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Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by luthorcorp: 6:08pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
I love all my children equally,I never put one above the other coz sometimes the one you predict to be brighter might end up otherwise at the end... 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Chestar5(f): 6:10pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
chito14: am in the early stage of adulthood, an undergraduate..... Its a known fact tho, they both know dat they dont show love equally ..... |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by angelofurlife: 6:10pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Ephemmm:that is not true my friend, my father loves us all equally and I mean equally. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by ifeomaekol(f): 6:15pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
oreos:yes, dts very true and am used to it. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by olutunde12(m): 6:22pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
angelofurlife: O kare jare. I have two sons and I LOVE them EQUALLY! Believe what you want to believe, but me o, I love my children equally. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by brightnelly(f): 6:22pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Hmmmmmm!!! This is a difficult one... |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by ifeomaekol(f): 6:24pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
[quote author=Begonia post=37638202] Oh! That must really hurt. In the end, all things work together for good. I hope you stay strong.[/quote thanks, am used to it. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by chito14(f): 6:33pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Chestar5: Thats sad. I have 2 boys one is 10 y the last 14 month of course my last need more attention than the big one and in characters you can't compare them at all... to be truth i feel sometimes more near to the last. I think is becouse he has more of my character. But to treat them different i can't imagen. I think is a no go and all parents should be aware of it |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by killercute16(m): 6:59pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Pidggin:And do you feel jealous or just normal about it? |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by killercute16(m): 7:06pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Chestar5:Pls.....you are neva a mistake,you are just a blessing in disguise. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by bummyla(m): 7:12pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Ok! Still reading your comments! http://www.bummyla.com |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by simdam500(m): 7:21pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
I was here |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by amaka42(f): 7:41pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Na wao |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Nobody: 7:43pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
You are a good mother. God bless you and your family. mutter: |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by YabaLeftist: 7:44pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
A mother of 5 once confided in me that she loves 3 of her kids more than the other 2, but implored me not to ever reveal it to them. She loves the first child who is female, the third child who is male and the last child also a male. She said she the other two, a boy and a girl are not her favorites, rather the husband loves them more than the aforementioned 3. I must say I was totally taken aback by the disclosure. I find it really perplexing that parents will have favorites among their kids. I can't imagine loving any of my future kids differently except perchance any of them later proves to be a "black sheep." Other than that I see no reason why I should love any of them less than the other. It's totally preposterous. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by bummyla(m): 7:46pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
I remember waking up my parents up about 3 to 4 times at different times and age, at night to asked them if they were indeed my biological parents because I do not feel accepted by them! now I have left home, I heard my youngest sibling just started asking them the same question, I did ask them.! And my Mum nearly died too when her favorite son died untimely 11 years ago! And I am doing better than my elder brother whom my mum loved so much that I started hating him, to the extent at age 16 I paid people to beat him up for me! And my mother took me to hell and back. But I am grateful because it all made me a better, sweet young man! http://www.bummyla.com |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Ndeewonu: 8:04pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
trendphemmy: If it is not possible for a parent to have equal love for their children, how then is it possible for a man to have equal love for FOUR WIVES, AS RECOMMENDED BY ONE PROPHET? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by trendphemmy(m): 9:06pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Ndeewonu:can u love 2 girlfriends equally? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by angelofurlife: 9:15pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
olutunde12:what does okare mean? |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Ohana(m): 10:14pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
neoapocalypse:I fully understand your angle but the point I want to stress out is PREFERENCE. Every creation is a product of the creator. among all that God created, there are always those that are more favoured than the rest. among all the men in the world he chose Abraham. among all nations, he chose Israel. so this issue does not originate from man. it has been existing even before the existence of man. my opinion though... 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
#sadmemories! But all the same God has accepted me and never left me found wanting. As for my parents well..... 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by fairheven: 10:27pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
it very possible. As a parent you can love your kids for different reasons and peculiar characteristics Like bible will say, "in my father's house, there are many mansion" that means as parents you should have mansions(room enough)for every child,everyone have a unique place in your heart. Its height of immaturity for parents not to love equally |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by somegirl1: 10:52pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
You can love a person so much you could die for them, and not particularly like their personalities or behaviours. This applies to husband - wife, parent- child, sibling relationships as well. I don't believe you can like all your children to the same degree as their personalities would differ. Same way it is natural to like some siblings a bit more than the others or one parent more. Feeling that extra bit of affection towards a child is normal but you don't have to give special treatment to that child. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Seventeen(f): 11:38pm On Sep 03, 2015 |
Some people are confusing love with like. A parents love for their kids is always equal. Infact its an unexplainable thing. Its just natural.... However u can like ur childrens personalities, behaviors, characters, prefrences, etc differently. U culd like one of ur kids more because of a particular thing dat interests u. This is what many people are referring to as 'loving unequally'. Its different. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Nobody: 2:46am On Sep 04, 2015 |
YES! |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by bumtos(m): 3:26am On Sep 04, 2015 |
It is not posible simply because the children characters. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by acada111(f): 6:38am On Sep 04, 2015 |
It's not possible jare. As kids growing up, we saw that our parents loved the oldest one more. We used to grumble about it then. Presently as adults, we've come to accept and live with it and love them all the same because every family has got its own challenges. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Manlado: 7:00am On Sep 04, 2015 |
Since there is no true way of measuring love, whoever need the love get it the most. A troublesome child needs caution/punishment A prosperous child needs encouragement Children will all for in one of these categories. However, a missing child who take all the love available. And yes it's very possible to love all your kids despite their differences 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by SamAbims(m): 8:48am On Sep 04, 2015 |
It is practically impossible... While it might not be true,I'd always felt like I'm d least loved child of my parent but it does not affect me a bit because I know they still have love for me but its apparent there is one among us they love so dearly... Nevertheless, I love my parent so much 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by kachiz(m): 10:07am On Sep 04, 2015 |
mutter: Will you be my mom? You couldn't have written it any better. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by charlsecy(m): 4:06pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
neoapocalypse:Sometimes, humans cannot help having a favourite. Even Jesus had apostles who were closer to Him! 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Possible To Love All Your Children Equally? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Sep 04, 2015 |
charlsecy: Does this mean every human has a favourite out of his/her children , no parent ever loved his/her wards equally ? |
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