Nihilist:
No

A side chick is a nothing more than a replaceable sextoy. She's just there for the excitement and only gets promoted to main chic in the rarest of occasions.

Thus the side chic is always at a disadvantage. She is aware that she is second choice, and that the man she likes does not want to be associated with her in public. She knows that no matter what she does, her man's heart belongs to someone else, and she can be discarded anytime with no legal protection.

A wife who confronts the side chic surrenders the psychological advantage to the side chic. Suddenly the side chic knows that the main chic is just as insecure as she is, and realizes a chance for promotion no matter how slight.
The side chic could be violent.

The husband is then put on the defensive, and may decide that he doesn't want the wife anyway. The issues of broken trust from the wife's confrontation may prove insurmountable and wreck the marriage.

It's never a good idea to confront the side chic. Instead the wife can deal with the fact that her husband has wanderlust,accept her status as the number 1 woman and use it to her advantage. Or she pushes for a divorce immediately.

It's not the side chic's fault anyway. The side chic is not the one that has a marriage contract with the wife.

asumo12:



Chai...

More reasons for me to woo u in the wooing challenge...

Kachisbarbie:

lols. I take my time to react, that's the beauty of my 'madness'.

I don't think there is any reason enough to cheat on a loved one_ though I wouldn't mind giving my partner a chance to explain.

Lizabeth25:

Fkhalifa:
your fellow ladies will come and attack you with that "a man cant keep on eatinf egusi soup" though i agree with the rest of your write up but women should do and fight all means to reduce or stop his spouse from cheating,and never give up nor justify it to his face.

asumo12:



Kilomean?

Kachisbarbie:

lols. I take my time to react, that's the beauty of my 'madness'.
I don't think there is any reason enough to cheat on a loved one_ though I wouldn't mind giving my partner a chance to explain.



Glo. One tazand naira
You see...I know you don't cheat. Neither does any man in my family cheat.
Don't worry, God will give that babe a man that cheats_ after all she knows how to tolerate them.

Ngwanu. Just let me know when your present subscription finish.

I don't know why some ladies see all guys as cheats. It baffles me really. Sometimes I wonder the kind of guys they've been with all their lives or are they stereotyping because of an experience with one or two guys? 98% of my male friends don't cheat on their partners. This thing tire me seriously.

Sometimes we don't realize that we eat the fruit of our words most times. There's this bad remark I used to make about a particular region of our great country. Just this morning while I was getting ready for the day, something struck my mind; what if work or something else takes you to that region some day of which you'll have no choice other than to go? What if the very things you've said about that region comes playing before your very eyes? What if they come around to happen to you? We should learn to choose our words wisely when we talk/type.

naijaboiy:
Naaah! That's a very bad idea.

Don't confront the bìtch,,confront your husband instead.

Same goes for some silly immature guys that threaten another guy because of their girlfriend.

If your wife or husband is a cheat attacking the partner will not stop him from cheating. He/she can still look elsewhere.

Lizabeth25:
That's where the problem lies..! Most of them don't know what they know how to do before again!

And when the man start looking else where, which is compulsory self, the women go dey halla!

A woman after one child, she will start looking like her great grandmother and you expect the man to stick around her, smelling bobozee and eru

Cheating can be stopped! When the lady decide to work on yourself! Blame yourself for your husband's cheating and stop wasting your slaps on d sidechick

FruityLass:
No!

That's a silly act.
Why would I attack the side chick when I can easily sit him down and ask him reasons he's into her and amend ways

swtchicgurl:
No, it's bad enough that she's on the side.

All the wife needs to do is to pray that all the good things that should have been the lady's should stay at her side and not locate her.

Stupid girls go after married men. I know some of them will quote me.

Fkhalifa:
you are right,but what in the case of the wife doing everything and yet the husband still cheats? even though he does and gives his wife everything she desires to make her happy,but cheats for egusi reason or as a result of being seduced outside?

Lizabeth25:
Men will always be Men! Greedy, ungrateful, annoying, cheaters but loving and understanding in a lady fall into the right hand!

Some has been cursed since 1880DC that even when them see anything NAKED, they will always want to go for it.

You can't change the fact that they are born that way. So why bothering yourself over what you can't change?

Back in those days when I use to complain about my dad's sidechicks, my mom then will be so angry at me, in fact, there was a day she called me and asked what my problem was? She said men will always be men! But the moment a woman have a child for him, those are the ones that won't cheat on their mother!

She said the "WE" (my siblings and I) are her priority. I should stop bothering myself over what I can't change! Since then, even if Dad's babes calls his phone, I will hand the phone to my dad! (before eh, I dey sneak out go pick am and Yab d babe... )

ademoladeji:

Shoot the modafvka and you'll be shot fadafvka

Stephansmily:




D dead can never rise