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Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by ifeomaekol(f): 2:48pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Am d youngest in my family n d least liked---------- my mum often times ll call my elder sisters name wheneva she wnts to call me, (inwardly it hurts) bt am used to it n I thnk God for understanding, while growing up she took all d lime light, guess cos she was sO social, fun to be wt n I was on d reserved side. Wen it comes to d boys she loves dem die. Thnk God I stil turned out right. So yes most nt all parents love a particlar child more than d rest. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by babadem2much(m): 2:48pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
I will boldly say yes because I have 2 boys and a girl but I will tell you honestly before God on heaven I can not tell you whom among them I love most because they all impress me n made me proud. I just don't know who to chose amongst the the 3. I really love them 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by HINCO(m): 2:49pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
this question deserves no answer sef |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by chickpum(f): 2:53pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Wish I can just have one kid,give him/her all the love. If my future hubby will agree, the truth is there must be one u will cherish more. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by mctech(m): 2:55pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
trendphemmy:in the long run it's all abov MONEY. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Shine1177: I think you shouldn't make a difference between your kids. That is the job of the society. They are both your heirs. If she becomes successful tomorrow, your name will come first before her husband's. Although she is not your 'arole', they cannot sing her praise in traditional functions withut mentioning you and your family compound. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Nobody: 2:59pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
ifeomaekol: Pele You shouldn't be too sad about it. That happens often with in some families. I think it also because your sister is more social than you are. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Shine1177: 3:02pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
oreos:Correct. I just love them all. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Nobody: 3:04pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
tunergy: Parents cant love al their kids awqually they will always have favorites, this is the genesis of family feuds,. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Pidggin(f): 3:43pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
[ author=Shine]I have a girl and a boy. It seems I love my daughter (first born) more but I know my son is my heir (Arole) so I try to shower them love equally. Their mother must have observe it. Hope you don't let her know you have no plans for her future? My advice, think of investing for both kids, and stop this Arole thing o. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by mamziii(f): 3:52pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
tobimillar:well not all fathers can commit incest like urs. 7 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by thundafire: 3:53pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
yes parent do have a favourite child mostly due to hw dy child was born nd jst dy natural instinct it doesn't mean dy most love dier most successful child cs me am dy most favored in my dad eyes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Ephemmm: 3:55pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
neoapocalypse: Forget man! You can't love two things equally unless you are deceiving yourself. It is not about being partial; it is a law of nature. Even if you don't want to, the personalities, likeness, resemblance, bravery, confidence, physical appearance of your children, which can never be the same would influence it. The ability to suppress the feeling of showing the likeness of a child than the other is what distinguishes each parents. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Timijo(m): 4:06pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
haytripple:Is it possible for all the children in a family to please their parents? |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by 123taiye: 4:08pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
You can love all your children equally, but differently. If you have three children A,B and C. If A needs a wave to smile, B needs a hug and C needs to be tickled. If you make all three smile by doing the different things that would make each of them smile, you have loved them equally but the love was expressed differently. Equal love does not imply equal action, it only tries to ensure equal impact. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by preciousjun(m): 4:54pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
It depends on the circumstances surrounding the birth of the child. Secondly a child's behaviour towards his or her parents will make them like him or her more than others. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by 3kay945(m): 5:04pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
PassingShot: It also depend on their age and number of children you have. I doubt if you can say above if you have four or five children. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by 3kay945(m): 5:05pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
123taiye: I love your logic. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Adaeze003(f): 5:06pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
haytripple: You better change it or not show it. A girl that wasn't shown love by her dad will end up searching the wrong places for it. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by ihedioramma: 5:19pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
haytripple:If other parents dont love there children the way they love the other one, i cant do that . i all love them . |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by chito14(f): 5:36pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Chestar5: Iam so sad to here that my dear! You are a Strong one. Keep on being who you are and learn from this mistake your parents did. so thread your one Kids not the same way |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Mrcapability7: 5:36pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Yes it is true my dad almost ruined our family because of this, we are seven children, my dad love and cherished elderest(sister)... He doesn't listen to us and mother without consulting my elder sister(what kind of father is that, that's madness) and his judgment perished.. It become worst when my sister had accident in 2004 and forwarding, i,my siblings and mother stopped performing duties as a sons and mother to him, thats when it struck him there is other gather than one offspring.. I can truthfully tell you we hate my elder sister for trying stole my dad especially from mom.. Even in the bible out of twelve sons and other children and grandchildren jacob loves joseph more than them(because of rechael) and out of twelve tribes of israel God loved choosed tribe of judah over others (for his brave standing up to his brothers, telling their father truth about joseph and also he was strongest of all,intelligent and hunter> lionheart) |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by akwunmi(m): 5:39pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
it is not possible simply bcoz evry child wit different attitude how ever it is very compulsory for parents to b JUST to all their children, let D one u love most b in ur mind ONLY..don't evn let him know u love him most...just b kind all of DEM,don't buy an iPhone 6 4d one u love most N buy techno 4d 1wey u no too gbadun,...dats injustice N fit cos big problem... b warn N wise |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Begonia(m): 5:41pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
ifeomaekol: Oh! That must really hurt. In the end, all things work together for good. I hope you stay strong. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Chestar5(f): 5:42pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
chito14: thanks dear, am used to it already |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by EazyMoh(m): 5:47pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
haytripple:Loving them equally and treating them equally are two different things. the former is extremely rare! and it's not that the parents don't wanna admit it, it's just that many don't know. the latter is what many use to justify that they love the kids equally. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Begonia(m): 5:51pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
mamziii:He definitely deserved this. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by angelofurlife: 6:03pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
I wouldn't want to say much on my experience as a growing up kid, but I can tell that it is very very bad for a parent to love a child more than the other. U may say they can't love them equally because they are not demi gods but the contempt it breeds is not good at all. Thank god my mom learnt her lesson. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by chito14(f): 6:04pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Chestar5: Can i ask you how old you are? Have you try to talk with them about how you realy feel, But in respektful levels? |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by olutunde12(m): 6:04pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Some parents do it mostly for children that look very much like them. Many parents that i know love one child or the other but not about making it or not making it. I child is loved from infancy, and no child mkes it from the womb. Only 419 parents do that. |
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