OP, what's the Title of the movie again?

Let go

I have seen this movie oo
Was the husband to be not this ghananian actor?

Dis 1 is strong... Sha i advice u 2 seek God, pray nd du d needful which is stayn awy frm ur frnds marraige so as nt 2 cos a comotion

Forget about them all, both the friend and the said husband to you because you don't have a prove thaat you were rape and everything happened in hi house, so everyone will say it was because he dump you that's why you want to spoil his marriage , so no one will believe you

#wakes up
#read
#yawns
#goes back to sleep

"nollywood is real". Quote me anywhere.

So what?because he raped you must he get married to you?

ConfessionsNgr:
Dear Confessionsnigeria, I am really confused as to what to do in this situation. I met this guy online about 3 and half years ago and we got chatting.

After about 2 months of steady chats and calls and I thought this was my perfect guy, he invited me over. He paid a return ticket for me to come see him in his town. We had agreed on no intimacy as I had decided then not to do it till I get married, then share it with my husband. On reaching there he was very nice and caring no doubt, he took me to all the nice places and seemed really normal. We later ended the day in his house and I felt safe. Then he offered me tea to go to bed with and unknown to me the tea was drugged. That is the last I remember of that night. Only to wake up in the morning to find myself Unclad on his bed and obviously raped. I have never felt more betrayed in my life. I felt like I betrayed myself to just trust someone based on a few chats and calls. I began to cry so badly, but thanking God for even sparing my life. Could have been a ritualist.

That was the last day I saw him. I travelled out later that year to run a master’s program and returned middle of this year. Only to catch up with my best friend and she’s all happy that she’s getting married and wants me to be her maid-of-honor. Showed me their pre-wedding pics and it’s this same guy that raped me about 3 years ago. Their wedding is in 2 months and I’ve been thinking. I don’t think I should dignify that bastard by even attending his wedding but I don’t know how to tell my friend about him, or if to even tell her cos I don’t want to come across as an enemy of progress. Please if you were in my shoes, what would you do?


Source: www.confessionsnigeria.com
http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/285/he-raped-me-now-getting-married-to-my-best-friend

When I read things like this I feel like crying. Crying becos some ladies have failed to know that there's no more free spending again. Secondly, what is paining u now? The fact that he "raped" you or the fact that he is getting married to someone else? Pls clarify so I will know where to direct my tears and sympathy.

story for the gods, the gods oh

UIA04:
Find a way ofcomfronting the guy secretly at least he will know that his happy is in your hands if he apologises forgive him and be the bridesmaid if he doesn't....

I disagree.

@OP, tell your bestie the truth. If she believes, good. If she doesn't, also good. Depending on her posture/reaction, keep her as a friend or totally avoid her after that. Otherwise, he might drug and rape her sister-in-law or other relatives. If you come out then, you'd be a bad friend.

Tell your friend you don't want her her to dump him, but just letting her know the truth.
If it was an electronic air ticket, you might still have it in your email. Show her.

Assuming it's not all superstory o.

ConfessionsNgr:
Dear Confessionsnigeria, I am really confused as to what to do in this situation. I met this guy online about 3 and half years ago and we got chatting.

After about 2 months of steady chats and calls and I thought this was my perfect guy, he invited me over. He paid a return ticket for me to come see him in his town. We had agreed on no intimacy as I had decided then not to do it till I get married, then share it with my husband. On reaching there he was very nice and caring no doubt, he took me to all the nice places and seemed really normal. We later ended the day in his house and I felt safe. Then he offered me tea to go to bed with and unknown to me the tea was drugged. That is the last I remember of that night. Only to wake up in the morning to find myself Unclad on his bed and obviously raped. I have never felt more betrayed in my life. I felt like I betrayed myself to just trust someone based on a few chats and calls. I began to cry so badly, but thanking God for even sparing my life. Could have been a ritualist.

That was the last day I saw him. I travelled out later that year to run a master’s program and returned middle of this year. Only to catch up with my best friend and she’s all happy that she’s getting married and wants me to be her maid-of-honor. Showed me their pre-wedding pics and it’s this same guy that raped me about 3 years ago. Their wedding is in 2 months and I’ve been thinking. I don’t think I should dignify that bastard by even attending his wedding but I don’t know how to tell my friend about him, or if to even tell her cos I don’t want to come across as an enemy of progress. Please if you were in my shoes, what would you do?


Source: www.confessionsnigeria.com
http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/285/he-raped-me-now-getting-married-to-my-best-friend

HMMMMM



FAKE STORY.


USING RAPE AS A WEAPON TO BRING DOWN THAT GUY'S MARRIAGE



NAIJA WOMEN ARE ANIMALS

pishures or addonbelieveit

I honestly believe you should tell your friend. You owe her that at least. Let her know also also that you bear no grudges from the past and you wish her the best in het marriage. Secondly, pls stay away from the guy. If he slept with you once he will want to do it again and somehow, in your subconscious you believe the guy is really yours and will permit it. I am sure you know what I am talking about. Shalom.

He paid for your flight ticket and you thought it was to come and cuddle...smh at you.

UIA04:
Find a way ofcomfronting the guy secretly at least he will know that his happy is in your hands if he apologises forgive him and be the bridesmaid if he doesn't....

weytin u self dey talk?dnt really grab.

OZAOEKPE:
"nollywood is real". Quote me anywhere.

lolzzz

Na Ghanian movie be this I down see am somewhere, but shall small porn dey there ohh

EreluY:
IF THIS NARRATIVE WERE TO BE TRUE, THE SAME DAY HE RAPED YOU, YOU SHOULD HAVE SOUGHT THE HELP OF A MEDICAL DOCTOR, GET THE POLICE INVOLVED AND WITH FORENSIC EVIDENCE GET THIS GUY PROSECUTED. HE SHOULD BE COOLING HIS FEET OFF IN JAIL NOW RATHER THAN GETTING READY FOR MARRIAGE. NIGERIAN WOMEN NEED TO WISE UP. IT'S NOT ABOUT REVENGE. IT'S ABOUT RETRIBUTION.

what are u saying?person force her enter the man house abi d man rape her for her mama house?so you think the guy wouldnt defend himself abi?sori.

ThIs one na lie

Either tell my friend or better still leave them the hell alone

Your friend's toto is sweeter than your own eod

Still.... thinking.

ConfessionsNgr:
Dear Confessionsnigeria, I am really confused as to what to do in this situation. I met this guy online about 3 and half years ago and we got chatting.

After about 2 months of steady chats and calls and I thought this was my perfect guy, he invited me over. He paid a return ticket for me to come see him in his town. We had agreed on no intimacy as I had decided then not to do it till I get married, then share it with my husband. On reaching there he was very nice and caring no doubt, he took me to all the nice places and seemed really normal. We later ended the day in his house and I felt safe. Then he offered me tea to go to bed with and unknown to me the tea was drugged. That is the last I remember of that night. Only to wake up in the morning to find myself Unclad on his bed and obviously raped. I have never felt more betrayed in my life. I felt like I betrayed myself to just trust someone based on a few chats and calls. I began to cry so badly, but thanking God for even sparing my life. Could have been a ritualist.

That was the last day I saw him. I travelled out later that year to run a master’s program and returned middle of this year. Only to catch up with my best friend and she’s all happy that she’s getting married and wants me to be her maid-of-honor. Showed me their pre-wedding pics and it’s this same guy that raped me about 3 years ago. Their wedding is in 2 months and I’ve been thinking. I don’t think I should dignify that bastard by even attending his wedding but I don’t know how to tell my friend about him, or if to even tell her cos I don’t want to come across as an enemy of progress. Please if you were in my shoes, what would you do?


Source: www.confessionsnigeria.com
http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/285/he-raped-me-now-getting-married-to-my-best-friend

....and this is how they keep soiling and spoiling the image of men and online relationships just to make some few cents from Google Adsense!

I am very sure 99% or more of ladies that read this will say: you see why I hate all these online dates

Meanwhile, many people are meeting, dating and marrying happy from online meet-ups because as the world advances, more young people become so attached to the internet such that internet becomes the only avenue they can make new friends and even find love.

In summary, this story is fake, and whoever believes it will also believe that India beat Nigeria 99 - 0 in the 80s

Some peeps should learn how to move on na

Dont easily get carried away

You behaved in a crazy way as a lady u messed up 4 goin dat far lookin 4 a guy. Its silly. But if u think its unforgiveable, go to the church and report about this event, they'll definately call it off, i mean the weeding. As a guy that i am, he messed up ur center of gravity and could have done more that were never know. He deserves to be shocked and ur friend she doesn't deserve him. He's a rapist.

Mtcheww

manuroq:
You behaved in a crazy way as a lady u messed up 4 goin dat far lookin 4 a guy. Its silly. But if u think its unforgiveable, go to the church and report about this event, they'll definately call it off, i mean the weeding. As a guy that i am, he messed up ur center of gravity and could have done more that were never know. He deserves to be shocked and ur friend she doesn't deserve him. He's a rapist.

DUDE! STOP SMOKING WEED.

IS NOT GOOD FOR YOUR HEALTH

Forgive the dog. Do not wish evil upon him. Tell your friend, actually hold a meeting with both of them. Let it go. God will take the wheels from there.

saw dat movie some years back...
chioma chukwuka was d raped girl...
Jim iyke d rapist...
Stephanie okereke her best friend....
I'm not sure of d movie's name but d person below should know...

Humans are just so unfortunate...

I think I now see why my prof. in skol back then decided not to get married...

now an Emeritus prof. tho... the man lived a really cool life. enjoyed his money and aging gracefully..

Let the sleeping dog lie. But, make sure you narrate your ordeal to your friend indirectly. Tell it to her like a story n watch her reactions. Truth can never be hidden forever so one day, she will get to know about it. Then, all you will need do is to remind her of the story you told her before. May God console you with a better man.