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26 Signs That Your Guy Is Cheating..... by fajani(m): 2:46pm On Aug 30, 2015
Most of our Nigerian girls don't really have the idea that their so called boy friends are cheating on them especially those who are blind folded with love, here are the 26 signs that he is a cheater

1. He tells you he isn't really ready for a relationship early on. Yet he continues to talk to you and lead you on in a way that seems serious. You just go with it because he is cute, seems genuine, gives you attention, and you might just think he'll change and realize you're "the one."

2. He puts his phone on airplane mode. That way you can't see incoming texts when you ask to see pictures on his phone that you guys just took of each other.

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3. He wears a man ponytail. AKA ponymale.

4. He takes his phone with him every time he goes to the bathroom.

5. He has more friends that are girls than you do, and he only has a few guy friends.

6. You haven't met a lot of his friends even though you hang out with him a lot. They're always busy.

7. His phone battery seems to die more than the average person’s, making him unreachable for extended periods of time.

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8. He gives you just enough attention to keep you around but not enough to actually move forward in your "relationship."

9. He always has a reason why you can’t meet up with him. Like he's "not sure when he’ll be off work” or it’s “just the guys.”

10. Every time you call him out on something (like why he went so MIA on text) he turns it around on you, saying you’re being clingy or crazy.

11. He stops initiating sexy time.

12. You never know where he is. But he refuses to add you on Find My Friends.

13. He refers to himself here and there as "a loner." Time to walk the F away.

14. He is a shitty communicator and takes forever to text you back. Duh, because he's texting countless other girls, so it takes a while for him to get back to you.

15. He occasionally agrees to plans, then backs out later — like telling you he can come to your cousin’s wedding and then acting weird when you actually try to book a rental car.

16. He falls off the map more often than not.

17. He can't commit — to you or to future plans, even things like what you're going to do with him on Saturday.

18. He sometimes lies about random/inconsequential things at times when it doesn’t really seem to matter.

19. Everyone he follows on Instagram appears to be a sexy-looking, half-naked woman.

20. He has a lot of numbers in his phone that aren't saved under names. You can bet those numbers are attached to girls who are conversing with him in a flirty manner. Trust.

21. You haven't met his family. OK, maybe his mom, but she doesn't even know what he's up to, and you only met her for an hour.

22. You find alarming texts in his phone that say, "Have you been tested?"

23. He has his text messages linked to his iPad and stored in the "Finance folder." SHADY!

24. He comes up on your friend's Tinder.

25. When you pick up his phone to do something innocuous like check the time he FREAKS OUT and/or snatches it away from you with some lame excuse like "my mom's texts are embarrassing" or "phones are really personal."

26. If you calmly and sincerely approach your partner about the thought that something seems off or makes you uncomfortable, and he or she lashes out and make you feel insecure or insane, it's because s/he is deflecting. A caring relationship involves talking things out and caring about one another's feelings and validating them, while trying to resolve an issue in a constructive and healthy way.

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Re: 26 Signs That Your Guy Is Cheating..... by DEXTROVERT: 2:49pm On Aug 30, 2015
Lol
Re: 26 Signs That Your Guy Is Cheating..... by vizkiz: 2:54pm On Aug 30, 2015
I never did any of these and I had 4 girlfriends undecided

Btw, we all know you copied and pasted this shiit, at least you for try edit am na...you even copied the advert join sefgrin

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Re: 26 Signs That Your Guy Is Cheating..... by QueenHeart(f): 3:05pm On Aug 30, 2015
100% correct o
Re: 26 Signs That Your Guy Is Cheating..... by shaiba(f): 3:06pm On Aug 30, 2015
No be only signs, please send 26 wonders he's not cheating. wink
Re: 26 Signs That Your Guy Is Cheating..... by naijaboiy: 3:10pm On Aug 30, 2015
Nice one! cheesy

Just learnt something new...Number 2 grin

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Re: 26 Signs That Your Guy Is Cheating..... by Nobody: 3:10pm On Aug 30, 2015
No.23 just reminded me of one fvcked up niccur, that keeps his porn videos , in a folder called SYSTEM FILES.......in his laptop undecided

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Re: 26 Signs That Your Guy Is Cheating..... by naijaboiy: 3:11pm On Aug 30, 2015
shaiba:
No be only signs, please send 26 wonders he's not cheating. wink
When he's not doing any of the above listed then he's not. smiley
Re: 26 Signs That Your Guy Is Cheating..... by kwencypresh(f): 3:20pm On Aug 30, 2015
naijaboiy:
Nice one! cheesy

Just learnt something new...Number 2 grin
i go tell ur babe
Re: 26 Signs That Your Guy Is Cheating..... by naijaboiy: 3:23pm On Aug 30, 2015
kwencypresh:
i go tell ur babe
tongue
Re: 26 Signs That Your Guy Is Cheating..... by kwencypresh(f): 3:24pm On Aug 30, 2015
naijaboiy:
tongue
i don catch u If u like put ur fone for motor mode
Re: 26 Signs That Your Guy Is Cheating..... by fajani(m): 3:29pm On Aug 30, 2015
shaiba:
No be only signs, please send 26 wonders he's not cheating. wink
lol. 1. He will burn his airtime only on you.
2. He will keep updating you ,247
3.He won't put security code on his phone when you are around
4. He will be glad to know your parents and your family
5. He will plan his future with you
6. He will help you in kitchen
7. He will keep your pictures on his phone especially the one you snap together..
8.He won't be suspecting you having another guy.
Etc........
Re: 26 Signs That Your Guy Is Cheating..... by fajani(m): 3:31pm On Aug 30, 2015
kwencypresh:
i don catch u
If u like put ur fone for motor mode
lol
Re: 26 Signs That Your Guy Is Cheating..... by MRBrownJ: 3:36pm On Aug 30, 2015
NONSENSE!!!!!
@fajani, since you are clueless about us men, let me help you, since NONE of the stuff you mentionned is a confirmation of cheating:

1. He tells you he isn't really ready for a relationship early on. Yet he continues to talk to you and lead you on in a way that seems serious. You just go with it because he is cute, seems genuine, gives you attention, and you might just think he'll change and realize you're "the one."
its called BEING SERIOUS about not wanting a serious r/ship... but he still wants to fukc you.

2. He puts his phone on airplane mode. That way you can't see incoming texts when you ask to see pictures on his phone that you guys just took of each other.
whats the point of that since she could well see all the past msgs sent to him?!

3. He wears a man ponytail. AKA ponymale.
UTTER RUBBISH

4. He takes his phone with him every time he goes to the bathroom.
he may be a very private secretive person, and there is nothing unfaithful about that

5. He has more friends that are girls than you do, and he only has a few guy friends.
so having a lot of female friends means he is cheating?! which cave did you crawl out from?!

6. You haven't met a lot of his friends even though you hang out with him a lot. They're always busy.
so its against the law to have busy friends?! what if it was just because that the gal was too "village" like?!

7. His phone battery seems to die more than the average person’s, making him unreachable for extended periods of time.
so being unreachable because you have a bad battery means you are cheating?!

8. He gives you just enough attention to keep you around but not enough to actually move forward in your "relationship."
since when does ALL r/ships need to move on, regardless of what you guys experience together?

9. He always has a reason why you can’t meet up with him. Like he's "not sure when he’ll be off work” or it’s “just the guys.”
is being busy a confirmation of cheating now? maybe she is just NOT that important in his life!

10. Every time you call him out on something (like why he went so MIA on text) he turns it around on you, saying you’re being clingy or crazy.
its called having a life, you should look it up in the dictionary if you dont know what it means

11. He stops initiating sexy time.
so a guy is ALWAYS the one who should initiate sex time? if it is so important to women, why dont they initiate it? et voila!

12. You never know where he is. But he refuses to add you on Find My Friends.
bwaaaaaaah! what next? a chip under his skin to follow his every move.

13. He refers to himself here and there as "a loner." Time to walk the F away.
and thats a sign of "cheating"?! how exactly?!

14. He is a shitty communicator and takes forever to text you back. Duh, because he's texting countless other girls, so it takes a while for him to get back to you.
what about because he has a LIFE and is BUSY?!

15. He occasionally agrees to plans, then backs out later — like telling you he can come to your cousin’s wedding and then acting weird when you actually try to book a rental car.
emergencies happen all the time, i suggest you wake up and live in the real world

16. He falls off the map more often than not.
and thats a sign of "cheating"?! how exactly?!

17. He can't commit — to you or to future plans, even things like what you're going to do with him on Saturday.
its called having a life and being BUSY

18. He sometimes lies about random/inconsequential things at times when it doesn’t really seem to matter.
when does being a LIAR equates to being a CHEATER?!

19. Everyone he follows on Instagram appears to be a sexy-looking, half-naked woman.
is there a law against liking sexy looking half nāked women?!

20. He has a lot of numbers in his phone that aren't saved under names. You can bet those numbers are attached to girls who are conversing with him in a flirty manner. Trust.
pls do tell us what more can you see in your crystal ball

21. You haven't met his family. OK, maybe his mom, but she doesn't even know what he's up to, and you only met her for an hour.
that means its not time yet, OR you are not the one... but certainly not that he is CHEATING

22. You find alarming texts in his phone that say, "Have you been tested?"
its called "prevention"

23. He has his text messages linked to his iPad and stored in the "Finance folder." SHADY!
he has a gf that snoops around his personal stuff, like a PI... shaddier!

24. He comes up on your friend's Tinder.
and what the fukc are YOU doing searching people on Tinder, you hypocrite?!?!?!?

25. When you pick up his phone to do something innocuous like check the time he FREAKS OUT and/or snatches it away from you with some lame excuse like "my mom's texts are embarrassing" or "phones are really personal."
excuses which could be true, isnt it?!

26. If you calmly and sincerely approach your partner about the thought that something seems off or makes you uncomfortable, and he or she lashes out and make you feel insecure or insane, it's because s/he is deflecting. A caring relationship involves talking things out and caring about one another's feelings and validating them, while trying to resolve an issue in a constructive and healthy way.
and how is that a confirmation of cheating again?!

BTW i suggest you stop following what these garbage magazines write in order to sell more of their BS to sheep all over the world!

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