philips70:


No, his emphasis was on "PROSTITUTE" which I said he should deemphasize and consider speaking only because he has SLEPT with her before. So, I got it right.

What he is laying emphasis on doesn't matter. The fact that he slept with the Lady before is the issue.

ATMC:
You don't have to tell ur brother. Don't you think your brother knows she is or was one? leave matter for Mathias. Na person go marry am ultimately. So Chill.

I gree say na person go marry am...but dat person no go be my brother!

P.S: She may have changed but then...

EgunMogaji:


OP, there's nothing new under the sun.

If your Brother is happy then leave shyte alone and mind your bizwhacks.

Unless one marries a virgin then ALL Women are prostitutes. Abi no bi Nigeria we dey?

Your remark reminds me of this feeling that refuses to let me go with regards to females. It goes thus: There are no straight women, only un-initiated lesbians.

Just don't know why I can't seem to reason around it despite evidence to the contrary.

nortcentrallord:
Try to initiate the street talk and escort ways in private with her. Try to sweet talk her into bleeping her once more and if she refuses, threaten u 'll intimate your brother of her past. If she gives in, don't do it but save your brother by telling him. If not, still go ahead and tell him. But make him understand they can be friends. He shouldn't marry her because you bleeped her already. Its an abomination. Where did we keep our cultures for christ sakes. Well, you too stop the escort patronage. See how you will just steal your brothers joy. Thank God you you spoted her sha.

On the converse, he wouldn't have been able to warn his bro, if he didn't visit brothels...oh boy (sighs), life can be so confusing!

Talk to ur brother in a serene closet one on one and wait for his response if he is going ahead wish him luck that he should keep it top secret

ATMC:
You don't have to tell ur brother. Don't you think your brother knows she is or was one? leave matter for Mathias. Na person go marry am ultimately. So Chill.

Walai u be runs girl

Dojupyo:




Who be those women wey dey marry promiscuous or immoral men



It's not like am supporting prostitution... Both male and female, anyone that sleeps around is a Prostitute, be it for pleasure or for money

guess you misunderstood mua.

Hmmm.....what a dicey situation.lots of advantages and disadvantages...bros,my advice for you,fast and pray for three days or make up your mind yourself.tell your brother or keep quiet

hmmm...op u no go renew ur contract with d girl...is beta u tell ur bro....or else d girl fit make u comit ooo..mak u go dey chop ur broda tin for back o

I hate t whn pple especialy ladies call anoda lady prostitute,is she nt a lady?sme1 wil stil propose to her smeday,sme of u ladies here on Nl are evn worst dan wat u call ur fellow ladies.so stop judgng any1.afterall prostitute,ashawo is d lady 2nd name,if u av any argumnt wt a bus driver,conductor or okada man d 1st name dey wil call u s ashawo,u bleep for mony or bleep diffrnt guys u are ashi**.so stp being judgmntal no one s perfect.bt my own advice on ds js call ur bro dscuss wt him so he knows d lady e want to settle dwn wt.a pig s always a pig stil goes to d mud.if ur bro travel she mite still go back her old ways.excpt God intervention

Tobiee:
[email] I typed ''what if''. Anyhow. [/email]

Nothin do u then

Hahaha I no fit laff! U no dey shame say u dey visit brothel and u dey condemn d babe.. d both of u are partners in crime na! So sorry ur sins have come to hunt ur home. Even if ur brother dump am another man go marry am. Prostitution is wrong yet u patronize dem. Sorry.

Franklin0147:
I personally experience this two months ago. I was surprised when one of the runs Girlz we did things together uploaded a pix of my brother on her watsapp dp. then I asked how did you know this guy? she told me she met him about two months ago and she loves him so much. I told him he is my brother she beg me not to let my brother know that she did things with me, promising me that if need any of her friends she can connect them with me. I think is high time girls forget about this having sex around in name of making money or having fun to save their future relationships.

what where u doing with a runs girl in d first place? Why are u guys exposing yourselves? Choo!

seunfunmi33:
In 2012, I was transferred to ibadan. I have lots of girlfriends in lagos and don't want to date any new girl in ibadan, so me and my friend that was transferred to ibadan together became regulars at a brothel. Me and my friend had just 2 customers we patronize.

6 months later (early 2013) I was transferred back to Lagos . After I left, I do invite one of the girls to Lagos because she is too good in bed till I lost her contact when my phone got lost (December 2013).

We all travelled home yesterday due to sallah celebration. I was surprised when I saw my younger brother come with the prostitute in ibadan and introduced her to me as his fiancee. I just stood there not knowing what to do because I was expecting the girl to feel somehow and but she didn't even show any fear. Throughout the day She was everywhere cooking and joking with everybody around there.

I thought she was pretending not to know me but I didn't confront her, so I asked for some of her pix from my brother and sent it to that my friend if he knows the girl and he was quick to tell me that's the girl I do bleep in ibadan. But when I told him of the relationship between my brother and the girl, he told me to tell our parents and my brother so they can cancel the relationship that the girl isn't worth it.

Now am confused, I don't know if the girl is pretending or she doesn't recognize me anymore because of her numerous customers. I don't know if I should tell my brother or just keep quiet. Advice me pls

You were busy sleeping with the prostitute's twin sister, so relax my dear.

4C2215131:


On the converse, he wouldn't have been able to warn his bro, if he didn't visit brothels...oh boy (sighs), life can be so confusing!

I concur, no doubt. Nice obs.

Atlantian:
Dear OP, even in Lagos there are over 1 million prostitutes and yes, I mean including all these "students" who are just "broke" and "hurstling" to "pay fees". And I believe in a lifetime, an average man has slept with over 5,000 runz girls.

Guess what ? All, Yes All these prostitutes end up being people's wives, people's mothers and people's grandmothers in the end.

I am 100% sure your junior brother, just like 'his elder brother' met this girl as a prostitute and has decided to make him his wife. Eventually, all prostitutes will be married.

One man's trash, will become another man's trophy eventually, and it is playing out in your eyes.

All you have to do is tell her; " Welcome to the family". Nobody holy pass.

Na the advice you dey give person ? His brother has the right to know her past. Wouldn't be embarrassing to him ifhe comes to find out by himself ? She should tell him her past and let him decide.

Btw, you are in no position to judge his brother. He could have met her in a church.

seunfunmi33:
In 2012, I was transferred to ibadan. I have lots of girlfriends in lagos and don't want to date any new girl in ibadan, so me and my friend that was transferred to ibadan together became regulars at a brothel. Me and my friend had just 2 customers we patronize.

6 months later (early 2013) I was transferred back to Lagos . After I left, I do invite one of the girls to Lagos because she is too good in bed till I lost her contact when my phone got lost (December 2013).

We all travelled home yesterday due to sallah celebration. I was surprised when I saw my younger brother come with the prostitute in ibadan and introduced her to me as his fiancee. I just stood there not knowing what to do because I was expecting the girl to feel somehow and but she didn't even show any fear. Throughout the day She was everywhere cooking and joking with everybody around there.

I thought she was pretending not to know me but I didn't confront her, so I asked for some of her pix from my brother and sent it to that my friend if he knows the girl and he was quick to tell me that's the girl I do bleep in ibadan. But when I told him of the relationship between my brother and the girl, he told me to tell our parents and my brother so they can cancel the relationship that the girl isn't worth it.

Now am confused, I don't know if the girl is pretending or she doesn't recognize me anymore because of her numerous customers. I don't know if I should tell my brother or just keep quiet. Advice me pls

wait so you so are worthy of being someone else's husband when you are ashawo yourself?

ghostmist:
Agreed! but, i question the rationale behind telling the brother.what would he achieve by doing that, aside from getting him to break up with her?
is that you on your DP?you look good...

Fanks 4 d compliment & I'm the one @dp.....To the topic,he's got every reason to tell his bro,so if he decides 2 marry her,he shouldn't be surprised if she starts prostituting from his house...And then again,he might not wantu have anything 2 do wid her if he knows she's a prostitute...He deserves to know d truth.

If u hadn't slept with her it would av bin a different case bt since u av, I think u shld tell ur brother abt what she used to b.

Freemanan:
Kossyblaze your people don start o...

Where Jetjacky?

i dey here my bro. First off I would say if they're in love and the girl isnt really faking it... And you know your brother is the type that wont overlook this, then let it be my brother. It is always right for us not to be the cause of unhappiness.

Hope this helps...

BUTCHCASSIDY:


never knew too, now we know
I feel U bro long time where've U been?

been handling a project that has been consuming a lot of my time like crazy but it's almost over, how is everything G?

Oliviaarims:

Fanks 4 d compliment & I'm the one @dp.....To the topic,he's got every reason to tell his bro,so if he decides 2 marry her,he shouldn't be surprised if she starts prostituting from his house...And then again,he might not wantu have anything 2 do wid her if he knows she's a prostitute...He deserves to know d truth.

I concur...but, i think she's a changed person now.It would really be terrible for her to have her past popping up at this opportuned moment, turning her joy to sorrow.can i pm you?

ShyBaby:


Are you a Nigerian man pls? I can't believe I'm reading this on this forum. Your 'brothers' on NL actually do not see anything wrong in a man who patronises $luts, a man who probably has gotten countless STDs and a man who accuses another person of the same thing he is guilty of.

op that fks whores is not the issue here, rather his brother who is about to marry a who're is the main issue. Maybe your bond to protect your kind blinded you, cast the op all you want but the brother DESERVEs to be told. If your brother is about marrying one of your who're colleagues will you allow that? well guess that's when the protective bond you all share will be put to the test. Keep it real, a who're is a who're and 99percent of the time would always be a who're. With the rate of who'res supporting the op to keep quiet it's alarming that we have many whores' online. God save and protect us from marrying a who're, even if she hides in pretence lord shatter the wedding in a suitable way because she's trying to cun her way in.

[quote author=seunf of her numerous customers. I don't know if I should tell my brother ......
guy hope you have told your brother by now? he's life depends on it......

ghostmist:
I concur...but, i think she's a changed person now.It would really be terrible for her to have her past popping up at this opportuned moment, turning her joy to sorrow.can i pm you?

Sure u can...buh there's no guarantee she's completely changed...Let the man with d intention of marrying her find that out 4 himself.

icedbeatz:
op that fks whores is not the issue here, rather his brother who is about to marry a who're is the main issue. Maybe your bond to protect your kind blinded you, cast the op all you want but the brother DESERVEs to be told. If your brother is about marrying one of your who're colleagues will you allow that? well guess that's when the protective bond you all share will be put to the test. Keep it real, a who're is a who're and 99percent of the time would always be a who're. With the rate of who'res supporting the op to keep quiet it's alarming that we have many whores' online. God save and protect us from marrying a who're, even if she hides in pretence lord shatter the wedding in a suitable way because she's trying to cun her way in.

icedbeatz... if your mother, grandmother and sisters are whores, you don't need to come online to call them my colleagues.
That's really unkind of you since you don't know me from Adam. You know I can be somebody's father, mother, grandmother, child, sister, brother, and grandfather too. My lineage don't involve in prostitution so you can not conclude that I am into the same business with all the females in your family.
Now be a good boy and apologize.

How has your day been?

Oliviaarims:

Sure u can...buh there's no guarantee she's completely changed...Let the man with d intention of marrying her find that out 4 himself.

sent...

munchfani:
Can't turn a hoe into a house wife..TELL YOUR BRO WITH STYLE

I hate this kind of judgement. Is there such a thing as a self-patronised prostitute? Don't you think that the stupid reporter is a prostitute too, no matter who pays who, and possibly his brother as well. Men would switch women like clothes and expect to marry a virgin? How sure can any woman be of your faithfulness as her husband?
Let me spell it clear to you guys, God shall convert even the virgins you marry into an uncontrollable harl0t, if you don't embrace what you patronize.

Sex is the only thing of concern in prostitution not payment, and sex is a mutual thing between partners. So, until men stop their own prostitution activities, there shall be prostitutes, especially the disguised ones you call your girlfriend who takes the risk of unprotections than the professionals.

cyborg1:


I hate this kind of judgement. Is there such a thing as a self-patronised prostitute? Don't you think that the stupid reporter is a prostitute too, no matter who pays who, and possibly his brother as well. Men would switch women like clothes and expect to marry a virgin? How sure can any woman be of your faithfulness as her husband?
Let me spell it clear to you guys, God shall convert even the virgins you marry into an uncontrollable harl0t, if you don't embrace what you patronize.

Sex is the only thing of concern in prostitution not payment, and sex is a mutual thing between partners. So, until men stop their own prostitution activities, there shall be prostitutes, especially the disguised ones you call your girlfriend who takes the risk of unprotections than the professionals.

WHAT U TALKING ABOUT WILLIS?

U will be d greatest betrayal of a brother if you don't tell ur brother dat he is about to marry a roadside ASHAWO dat u and ur friends have patronised.

daylife7:
U will be d greatest betrayal of a brother if you don't tell ur brother dat he is about to marry a roadside ASHAWO dat u and ur friends have patronised.

But don't u think everybody deserves a second chance