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Is It Bad For Guys To Be 'soft' To Their Women In Relationships? by uchelouis45(m): 11:24am On Sep 20, 2015
I've got a friend by name Tony. He is this tender hearted person and most our friends don't think its ok for a guy to be that way but he tries to be strict most times to his girlfriend who complains also but somehow accepts him for who he is. Still he wants to be hatched to get her respect.

Any advice for him?

Ishilove, lalasticala please do the needful.
Re: Is It Bad For Guys To Be 'soft' To Their Women In Relationships? by ronald4lif(m): 11:27am On Sep 20, 2015
Don't be soft, don't be hard either, be in the middle. Let him not allow his emotions control his actions and decisions and must ensure that while he does everything to please his woman he shouldn't be a push-over or let her control him.

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Re: Is It Bad For Guys To Be 'soft' To Their Women In Relationships? by vizkiz: 11:28am On Sep 20, 2015
if you are soft, they take you as a weak ass. Women are crazy, they sometimes need "iron" hands to keep them on track

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Re: Is It Bad For Guys To Be 'soft' To Their Women In Relationships? by frankay430(m): 11:29am On Sep 20, 2015
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Re: Is It Bad For Guys To Be 'soft' To Their Women In Relationships? by jonaifame22(m): 11:31am On Sep 20, 2015
My brother women are weaker vessels being soft on them will further provoke or irritate them, don't be hard on them jus be firm women love a man that can lead them always

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Re: Is It Bad For Guys To Be 'soft' To Their Women In Relationships? by Nobody: 11:33am On Sep 20, 2015
Soft?? Yea.....it's bad
Re: Is It Bad For Guys To Be 'soft' To Their Women In Relationships? by Nobody: 11:36am On Sep 20, 2015
It's not a bad thing just as long as it's not bordering on being a bytch. Everything in life should have balance. He must show a spine in cases where it's needed, after that he can be as mushy as he likes, in moderation of course wink

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Re: Is It Bad For Guys To Be 'soft' To Their Women In Relationships? by donholy28(m): 11:37am On Sep 20, 2015
One tip…girls don't like a sissy...they prefer d man in charge

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Re: Is It Bad For Guys To Be 'soft' To Their Women In Relationships? by BlackrulesDworld(m): 11:39am On Sep 20, 2015
Be soft on them at your own peril.
If you can't stand your ground in a relationship, the relationship will be futile.

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Re: Is It Bad For Guys To Be 'soft' To Their Women In Relationships? by Nobody: 11:42am On Sep 20, 2015
Finally finally Jona comes up with something 'worthwhile' grin

Who should we thank, your Mom or your Pastor on this amazing reformation cheesy

Anyway, there is a difference between being cool and gentle like a dove and being dumb and foolish like the sheep. So far your friend doesn't belong to the latter, He should be ok.

Being aggressive like an hungry lion is as bad as being dumb and foolish. So, I propose you leave your friend to be true with his nature . smiley .... Happy Sunday wink
Re: Is It Bad For Guys To Be 'soft' To Their Women In Relationships? by 0luwatope(m): 11:56am On Sep 20, 2015
Just be yourself, don't be too soft by letting love activate your stupidity, don't try to be hard cuz u aint gonna pretend forever.
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