

pelij18:
I think someone cast a spare on me. Because i had never thought and even got angry with her in such a way.

cast a SPARE??

Your English is on another level


ZeezaRapture

akashi01:
cast a SPARE??

Your English is on another level


ZeezaRapture

Its a mistake bro... But anyway thanks for your correction.

pelij18:
Thanks for such a kind reply. Begging her is not a problem, just that she doesn't seem as one who is ready to forgive me now. Meanwhile this is actually the time i really need her pretty much.

man relax. Yes! I said, RELAX!!! She doesnt pick your calls anymore doesnt mean she will leave you. Afterall, you have been together for many years..

WHAT YOU SHOULD DO...

1. Send her a heart-touching apology message(sms).

2.Call her 3 to 4 days after texting her the apology message.

3. Promise her such thing will never happen again and follow it up by wooing her(girls love it)

4. After doing the 3 things I mentioned above and she does not come back to you, my brother, you have been dating the wrong person all this while.

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Dude, all this postulation because you hit your girlfriend. Anyways, you don't ever hit a lady. It's wrong on all levels, it's classless and leaves disaster in its wake. You sound penitent enough though but I must warn you, don't attempt all this "grammar" in your make up text, make you no go exacerbate matter wey dey volatile b4.

CertifiedFreak:
Dude, all this postulation because you hit your girlfriend. Anyways, you don't ever hit a lady. It's wrong on all levels, it's classless and leaves disaster in its wake. You sound penitent enough though but I must warn you, don't attempt all this "grammar" in your make up text, make you no go exacerbate matter wey dey volatile b4.

Nice idea... Thanks alot.

But, but, why u dey go an slap? What did she ever do to you?

Drop her nomba so that all of us can call and beg on your behalf, even if her heart deh her back she go reset am

Bro, Nlers can't help u. it only u and u alone that can help yourself.
8 years together and u mistakenly slap her once(not that I support woman brutality) but on a scale of 1-10, 10 being very mature, I will rate u 8 considering that ladies could b a real pain in the a$$.
Forget the phone call, u never slap her on the phone. instead go to her in person(u mention F&F are interceding on your behalf) they should b around but leave the two of u alone so u can do u begging alone.
If this fails also,just give her like a month or two without communication and watch the magical turnaround. Thank me later.

This guy aint serious one bit, after writing all those "Ngugi Wa Tiongo" long story but failed to tell us what happened, after being asked what happened, u had to finally say u slapped her, yet refused to say why u slapped her.



Anyways I just wish she is really busy banging one ugly ,poor guy like dat , ee for red for u