pcguru1:


No doubt but it becomes annoying when it becomes a weapon for the society to attack anyone, anytime a celebrity that is not married is mentioned on nairaland thw first thing they use to insult is "no husband" its also annoying when they make it seem a woman is incomplete without a man. Never see a male single celebrity attacked like that. Double standards i guess. Besides that post wasn't directed to Linda it's a general statement

Jochebed7:
No husband




so??

moscobabs:
I beg sey na Birthday she suppose dey celebrate at 35?

she no dey shame?

moscobabs:
I beg sey na Birthday she suppose dey celebrate at 35?

she no dey shame?

moscobabs:
I beg sey na Birthday she suppose dey celebrate at 35?

she no dey shame?

Jamean:


Marriage activist

kbright911:

What d Bleep is wrong with u nigga.. She's happy and ain't complaining plus her bank acc is far far larger than urs.. So let the chick be. She will get married at God's own appointed time.

Houseofglam7:
Quarter to menopause


Na joke I dey o

kbright911:

What d Bleep is wrong with u nigga.. She's happy and ain't complaining plus her bank acc is far far larger than urs.. So let the chick be. She will get married at God's own appointed time. Age ain't a matter. She's still looking very young dan most girls at 25.

Heromaniaa:
Who husband help? she will marry when she likes. I love that she gives back to her blog visitors. something Seun has not been able to do.

chineloSA:


Maybe you should read her blog.

She finally indicated the desire to get married an have kids.

You people should not encourage her to continue with this "Wanna be Oprah" rubbish. So needs a man and a family.

Otherwise at her age she will end up with a divorcee, babydaddy's etc an all useless men which will make her life miserable. Well at her age the probability of ending with the above mentioned is very high. Or she may end up crying on TV interviews like "Tyra Banks"

She needs a man a kids. Money can never listen to her, cuddle, laugh with her, tak holidays with her, comfort her and have s.x with her.

So please people, stop encouraging rubbish. She is not Oprah. Even Oprah regrets it, though she won't tell us, but she does.

Abayor7:
where is the BLACK GATE?

moscobabs:

how do u know she's happy?
.
cos she's celebrating birthday or cos she's making money?

Heromaniaa:
Who husband help? she will marry when she likes. I love that she gives back to her blog visitors. something Seun has not been able to do.

chineloSA:



Read her yesterday's blog an stop talking on her behalf.She wanna get married, please.


I can't even begin to explain how happy I feel. I am so grateful! I'm 35 years old today and I have so far been able to do a lot of the things I wanted to do with my life...I've made most of dreams come true. One of the dreams I haven't accomplished yet is being a mum...and a wife of course...lol. Hopefully, that will happen for me soon

http://lindaikeji..com/2015/09/its-my-birthday-today-yay-happy.html?m=1
She's sha not ready, if sheis ready there re a lot of suitors coming for her to choose from.

chineloSA:


Well anyone is incomplete without a family of their own. When people approach their forties they feel it. We all wanna to be loved and reciprocate love. If you don't have a family of your own, start planning for it, because you will regret it. Even the nuns an priests wish they had families so let's not deceive each other.

As for attacking females, thats not true, NLres are also vocal about male celebrities who are going around making girls pregnant and turning them into baby mamas. Good example Flavor and Anna, 2Baba before he turned Annie into an honest woman and Davido. So woman bashing only claim is not true.

Whether it was directed to Linda or the whole world the point is people ( man and woman) should be encouraged to look for a partner. Singlehood increases babies born out of wedlock. Which result to a dysfunctioning society. I believe every child deserve a chance to grow in a family with both parents except in cases beyond ones control like death etc.

moscobabs:
I beg sey na Birthday she suppose dey celebrate at 35?

she no dey shame?

gohamburg:



HBD Linda.
Marriage while very key, is not to be rushed into. Carefully, choosing your God-given man is very important.
There are so many unhappy marriages, so much unfaithfulness in marriages, so much heartaches, so much regrets, so much divorces.
Why rush in, only to rush out? I detest the idea of mocking a girl because she is not married!
Linda you are a successful young woman. Insomuch, as time is of essence, be careful who you choose to spend the rest of your life with. Your spouse can either make you or break you. Be wise!
HBD once again.

Heromaniaa:
Who husband help? she will marry when she likes. I love that she gives back to her blog visitors. something Seun has not been able to do.

Heromaniaa:
Who husband help? she will marry when she likes. I love that she gives back to her blog visitors. something Seun has not been able to do.

phineas:
So here's my rejoinder to this piece.

Those criticizing this accomplished lady on the grounds of not been married you'll find to be pple who excuse their inaccomplishments or generally small lives with been married.

Yes, they are those those who made marriage a priority realizing little accomplishments thereafter and so will be quick to promote this "major achievement" in life rather than face the truth that one cap does not fit all and everyone is responsible and at perfect liberty to choose what makes them happy

So next time you see the "where is her husband" comment , just note its the marker for a small minded, unaccomplished, most likely less than average income earning,unsuccessful, unfulfilled Nigerian whose only major accomplishment in life is that marriage as such would want to force it on others to excuse his or her low self esteem in life. They ussually end up marrying retards cos they must marry at all costs and by all means and they'll rather die in the marriage than accept its not working.

Dreamers, visionaries, those with the right kind of attitude will tell you happiness comes first, and one cap does not fit all,they'll tell you life is about making a difference, about impact and contribution, They'll also not be quick to dismiss success with lack or refusal of a person to get married cos they know what it takes to be succesful, they know it takes sacrifices, hardwork, dilligence, patience and careful consideration with key issues of life such as location and marriage amongst others and they respect peoples decisions as regards this virtues and issues.

That said, God bless Linda, the 10kobo bloggers and their success stories should thank her for leading, this lady is a good example in Nigeria, and we had better celebrate her than the mediocrity of been married but useless to self , family and nation at 35.

Many happy returns Miss Ikeji.

Divineluv14:
35 who's her husband