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Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by bxcode(m): 12:45pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
DISCLAIMER: This is for matured minds who dosen't see sex primarily as a tool for catching fun and showing your love for someone. Do you know why most relationships and marriages fail today? Why people date multiple partners within a short period of time? It's because people left what they ought to be doing and focused all their energy more on emotions, feelings and SEX. People today think that the only stage to a relationship is attraction and boom, next thing is sleeping together. Sex is being promoted so much that partners miss all the other stages of relationship that would have given them a solid and lasting experience. Intimacy ought not to be all about sex because you can't sustain it. Once it wears out, both parties are left with nothing to hold onto that's when a guy starts looking for a new adventure, and the lady gets drowned into emotional downward spiral. Relationships are meant to be gradual thing, think of when you were kids, how being around each other gets you excited, learning how to relate on just that level and then touching each other and then holding each others hands and interacting which finally culminates into physical intercourse when the time comes finally in marriage. If you are looking to be free from emotional uncertainties and the trend of divorce of 7 out of every 10 marriages, miserable singles and married, broken relationships and broken hearts in our world today, then you need to try something different, say no to sex from the onset. It won't be easy, but you will glad you did. Opinions are gladly welcomed. |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by Nobody: 12:51pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
guy na story u dey find, how can i be cooking a soup without tasting it. 2 Likes |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by Nobody: 12:56pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Really true. Cause by the time both partners gets tired of the sex (of which was the major fancy that made them entered into a relationship ) there would be nothing else fascinating enough to keep their relationship going or sustain it. 2 Likes |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by Tallesty1(m): 12:58pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Relationship Is Really Not About Anything |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by bxcode(m): 12:59pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
sweetorgasms:Did you read the disclaimer at the beginning of the post sir? |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by Juxtified(m): 1:01pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
I totally agree with you @OP. Its just the situation we find ourselves especially in Nigeria where all a girl has to offer in most cases is zero apart from her body. In other words, what else do you do when she cannot hold an intelligent conversation for up to 5 secs, cannot support emotionally, spiritually, financially, etc? 2 Likes |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by Nobody: 1:03pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
bxcode:did u read the write up sir? |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by bxcode(m): 1:06pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
sweetorgasms:smh in laughter.... am the author of the write up sir. Go back and read the disclaimer now that you are back from were you travelled to. |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by zyzxx(m): 1:18pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Sex is a no no 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by Blizzy9ja: 1:29pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
The truth is our perception of relationship can differ hence your claim is not totally true. And I think sex is over rated, What if all i want from a relationship is sex? |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by Kingsley1000(m): 1:35pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
if you sincerely love the person,i advocate for sex,buh condemns it if it's infatuation |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by MRBrownJ: 1:56pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
@bxcode let me get this straight, so you want people to get to know one another BETTER before they have sex... is that it?! |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by bxcode(m): 8:20pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Blizzy9ja:Then you are simply driven by lust and not relationship our love |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by bxcode(m): 8:23pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Kingsley1000:So those that don't advocate for sex ain't loving sincerely? What a world we live in. |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by bxcode(m): 8:24pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
MRBrownJ:You can say that sir. |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by IamLEGEND1: 8:37pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Legend says: fuçk love,penetrate vagínas. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by ronald4lif(m): 8:41pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Having a sexual relationship doesn't make the affair a sex inclined one, does it? |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by Blizzy9ja: 8:44pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
bxcode:I advice you check up the meaning of the word relationship first before you can put up a decent argument. Some relationship are purely er0tic. ie they are basically for sexual satisfaction and the day the sex is removed it dies. |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by Nobody: 8:48pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
ALL I CAN SAY IS RELATIONSHIP HAS DIFFERENT MEANINGS TO DIFFERENT PEOPLE WE HAVE PEOPLE WHO STARTED THEIR RELATIONSHIP WIT SEX AND ARE WAXING STRONGER WHILE PEOPLE WHO HAD TO WAIT TILL AFTER MARRIAGE *no offiense* *nick cannon nd marey carie as examples* BREAK UP THEIR MARRIAGE IT ALL DEPENDS ON PARTNERS MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by bxcode(m): 8:49pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Blizzy9ja:Sir, their is nothing like erotic relationship, relationship is relationship! Stop coating words to suit your canal and lustful desires. |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by Blizzy9ja: 8:57pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
bxcode:WTF is wrong wif nairaland? Do they have 2 change(Auto text) words to suit their believe? Er0tic and intimate can't be the same thing... Just making the whole conversation to sound stewpid |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by tosyne2much(m): 8:57pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
I dont know why our ladies always avoid a thread like this at all cost This lackadaisical attitude of theirs towarding avoding a thread like this simply means that they are also in for sex Make i see any lady wey go talk say na only guy dey enjoy bleeping and me and that girl go enter one trouser |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by Omotayor123(f): 9:11pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Bottom line : Say No to pre marital Sex! 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by Csami(m): 9:18pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
sweetorgasms: Exactly! How can one be paying for hair attachment, manicure, shopping and all and not expect reward? It's even in the bible, you reap what you sow. |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by Fulaboy(m): 9:47pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
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Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by Laveda(f): 9:59pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Juxtified:is this statement applicable to all the girls you've dated? I think there's time for everything,time for sex,time for discussions, and times you help each other when in need financially |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by bxcode(m): 10:11pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
tosyne2much:Lol |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by bxcode(m): 10:13pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
ronald4lif:What else do you need to do in other to make it sex inclined? |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by Vinshu(f): 10:17pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
OP I disagree with you! Sex is an expression of love! There are different types of Relationships... a relationship whereby both parties are in love and connected to each other, there isnt any reason why there should be no sex. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by tosyne2much(m): 10:17pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Omotayor123:My virgin boo has offered a piece of advice to y'all Let he/she who have ears hear now |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by ronald4lif(m): 10:35pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
bxcode: Your caption reads relationship is not all about sex which evince all sexual relationships are sexually inclined. Having a sexual affair doesn't mean it's all about sex. Same way one can say relationship isn't all about money, doesn't mean a relationship can function efficiently without money. Similarly, having sex with one's partner doesn't implies sex is the substantive and foundational rock on which the affair is premised and founded upon. Don't make an issue out of sex, no one is coercing you to indulge. If you don't fine, but others do. |
Re: Relationship Is Really Not All About Sex. by Juxtified(m): 10:36pm On Sep 24, 2015 |
Laveda:Dated? No Talked to? Yes - about 90% of them |
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