Hello house, please need your urgent advice as porn and masturbation is really tearing me apart. Am happily married but my wife does't value sex, have been watching porn since am in secondary but my wife may not be helping me. How can i make her to love sex instead of masturbating.

young gay..hmmm well anyway sha op if to say u dey knack am well na she go find u come bed

Hmmmmmm""Deep Breathe"" [Looks at the Op post Carefully] {shakes my Head} (Speaks In yoruba) "E le Gidi gan"..... ..

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MY DEAR DON'T let Anyone Deceive You... PeopleMustTalk BUT I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT WITH GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE
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U need Jesus

youngay:
Hello house, please need your urgent advice as porn and masturbation is really tearing me apart. Am happily married but my wife does't value sex, have been watching porn since am in secondary but my wife may not be helping me. How can i make her to love sex instead of masturbating.

You are the problem Mr! Leave your wife out of it.

donholy28:
young gay..hmmm well anyway sha op if to say u dey knack am well na she go find u come bed

:-/Even his name says it All......
Youngay

Step 1: change the username
Step2:tell it to God
Step3: talk to you wife
Step4: discipline yourself man!

Open your heart, get hold of a Bible, lock yourself in a room, feel the ambiance, and slowly confess your sins. Tell God everything by saying this prayer...

"God, I recognize that I have not lived my life for You up until now. I have been living for myself and that is wrong. I need You in my life; I want You in my life. I acknowledge the completed work of Your Son Jesus Christ in giving His life for me on the cross at Calvary, and I long to receive the forgiveness you have made freely available to me through this sacrifice. Come into my life now, Lord. Take up residence in my heart and be my king, my Lord, and my Savior. From this day forward, I will no longer be controlled by sin, or the desire to please myself, but I will follow You all the days of my life. Those days are in Your hands. I ask this in Jesus' precious and holy name. Amen."

This is the only way I know... Good luck.

All of You are advising Him to get hold of a bible ...
Haven't you heard of chronics who actually masturbate with the Bibles in the hands

To dem is More Like '' INCREASING THEIR DIFFICULTY LEVEL "' :-D

I really appreciate you guyz.

youngay:
Hello house, please need your urgent advice as porn and masturbation is really tearing me apart. Am happily married but my wife does't value sex, have been watching porn since am in secondary but my wife may not be helping me. How can i make her to love sex instead of masturbating.

mix and drink groundnut oil with fresh palmwine in a cup, then wait 4 twenty minutes b4 fvcking her, i tell u bro afta fvcking her, she will empty her bank account on u.

I had to read that thing very slowly like 5 times before I understood anything there.....

and ur wife na lésbian in the making.... what she wants is not ur penìs,she likes pussi just like you.

Hmmmm Freemanan be the judge

Read this link and see genuine reasons why you should stop, no matter what. 33 reasons you should stop masturbation

You need serious deliverance conducted by Fr.Mbaka

Huhhhh Wonders shall never end

So many unhelpful comments on here, I mean why click on his post if your're just gonna type some meaningless crap? Someone is disturbed enough to come out and ask for help on a serious issues he's having, you either try to help or you turn the other way. There should be rules to ban people for replying with demeaning comments on this section, it's so against the aim of having the section in the first place.

niggi4life:
Bro, Nothing is wrong with you and you are perfectly alright.. The truth is just like every other addiction, too much of it can cause harm than good
You need to look for a way to sleep with your wife more and also gradually stop thinking about sex all the time
It might surprise you that more than 65% of married men masturbate more than the single men
And for those people calling him a gay... his username is young ay not youn gay

This is the first person to actually make any sense here,

Op you're obviously addicted to porn and masturbation (something millions of young Nigerians like you are into also, whether they want to admit or not), indulging in self service even when you're getting regular sex is not strange for people that have that addiction, it's bad omen, trust me...but people have overcome it, so you will, not without some serious determination on your part tho.

The part i don't understand is the lack of sexual satisfaction in your marriage, is it that your wife doesn't fancy sex or are you the the distant person? You both have to find out what the problem is here, having sexual satisfaction in your marriage would go a long way towards helping your out of your situation. Work that out with your wifey.

Then as for masturbation, you have to take a stand, decide to quit, and mean it, get closer to people and avoid lonely occasions that usually
lead to it. Discard of all porn materials and try as much as possible to distance yourself from same. Then last but not the least, get closer to God, pray and be guided by his words.

I hope these would be helpful...

niggi4life:
Bro, Nothing is wrong with you and you are perfectly alright.. The truth is just like every other addiction, too much of it can cause harm than good
You need to look for a way to sleep with your wife more and also gradually stop thinking about sex all the time
It might surprise you that more than 65% of married men masturbate more than the single men


And for those people calling him a gay... his username is young ay not youn gay

OK Sir

TroubadourM:
So many unhelpful comments on here, I mean why click on his post if your're just gonna type some meaningless crap? Someone is disturbed enough to come out and ask for help on a serious issues he's having, you either try to help or you turn the other way. There should be rules to ban people for replying with demeaning comments on this section, it's so against the aim of having the section in the first place.



This is the first person to actually make any sense here,

Op you're obviously addicted to porn and masturbation (something millions of young Nigerians like you are into also, whether they want to admit or not), indulging in self service even when you're getting regular sex is not strange for people that have that addiction, it's bad omen, trust me...but people have overcome it, so you will, not without some serious determination on your part tho.

The part i don't understand is the lack of sexual satisfaction in your marriage, is it that your wife doesn't fancy sex or are you the the distant person? You both have to find out what the problem is here, having sexual satisfaction in your marriage would go a long way towards helping your out of your situation. Work that out with your wifey.

Then as for masturbation, you have to take a stand, decide to quit, and mean it, get closer to people and avoid lonely occasions that usually
lead to it. Discard of all porn materials and try as much as possible to distance yourself from same. Then last but not the least, get closer to God, pray and be guided by his words.

I hope these would be helpful...

OK Sir Sir

stop the porn.

RicardozRichard:
All of You are advising Him to get hold of a bible ...
Haven't you heard of chronics who actually masturbate with the Bibles in the hands

To dem is More Like '' INCREASING THEIR DIFFICULTY LEVEL "' :-D

diffyculty level kwanu? nna na wetin be de name of de game?

no sex before marriage crew come and see ya handwork o because if they were doing it then i don't see y u wouldn't see this coming

Timoleon:

diffyculty level kwanu? nna na wetin be de name of de game?

Super Mario

Pinkiedearie:
Step 1: change the username
Step2:tell it to God
Step3: talk to you wife
Step4: discipline yourself man!

Pinkiedearie:
Step 1: change the username
Step2:tell it to God
Step3: talk to you wife
Step4: discipline yourself man!

Pinkiedearie:
Step 1: change the username
Step2:tell it to God
Step3: talk to you wife
Step4: discipline yourself man!

if you can heed to the above advice, then you shall be free.

Soteriahascome:
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if you can heed to the above advice, then you shall be free.

You sound as if the above adviser used to be a Chronic