fantazia:
@UR last sentence, ure kidding right?

Nah. Serious as death.

MrsPhyno:
She's not overreacting. Males rarely have female bestfriends, unlike babes that have close male friends all the time. The fact that the lady in question is his ex makes it that much worse. Since they're actually married, the guy should just cut the ties if that's what will make his wife happy. Life involves sacrifice

As for me, my hubby won't have anyyyyy friends besides me, not even guy friends

How can females have close male friends ALL THE TIME when males RARELY have female best friends?

Mindfulness:


How can females have close male friends ALL THE TIME when males RARELY have female best friends?

Okay you got me there. Maybe all the females are sharing sha I'm sure you understand my point tho.

NashvilleTN:
The person I blame here is your cousin. Seriously, I think she has low self esteem and she needs to work on herself. Don't get me wrong, the husband is clearly crossing the line here and for you cousin to even tolerate such and she is just becoming uncomfortable is quite surprising. And from what I can conclude, the ex is still single and your cousin's marriage seems to be a young marriage.

Please tell your cousin to speak to her husband and make it clear to him she is uncomfortable with their closeness. She has other friends she can take her relationship problems to and it is not nice for her to visit you. Like seriously? If he tries to explain, ask her to tell him if the roles were reversed how will he feel?

I am a married man myself and I cannot even imagine bring my ex to my house or my wife doing such. I am one of those that strongly feel that if you are married, you have no business being best friends with the opposite spouse - which kain bestie be that?

Welcome back *hugs*

MrsPhyno:

Okay you got me there. Maybe all the females are sharing sha I'm sure you understand my point tho.

There are men who have plenty of female friends so you are probably right saying that they seem to be sharing their male best friend(s).
But I sense you were implying more than that.

Mindfulness:


There are men who have plenty of female friends so you are probably right saying that they seem to be sharing their male best friend(s).
But I sense you were implying more than that.

I wasn't implying anything other than the obvious sir

MrsPhyno:

Nah. Serious as death.

chai so hw do u expect him to cope while ure away, like travled?

fantazia:
chai so hw do u expect him to cope while ure away, like travled?

he maybe a loner nah, someone who likes being alone an introvert

MrsPhyno:

he maybe a loner nah, someone who likes being alone an introvert

lol dat makes him dangerous in d presence of ur house help while ure away

fantazia:
lol dat makes him dangerous in d presence of ur house help while ure away

house wetin? we will not have house help simple thing is, i don't like overly social guys. I will be the social one and he can have me. Das all

MrsPhyno:

I wasn't implying anything other than the obvious sir

You are probably speaking from experience.

MrsPhyno:

house wetin? we will not have house help simple thing is, i don't like overly social guys. I will be the social one and he can have me. Das all

then babe im sorry such guyz only exist in vetican city.

Mindfulness:


You are probably speaking from experience.

Not at all

fantazia:
then babe im sorry such guyz only exist in vetican city.

It's not like I'm expecting him to be perfect (like me ), just somethings. Are you saying there are no guys that are loners?

MrsPhyno:

Not at all


It's not like I'm expecting him to be perfect (like me ), just somethings. Are you saying there are no guys that are loners?

they were but in d past century not in this current century when everybody wants to belong and their eyez don tear reach ear.

MrsPhyno:

Not at all


It's not like I'm expecting him to be perfect (like me ), just somethings. Are you saying there are no guys that are loners?

ur wify is suppose to b ur besty not an ex. Ur cousin is takin d mata litely. Ex shd remain in d past. Why he be discussing his family issues with an ex? Dt is involvin a stranger in ur family. To avoid matas arising he shd cut all close tie with d ex. Prevention is beta dan cure

fantazia:
are u related to ladyf?

Not at all

that's just what my ex,wanted me to start doing with him,and i was like what arrant nonsense,rubbish of the highest order,and he said his wife is aware of it.lol
he made me knw that his wife was with him when he was telling me. I was force to speak to the wife,i was now the one talking sense in2 her..... Na wa for men o! My hubby never get that kind liver to try tell me such(not even doing it).