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Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by IBBG(m): 2:42pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Jman06:hahahahahahahaha. guy u make laugh wella. Guys need wise up now o. no need to too luv girl so that heart break no go big 2 Likes |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by macof(m): 2:47pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
ehn! in all this I just want to ask one question. . what are girlfriends for if boyfriends are for (financial) support? Joavid: |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by lastpage: 3:08pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Joavid: Women like you are a big DISGRACE TO WOMANHOOD! It is women like you that make others to thing all women have "fish brain" and are only good for shex! You have no value, no moral etiquette and l am sure in "real life" you are nothing, just an empty vessel. Even if it is between TWO WOMEN, showing appreciation is a virtue! Even God sends "helper" to humans at times and he expects us to be appreciative by thanking him in our prayers But women like you are the ones who will be crying that they dont have a helper and running around from church to another, for deliverance. henceforth, may you never find a HELPER,... in your hour of need. Lastpage! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by lastpage: 3:26pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
MarieSucre: I remember that the God of Heavens have been described in PRAYER, as "Oba, yinni'yinni see'mi si ( a God who does something for you and once you show appreciation to him, HE does more for you!) So, even God wants appreciation, He wants us to Thank Him and not just behave like an INGRATE! How much more a mortal humanbeing? [size=14pt]It is very essential that spouses help and support each other, not so that one can boast over the other but so that their "commitment to each other" can deepen[/size] I have been married for close to two decades now and l can tell you that my wife has been my backbone and l also met her when she was nobody and l was already a banker and with God's help, l was able to Behind her up to a Masters level of education. Today, we both benefit from such "commitment" to each other and our kids are the better for it. That is what marriage should be about, not some greedy ingrate spewing rubbish for other women. Anyway, life is full of Karma. In the days of our forefathers, some men wey nor send will "lock" the womb of such a woman, using our "native ways" so that she would suffer for long though l dont advice such in current times but its a case of "check and balance" for our forefathers. That ingrate of a woman will probably eventually get married to a real Gorrilla so when she is reaping the evil she is sowing now, l hope no one will be expected to show pity on her because it will serve her right. I encourage all "good women" to remain good in their dealings and good men to remain good, hopefully destiny will bring the two together. I also hope the devilish women like that one commenting and supporting evil, will meet the Monsters of men so that "2 can cut 4". Lastpage! 1 Like |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by ebukaOtika(m): 3:28pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
NA TODAY I trust myself WALAHI |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by film2(m): 3:31pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Joavid:You think u have made a point and generated many likes abi? The guy didn't complete the story, he didn't tell us who paid the remaining fees since he paid one..u r very harsh |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by elohorayodele: 3:40pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
dinachi: best comment |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by itoese(m): 3:47pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
she is wise. Your mum or friends could have told you that such arrangement does not work. |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by excellencygreat(m): 3:49pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
My big advice is, go back to school to upgrade your worth. Then every other thing follows properly thereafter. |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Femistico(m): 3:58pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Some babes of this days ehn...if u do them a favour dey will see u as a maga... when u knew u can't marry someone why can't u jst tell him from d beginning dat u can't marry him and let him to spend his hard earned money on something else... girls be duping boyz since 1752... buh the guy funny self..the babe went to a university and u jst stopped at OND waiting for her to marry u..she will be proud that u are nothing...abegi |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by MIM77(m): 4:18pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
YOU ACTUALLY ENTERED ONE CHANCE, BUT NO PROBLEM. I THINK THAT EXPERIENCE SHOULD GINGER YOU TO UPGRADE EDUCATIONALLY. U WILL MEET IN THE FUTURE AND SHE WILL BE ASHAMED. |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by whoisuche: 4:33pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
ConfessionsNgr: Leave everything to God. |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by blesszzy(m): 5:04pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
starlingslimnet: Classic response! Thumb up! |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Amazo: 5:55pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
Joavid: What is a girlfriend for, if not for marriage Dear Boys: ------------- These type of "nice guys" will never learn FACT #1: Women subconsciously "hate" nice guys. There's an innate mental coding hidden within the psyche of women that makes them detest and gravitate away from nice guys to the guys "who don't play nice" - if you catch my point. Women subconsciously find "nice guys" irritable and a woman will start pulling away once she can rationalize a man as being a "nice guy" because he was consistently acting nice to her. Even they can't really explain it, and most are not even aware of this subconscious behavior because it's a trait that has to do with genetic evolution (spanning thousands of years) of the woman's mind to selecting male partners. Amongst other things, the innate genetic coding of a woman's mind dictates to her subconsciously that "nice guys" are genetically weak and "un-nice" guys are genetically strong; and also in contrast, nice guys aren't smart, but "un-nice" guys are smart...and so on. Hence, their choice to not select nice guys because the innate genetic coding instructs them that "nice guys" aren't suitable for breeding to create a stronger offspring etc! Women might tell you otherwise with words that they like "nice guys", but don't fall for that fancy hypocrisy and double-standards nature women in general have. Emotionally, what women preach is one thing; but what they practice is a completely different thing due to their innate mental coding, which controls their choices and actions on a subconscious level. If a girl sticks around with a "nice guy", it's because of the financial and/or other benefits she's getting for that period; and once she no longer needs him for that, she'll dump him cold. The scientifically modern man has been in existence for thousands of years, but I still can't fathom why some people keep falling for the same old tricks in the game called "love". Wake up "nice guys", how long will these women continue breaking your hearts? Stop being so exceptionally stupïd - it's so irritating NB: Per the case in question, she's not refusing marriage because the guy has OND or inadequate educationally. She's dumping him because he's a nice guy; and yes, she just finds that irritating! 4 Likes |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by ORALL: 10:28pm On Aug 17, 2015 |
[quote author=JESUSBOIY post=37033319][/quote] Yeah |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Kennycool1: 7:14am On Aug 18, 2015 |
ConfessionsNgr: I like all this comment!!!! oooo.....more pls |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Nobody: 10:38am On Aug 18, 2015 |
Sunshinelady:I just wonder. . |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by jayzon: 8:05pm On Aug 18, 2015 |
waitttt.. . .. .. through out d skul catering stuff... hw many tymz did u Bleep her |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by EmmyDe25(m): 7:09am On Aug 19, 2015 |
Joavid:I was going to give you a thumb up, until i saw the last line. The way you ladies see relationship as finding a job makes me think all ladies are gold-diggers. But then, i know some are not. |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Nobody: 2:31am On Aug 21, 2015 |
Joavid: Your analysis has earned you a two over ten(2/10)...You failed & need a brain reevaluation. |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Nobody: 2:40am On Aug 21, 2015 |
cococandy: Loooooool,this your onithsa spelling is crazy man . |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Dojupyo(f): 10:18pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
Joavid: I tire my sister #What are they there for? |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by AtheistD(m): 9:37am On Sep 05, 2015 |
Dojupyo: What are girlfriends there for? |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by sureboy4eva(m): 1:09pm On Sep 09, 2015 |
When will all dis guys think wit their heads? It is written even in the bible, b*tches will dis-repect u but your money will never stress you. Someone just said ask for d money for Brazilian hair and use it to pay the fees, all is still money from a guy, women need to stop all dis attitude. What u won't eat u don't smell it. Y don't u women work and then pile up the money foot a guys bill nd let him reverse the case leave u for anoda woman in his level. The earlier u women start portraying a good image the better your future is brighter. Spoil your self and image for a token and reap it in the future. Men wld pay tru their nose to give u a future then u wld be going after guy in skinny jeans instagram swag boys with borrowed cars jewelries and no roofs. I advice guys to just spend their money on themselves, use your money to become a better you. Let the women see u and wish you were theirs. Or spend your money on your mother. No Amt is too big for a mother. Buy her those exotic clothes, jewelries, phones, a trip outside nigeria, let those girls wish u were theirs. Even since God shined me the light abt women I been living my life lavida lavido. I help few women wit what I don't need or what I can spare and I dnt wait for notin in return. Not your loyalty, your p*ssy, or what so ever. This same women will call u names like he is stingy, when u refuse to help. U help again it's a problem. It is never enough. Women dont know what they really want |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by kuchikau: 4:58pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
I hate girls dat mensturates. How can blood coming fron your BIG T0TO wet ur pants and skirt,yet u claim to be sophisticated. *Smells* |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Dvampire(m): 5:16pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
My brother, sorry for your loss. This is a challenge for you to pick yourself up and move on. Since you have a thriving business, you can still support youself through school and upgrade your qualifications. Sometimes, situations like this one are meant to jolt us back into redefining our priorities. In addition, never go into a relationship like it's a football contract. Helping a girl through school is not enough basis for you to feel that she will love you enough to marry you. She might adore you because of what you have done for her, but when it comes to marriage, that's a different kettle of fish. Set higher targets for yourself and plan to achieve them. However note this: a girl that truly loves you will love you for who you are; whether you are a handsome prince or a wart covered frog. |
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Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by evekils: 11:19am On Sep 13, 2016 |
5minsmadness:My guy you are both lucky and blessed. Thank your God and go for thanksgiving .If I tell you the outcome of marring such a lady hmmmmmmm |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by evekils: 11:33am On Sep 13, 2016 |
evekils:Just watch out the way she is going,its obvious she will be joining the society ladies. She has passed the first initiation . ie shattering a man dreams,hope and aspiration. You have to be strong,bearing in mind that God have saved you from the hands of a demon |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by evekils: 11:41am On Sep 13, 2016 |
evekils:My dear, for such ladies A GOOD JOB means Good contact and death of a man. Though some may leave their husband Alive if they agree to become slowpoke |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by Nobody: 4:04pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
op,i knw its painful but pls move on,God will reward yur efforts. a colleague of mine was dating a guy who was searching for a job,she then invested 250k twice, thats 500k. she thought he wud marry her,until after collecting d 2nd 250k,he startd avioding her. no more picking her calls, hes no longer at home,until one day she caught up wit him and he bluntly told her,hes nt ready for marriage and wants to be alone 2seek for greener pastures elsewhere.my dear, she cried her eyes out,took leave frm wrkand travelled 2 clear her head. so, op next time use yur head. |
Re: I Saw Her Through School; Now I'm No More Qualified To Marry Her by BabaRamota1980: 6:29am On Aug 25, 2017 |
kemiola89: Except for the closing remark, I disagree with everything else you said. The scenario has expectations and commitments, though they may have been unwritten. Pre-nuptial has not caught on in Africa but when it does the rule book of marriage will definitely get a huge trsnsformation. |
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