platinumnk:

he doesnt drive or cant??

Did u ask him y?

n-guage:

What's the difference between a grown man and a grown ass man?

epi:

I am not sure Sir, it's an expression i hear my mom use.  Maybe the ass is use to give emphasis or stress

epi:

Ladies

Can you date a man in his late twenties that doesn't drive and has no drivers licence? Personally, it's a turn-off for me. I see the guy as LAZY and UNROMANTIC, seriously

epi:

Ladies

Can you date a man in his late twenties that doesn't drive and has no drivers licence? Personally, it's a turn-off for me. I see the guy as LAZY and UNROMANTIC, seriously

*Toyinrayo:

What does driving have to do with romance?

If it's so important to you, why don't you just teach him how to drive?

SeanT21:

My mothers cousin is in her late 30s and does not have a drivers license.It depends on where U live.Many Liberians don't even drive nor have a driver license.New Yorkers are also a prime example.There are other ways of transportation  in NYC so a driver license is not a priority for most.Not having a driver license does not deem a person lazy or unromantic.Its their personal choice.

joxiri:


@ epi you have centered your thread to the wrong crowd, I think, I understand where you are coming from concerning, driving, because it is a big deal over here in the uk as well, because it is a sign of intense maturity when u have a pink license as opposed to a green provivional, yeah pink,
but its not that a big deal in nigeria because you can even have a driver, theres more to life than driving and hence why you have felt the brunt of some posters.
I would say you should encourage the guy to drive and if he doe not want to then you leave it

joxiri:


@Cibilola, i didnt say it was important for dating a guy, but it is a "sign of maturity"

cibilola:

it is not a sign of maturity ooo!!! every tom, privates and harry drives a car nowadays!

joxiri:


@ epi you have centered your thread to the wrong crowd, I think, I understand where you are coming from concerning, driving, because it is a big deal over here in the uk as well, because it is a sign of intense maturity when u have a pink license as opposed to a green provivional, yeah pink,
but its not that a big deal in nigeria because you can even have a driver, theres more to life than driving and hence why you have felt the brunt of some posters.
I would say you should encourage the guy to drive and if he doe not want to then you leave it

platinumnk:

epi - you will never find a correct answer here,
for one (like in the us) not having a license can be a big sign of irresponsibilty, I was waiting in line at the dmv at 16!
but in 9ja where transportation is not so much of a big deal, if i met a guy who didnt know how to drive because he didnt have to then I would hold it against him, but I would encourage him to and if he was afraid to then there are bigger issues at hand than he just driving .

cibilola:

@ joxiri, i actually don't think it is that important for a guy you are dating in the UK to own a car. This is because there are good transport links and all that. Some ppl even find it more romantic going on the tube with their partners so that they can do all the lovey dovey things on the escalators.

However in Nigeria, the guy should have a car, (be it driven personally or having a driver). Otherwise, if he is going on a date with his girl, will they have to jump from one danfo to the other? use okada (motorbike)? or kabu-kabu (yellow cab) i seriously think not!
Even if the guy is seriously loaded with ego (cash, owo) or not, the minimum requirement in Nigeria is that he should have a car

surface:

What has driving of a car got 2 do wit dating,