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How To Make A Girl Visit You, Even When She Suspects You Are ‘up To Something’. by arthurflex(m): 10:56pm On Aug 30, 2015
After reading this, you will learn a
“dangerously” effective way that you can
use to make a girl visit you, even when
she suspects you are “up to something”
*winks*

But before we dive into that, let me make
something clear. All the tips I’m about to
show you will not work if you’ve not
made a girl interested in you, at least, a
bit.

But don’t worry, right here on the NEXT
post, will contain “How to make a girl
interested in you”.

If you’ve been following my articles then
continue reading. But if you’ve not, make
sure you check out my other write ups
after reading this.

In my other articles you will learn some
secrets you can use to make a girl
interested in you. Now, let’s start… Shall
we? If yes, click on getting a girl to visit
you is super easy. The problem is that
most guys don’t find it so..
You ask a girl to come over and visit you
and she turns you down, giving some
flimsy excuses. Sometimes she agrees
to come over and then turns around to
disappoint you. I’ve been there before,
till i learnt how to “trick” my way out of it.
Here is why girls are avoiding your
house…
It’s because you are scaring them away.
Don’t worry. Let me explain further.
Firstly, a girl will never visit you if she
finds you boring (read my article on “how
to talk to girls” to put a stop to being
boring).

Secondly, a girl will avoid your house if
she notices you are desperate for her
visit. Never ever beg a girl to visit you.
Never give her the impression that she is
doing you a favour by visiting you. You
dey get the gist abi?

As in, Never ever ever make a girl feel
you are badly in need for her visit. It
scares them like crazy. It gives her this
impression that: “he wants sex, that is
why he has been begging me to visit”.

The best approach is to make it seem
you are inviting her over for something.
As in, you have to give her this idea that
she is coming over for a reason.

Let me give you an example.
Here is one trick that is damn effective…
You could call a girl up today, after
making her interested in you, then go
like:
“Hey, I want to cook ogbono soup. I
need directions abeg. Shebi you can
cook it”
Of course she go know. Ask her to give
you directions, then make a show of
acting as if you are writing the directions
down.


NOTE: She will find this funny and you
both will have a good laugh as she gives
you the direction over the phone.
After she is done with the directions,
thank her and hang up Then give her like
30 minutes and call her again. Then say
something like:

YOU: “Haba na. You give me fake
directions na”.
HER: “Lol. How”
YOU: “I just finished cooking the soup, it
doesn’t draw. you give me direction for
non-drawing ogbono soup? Plus the
soup looks funny. It’s red here and
brown there”.

If you do this well, it will make her laugh.
Go ahead and PLAYFULLY tease her:
YOU: “Haba, we are beefing o. you for tell
you can’t cook ogbono na”. Bla bla bla
bla.
When you two are done laughing over the
whole thing. Tell her you will call her
back and end the call.

Two days later, contact her, tell her you
feel like eating ogbono soup the next
day. And you wouldn’t want to take a
risk again, and that you really need to
learn how to cook the soup.

Then invite her over to TEACH YOU. Not
to cook it for you (you never can tell if
she is a feminist who doesn’t like
cooking for guys. Lol).

Use the word
TEACH, it’s safer!
Hope you got the whole strategy?
Here is the point, directly asking a girl to
come and visit you raises the red flag in
her head and makes her wonder what
you are up to.

When you give her a reason, it makes her
relaxed. Also, girls don’t like to feel as if
they gave in to a guy’s “temptation”. It
makes them feel cheap.

But when you structure your invitation
like it’s not a temptation, you make it
easier for her to come – even though
she knows it might still be a temptation.
Some other “reasons” you can give a girl
to come over are:

– “There is this new action movie I got,
come over let’s watch it together. Bring
pop corns. I will bring the drinks”
– “Can you play cheese? Come over let
me teach you. Make sure you come with
note books for note taking”.

Are you getting the pattern here?
One; You are inviting her over with a
reason
Two; you are making her see you are not
desperate for her visit by playfully giving
her conditions for her visit (eg: bring pop
corns)
Three; You are sounding as if she will
agree to the invitation. As in, you went
ahead to ask her to bring pop corns
without waiting for her to give an answer
if she will come or not.


DISCLAIMER: Only use this strategy on a
girl you suspect will turn you down if you
directly invite her over. If you are sure
she won’t turn you down, just directly
ask her to come and visit you (no need
for the hassle in that case).


Source: Arthur Flex (The Elite)
Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You, Even When She Suspects You Are ‘up To Something’. by witnezHD(m): 10:58pm On Aug 30, 2015
Some Preachers start their sermon wit... "people who jump from church to church are confused" & end it with "please invite your friends to join us" #Wondering_who_is_really_d_conf used_one

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Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You, Even When She Suspects You Are ‘up To Something’. by Toro2015(m): 11:01pm On Aug 30, 2015
U don go remix charlesneji work.
Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You, Even When She Suspects You Are ‘up To Something’. by peeparty(m): 11:09pm On Aug 30, 2015
mtcheee this kind advice na for small bios na.real men do not waste time on this.
secondly no street wise geh will fall for this lubbish.
Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You, Even When She Suspects You Are ‘up To Something’. by kesprime(m): 11:19pm On Aug 30, 2015
Omo this one na long story oh...truth being told is if a girl likes you, once you invite her over she would come... if she doesn't like you, even if u use dis trick and it works she would not open leg for u to do anytn....except ure planing on raping her...lols...

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Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You, Even When She Suspects You Are ‘up To Something’. by Eniqurl(f): 11:21pm On Aug 30, 2015
Sm1 shld summarize pls
Re: How To Make A Girl Visit You, Even When She Suspects You Are ‘up To Something’. by arthurflex(m): 11:45pm On Aug 30, 2015
witnezHD:
Some Preachers start their sermon
wit...
"people who jump from church to
church are confused" & end it with
"please invite your friends to join
us"
#Wondering_who_is_really_d_conf
used_one


Fallacy!

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