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Should Younger Males Marry Older Women? by Nobody: 2:39pm On Sep 13, 2015
SHOULD YOUNGER MALES MARRY OLDER WOMEN?

Being married to a younger man has been a learning experience, for sure. I'm not one of those women who fear my younger spouse will ditch me eventually for a young hot babe but there are definitely some drawbacks:

1. The Comments: If one more person, after finding out my husband is 10 years younger, says "You GO, girl!" or "What a cougar!" I'm going to lose my shit. I didn't stalk him in the bushes and drag him home to my senior assisted-living apartment. My husband pointed out no one ever says anything to him so he is off that hook. What would they say, anyway? "Way to work out your lingering mother issues, dude"?

2. The Assumption We Are Having Sex 24/7: While it's true younger men have more (ahem) stamina, our sex life is as boring and predictable as any other married couple. For example, when I ask my husband if he is in the mood for a "BJ", he knows I am asking if he would like to snarf down a pint of Ben and Jerry's with me. Doesn't get sexier than that, folks!

3. Communication Issues: Words change meanings over generations which can result in some humorous exchanges. I used to say I was "hooking up" with my friends meaning I was going to meet them and hang out. In my husband's world, "hooking up" means getting together for the purpose of sexy-time. You ought to see the glazed look that comes over his eyes when I announce I am "hooking up" with a few friends for lunch.

What do all think about this?

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Re: Should Younger Males Marry Older Women? by Cutehector(m): 2:40pm On Sep 13, 2015
I like my wife younger dan I am...

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Re: Should Younger Males Marry Older Women? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Sep 13, 2015
there is nothing wrong with it

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Re: Should Younger Males Marry Older Women? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Sep 13, 2015
softapples:
there is nothing wrong with it
Explain why
Re: Should Younger Males Marry Older Women? by vizkiz: 3:01pm On Sep 13, 2015
some will say "age is just a number" but let us face the reality there, you Don't expect an older partner to "respect" you

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Re: Should Younger Males Marry Older Women? by Nobody: 3:05pm On Sep 13, 2015
vizkiz:
some will say "age is just a number" but let us face the reality there, you Don't expect an older partner to "respect" you
STFU

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Re: Should Younger Males Marry Older Women? by vizkiz: 3:11pm On Sep 13, 2015
freshRaymond:

STFU


who is this dumb furck Nigga just back off! I don't deal with dumb-ass(es) undecided

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Re: Should Younger Males Marry Older Women? by therealdeal10: 3:28pm On Sep 13, 2015
Yeah there's notin dere jst as far as respect is reciprocate among dem no problem.

N dey trust each oda 100%

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Re: Should Younger Males Marry Older Women? by Peachess(f): 3:39pm On Sep 13, 2015
No, I prefer older guys…can't even imagine dating someone younger than I am. That's a huge turn off

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Re: Should Younger Males Marry Older Women? by Nobody: 7:15pm On Sep 13, 2015
Poooo

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Re: Should Younger Males Marry Older Women? by Nobody: 8:23pm On Sep 13, 2015
Nope! The "average typical, egotistic" male can not and will not marry women older than them.

Only the very virile, testosterone surged, self assured and highly confident young grown and matured males will even attempt to talk to an older women!

These dying breed men are Less than 5% of men universally and -0.00001% of them are on NL romanceland specifically!

Why dont we ask same question for old men marrying young girls-Which is usually Sick perversion level.

Bunch of wussies

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Re: Should Younger Males Marry Older Women? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Sep 13, 2015
Mtcheww
Re: Should Younger Males Marry Older Women? by Captainswag225(m): 9:13pm On Sep 13, 2015
it depends on the women. I dont know why they disrespect younger guys in a relationship.
Re: Should Younger Males Marry Older Women? by Nobody: 11:15pm On Sep 13, 2015
Seriously, I plan on marrying an older woman. 1-2 years older
Re: Should Younger Males Marry Older Women? by Nobody: 6:27am On Sep 14, 2015
Closecall:

Explain why
AGE is just a number, believe me i can get married to an older lady but the age gap wont be too big, d most important thing is LOVE, UNDERSTANDING, LOYALTY AND RESPECT from her.

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