The oft-asked question in dating is which of the medium between calling or texting is the most effective way to ask a girl out. It has been said that how one go about asking a girl out determines to an extent if the answer will be a Yes or a No. Many of us often ask a girl out through texting via sms, whatsapp, facebook, 2go, bbm etc while some prefer calling. So, for you nairalanders, what do you think is the best medium to ask a girl out? State why you think one is better than the other. And if you have any experience asking a girl out either through texting or calling, you can kindly share.

And GIRLS which of the medium do you prefer a guy should use when asking a girl out?

ladies are always bold to speak with any guy on the phone,i prefer you meeting her in camera to any of the above..

E Mail or town crier

One -on-one better pass

elijah2u:
One -on-one better pass

what if it is hard getting to meet her one-on-one?
For me, i think i will go with calling as it makes the boy come off as brave and confident. If the finding that ladies like confident men is anything to go by, then a boy who calls to ask a girl out stands a greater chance especially if she is already into you.

F2F...

All medium available

Never hint friendship

If i talk to u as a lady.. U should know ur category by default.. Friend or lover.. No fence.

lordtosan:
what if it is hard getting to meet her one-on-one?
For me, i think i will go with calling as it makes the boy come off as brave and confident. If the finding that ladies like confident men is anything to go by, then a boy who calls to ask a girl out stands a greater chance especially if she is already into you.

if you succeed in winning her through phone call, won't you meet her one on one? I guess you have the fear that she might turn you down if it were to be one on one ,but it pays to go one on one. Just take courage, all ladies are not smart to the extent of making you blush. Some can be scary but if you just start from the word 'hi'believe the work is away done

Some ladies don't care which medium you use, that's if they're into you. As for me, I still prefer the physical medium tho.