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See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by issylarry(m): 6:08pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
I had the greatest shock of my life last week, which I never still believe why it happened to me. To cut the story short,I had a fiancee which we have been planning on getting married. In The course of time have been so familiar with her mum and siblings and we were just about preparing for our introduction. Due to the nature of my work I live in lagos and she stays at Ibadan, have been so faithful to her(you all know what am talking about). On the 16th of aug, (saturday), I told her I was going to come around on the 19th. (Wednesday). when I got to Ibadan on wednesday, I checked-in in a guest house closer to her house. I was so happy been around her again, because I believed since her mum knows me, mehn, I thought I owned her. (That was the best mistake have ever made),Later in the night she was called by her brother to come over, so she decided to go and attend to her brother leaving me with her phone. Seriously,when she left I was just staring at the phone for some minutes and later I decided to check out for some more lovely pictures of my ironical wife. As time goes by I then decided to glance through her chats (wasn't intentional but didn't know what springed that up in me) Her recent chats was laced accordingly to how recent the chats has been. My chats with her was first,then I opened the 2nd chat(what I saw was crazy). My so called ironical fiancee have been cheating on me. The chats was like my gf initiated the chat with him. She went to his place on Monday and they had sex. This is the lady I want to marry o,seriously I feel love doesn't truely exist. Its just a name not an ACT anymore. I got annoyed and asked her out of my room because if I should see her I could inflicts my annoyance on her(she might end up in hospital). Now,what can I do? she's been begging me not to tell her elder brother .The mum hasn't heard anything about what transpired, even her siblings and have decided to let them know, so that they would know the kind of daughter they are living with(Packaged-slut). Is that the right decision? Or should I just delete every contacts I have with her? What can I do? Her mum do call me sometimes, now its so obvious am breaking up the relationship! But do I have to tell her mum or siblings who can understand how I really feel about it! Please, can you share me some advice or perspectives! I will appreciate it. 41 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by falconey(m): 6:08pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
hmm I'm glad you found out yourself you weren't told.√ 183 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Xeinstra1(f): 6:15pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
issylarry:.. Love is beautiful... Hehehehahahahahahahamuahahahahaahehe. 17 Likes |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Dotwillis1(m): 6:19pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
*in Chris Brown's voice*, this bitches ain't loyal. . .... Anyways Her reason for cheating maybe your 'cause'.... Maybe she do fight for your attention when you were away.. Maybe Buh which anyway, nigga she ain't worth yhu. There ain't no action to take than to whirl her off yhur life. 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by SeverusSnape(m): 6:25pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Long distance relationship is not for me. It's just a waste of time. 28 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by prettysassygirl(f): 6:28pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
she doesent deserve you,any girl that cheats on her man before marriage wld do DAT after,she ain't worth it,dia better girls out there,DAT I am sure 94 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Cutehector(m): 6:30pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Its good dat u found out dat she isn't d type of woman u need to marry... So leave her and move on.. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by adahgold(m): 7:27pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Bro the honest truth is that you have to tell the parent in order for them not to blame you and finally leave her period becuz she will still cheat after u guys get married. 56 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Mznaett: 7:30pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
The babe no try at all These days, Poles and Holes aiint loyal at all aswear Gosh! Now I've come 2understand that after dropping my cane in a nice position some silly students might come play with it carelessly #TeamCelibate 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by AfroKnight: 7:30pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Forgive her but do not marry her for your peace of mind. You don't want to be conducting paternity test every time your wife gives birth. She is only acting remorseful because you caught her and not because she truly felt bad. I'd advice to dump her àss and when her mother asks why, you should tell her the truth. Cos a girl like that would lie to her parents about why you broke up. The annoying thing is that she continued to contact the guy after cheating. That shows she would gladly cheat over and over again. 102 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by marcondo13: 10:12pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
@ OP, it is not easy to be in a relationship in this busy world,whether near or distant. For the sake of posterity,quietly explain to her mom that you can not continue. Tell her the truth because you do not know tomorrow because you might cross paths and it might not be pleasant. I am telling you from personal experience. A cultist who oppressed me during my first year in the University at the hostels,was posted to serve in my LGA. I saw him and related with my hood rats that I have seen the guy who made my first year on campus to be a living hell. I pitied the guy when they were through with him. They really bloodied him and he had to redeployment to another state. If he had known that his Corpers lodge will be in my girlfriend's street,he would have thought twice before confiscating my mattress ! Stay safe! 37 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by pretydiva(f): 6:09am On Aug 25, 2015 |
Tell her mom n her siblings d bitter truth,and then move ahead wit ur life...she can continue her relationship wit her sex mate. some gals can dey fall their hands shall 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by Justiyke4u: 8:02am On Aug 25, 2015 |
I did not read the post but I can say that planning is everything 2 Likes |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by timilehing(m): 8:35am On Aug 25, 2015 |
You should bang another guy's girl too in revenge. 'em biitches ain't loyal no more 10 Likes |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by bqlekan(m): 8:42am On Aug 25, 2015 |
I still don't understand why there can't be no privacy in relationships... I always say cheat but never get caught Love? Hehe 10 Likes |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by misspicy(f): 8:57am On Aug 25, 2015 |
.... I no support her buh issylarry how long were u guys apart. 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by issylarry(m): 9:02am On Aug 25, 2015 |
misspicy: Just 2 months 2 Likes |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by issylarry(m): 9:03am On Aug 25, 2015 |
bqlekan: Lolz,na ladies go suffer am pass o! 1 Like |
Re: See What Distance Relationship Has Caused Me! by misspicy(f): 9:05am On Aug 25, 2015 |
issylarry:How was d communication btwn u two within dat period? 1 Like |
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