Kingsasian:
nobody is perfect. we all have our own weaknessess.

donholy28:
The good ones are wallowing in d friend zone

NanaSparks:
Friend zoning is a feminine disease that the cure hasn't been discovered. Pray for us the holy one

donholy28:
The good ones are wallowing in d friend zone

cyprus000:

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All said and case close.


If you ask me. I will say its misunderstaning. People tend to take one goodness for foolishness,weakness and ride.

Show a lady good and gentleman you are. She will term you "boring" or interpret it as "asslicking" there by abusing that priviledge under the mantra of "maga" or her boy. When I say "boy". I mean ODE(mumu).


All this can fustrate a guy.

NOTE: this is a male side of view.

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NanaSparks:

Thanks for indicating it's a male side of view cause I was beginning to wonder.
I have had a similar case with a dude who thought me a fool to use you know. So, it's applicable to the ladies too.

NanaSparks:
I know this is one of the most controversial section on this forum and God help me,I may end up getting my a$$ whipped severally for this but some will still make sense of what am about to write and make equally sensible contribution. So,here we go


I am an average Nigerian and though I can't claim to know much cause I don't, I can say that I have had a few experience and had series of discussion with friends, family, colleagues and some random persons that always leave me wondering where the good ones at?.
We always claim to be having issues in our relationship that always put us at the receiving end.
I have heard and seen cases of abusive relationship where none wants to admit they are at fault.
If Miss B decides to for instance walk out of a relationship with Mr G cause she finally got the voice to speak for herself and want to be her own person, Mr G will go all teary-eyed and beg for a reconciliation but will turn around to be a monster, telling whoever cares to listen how bad she was and all.

I may not be making sense or succeeded in creating the intended picture but what would you have an African lady brought up with a mixture of African and western cultures do when an equally African man with the same background wants an educated lady but that who will jump up and awaits orders at the sound of his voice do

I heard fairy tales are for only movies but if they can ever be imagined why then can't they be real
You hear of a broken relationship today and no partner will ever admit to being the weak one.

If we all have beautiful traits and unquestionable characters, why do we always end up hard broken or do we mean to say the good ones are all married

Pls ladies and gents,come in here and tell me;where the good ones at

Have you got any idea? Chocolateme or chocolateyou