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Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by ebubey(f): 9:31pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
Everybody has one thing or another to share when it comes to love and relationship but not all advice are meant to be followed. People give advice according to their experience but it will not necessarily work for you the way it worked for them. Let us take a look at seven love advice that you should think twice about: 1. Forgive and forget: Yes, forgiveness is a very important aspect of every relationship, but this is usually easier said than done, especially the part about forgetting. When you have been hurt, letting-go takes time and you never forget.. If you try to rush this process, you will end up finding that all you did was sweep everything under the carpet and soon after, things will only blow up in your face. Take your time, talk it out with your partner and do not rush so that when you do forgive, you forgive for real. 2. Love conquers all: Love conquers a lot of things, no doubt, but it does not conquer every single thing you will face in your relationship. With some issues, only patience, time and maturity or even a breakup will help you solve it. A lot of people are in relationships that are not working out simply because they stubbornly believe that just because they are in love, everything should be okay. You need to recognize the things that love is incapable of dealing with and work on them with what is needed. 3. Never go to bed angry: This advice is basically saying you must solve all problems and deal with every argument all within the day. Frankly, this is just impossible. Sometimes, some problems need time to be solved. Sometimes, all you need is a break, to sleep on your argument and get some much needed space for things to get better. If you have a time limit on all your fights, a lot of things will not be tackled and at the end of the day, you will say good night when you know you are not really at peace with yourself and your relationship. 4. Love hurts: Betrayal hurts, pain hurts, heartbreak hurts, but love is the one thing that should make you feel good. A lot of people repeat the “love hurts” mantra to themselves to justify being in a hurtful relationship. True love should never bring about pain and despair. Yes, there will be stormy waters, but true love should be the only light during this time. 5. Love is blind: Finding someone you love should never be a decision to be made blindly. You cannot go through the true challenges of any relationship if you entered into it blindly. 6. Money does not matter: Money is never everything, but it sure matters. You cannot have a strong relationship without having some sort of financial stability. You might not have it all, but in a relationship, you have to both be content with where you are with the belief that things can and will get better. Pretending money is not an issue will only lead to each of you feeling discontent and not being able to discuss it or find a solution. 7. True love is forever: There will be times in your relationship when you are not even sure you love your partner. There will be times you feel numb or unhappy with them but this does not mean what you have is not true love. Love ebbs and flows. Sometimes you love them so much you cannot imagine life without them, and sometimes, you just want to run away, but underneath it all, you both share a bond that will never be broken. That is love. 8. Follow your heart: Your heart is important in determining what you feel for someone but you should not make all your love decisions based on how you feel. It is important that you use your brains and intuition to also determine whether or not someone will make the best fit for you. 4 Likes |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by emitheo(m): 9:34pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
You too much...OP
where did u get this inspiration thus this article? |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by Nobody: 9:35pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
Noted |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by Galacious1: 9:42pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
the 'money does not matter' is a real joke. No matter ke? |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by Nobody: 9:43pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
9. You don't love for money. Iffahear, a guy becomes romantic wen he knows how to spend for his bae! |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by xpac01(m): 9:44pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
nice
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Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by ronald4lif(m): 9:48pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
lagmostkuit: A woman becomes romantic when she showers gifts like iPhone6, iPads, Rolex and brand wears on her boo. |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by Nobody: 9:51pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
ronald4lif:Abi nah.. |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by ronald4lif(m): 10:06pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
lagmostkuit: Naso. Where that agbero hmmm sorry hubby stephenqueen. Hin dey jail? |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by Nobody: 10:24pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
ronald4lif:Ya calling my boo stephenqueen agbero abi? Been a while I heard 4rm him tho! |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by Peachess(f): 10:26pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
Okay |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by Situation001(m): 10:33pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
kia.. |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by JVgal(f): 11:09pm On Aug 23, 2015 |
U r right op. Mostly on nuba 6. |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by stephenqueen: 7:32pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
lagmostkuit:Did you ask of me? |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by Nobody: 7:51pm On Aug 25, 2015 |
stephenqueen:I'm sorry sugar.. |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by LieDetector(m): 10:40pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
lagmostkuit:lagmostkuit my bae |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by stephenqueen: 10:48pm On Aug 26, 2015 |
lagmostkuit:Missed you sha .How's osun? |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by Nobody: 9:57am On Aug 27, 2015 |
LieDetector: |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by Nobody: 9:58am On Aug 27, 2015 |
stephenqueen:Missed u plenty Osun is fine.. |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by LieDetector(m): 10:19am On Aug 27, 2015 |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by Nobody: 10:26am On Aug 27, 2015 |
LieDetector:Starting when? |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by LieDetector(m): 10:42am On Aug 27, 2015 |
lagmostkuit:January 09 2014 |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by Nobody: 12:21pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
LieDetector:Hmmmmmm |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by LieDetector(m): 12:45pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by Nobody: 12:54pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
LieDetector:Like we've talked b4.. No, we can't |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by Nobody: 1:00pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
lagmostkuit:try nd reply in a polite manner nxt time. |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by Nobody: 1:04pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
mystage:Did LieDetector complain? Mind ur business! |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by LieDetector(m): 1:19pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
lagmostkuit:you mustn't know someone before you initiate a convo or anything similar to that. Apparently we haven't talked before but uy hey : the best couple in the world never knew they would be couple. Such is life. |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by Nobody: 1:19pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
lagmostkuit:hmmm. sorry ma! |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by LieDetector(m): 1:20pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
lagmostkuit:yea. Liedetector is most aggrieved . |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by Nobody: 1:22pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
LieDetector:And he be acting like a good boy |
Re: Love Advices You Should Stop Listening To by LieDetector(m): 1:23pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
mystage:I hope you're not trying to declare your interest |
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