[quote author=seunfunmi33 post=38375971]In 2012, I was transferred to ibadan. I have lots of girlfriends in lagos and don't want to date any new girl in ibadan, so me and my friend that was transferred to ibadan together became regulars at a brothel. Me and my friend had just 2 customers we patronize.

6 months later (early 2013) I was transferred back to Lagos . After I left, I do invite one of the girls to Lagos because she is too good in bed till I lost her contact when my phone got lost (December 2013).

We all travelled home yesterday due to sallah celebration. I was surprised when I saw my younger brother come with the prostitute in ibadan and introduced her to me as his fiancee. I just stood there not knowing what to do because I was expecting the girl to feel somehow and but she didn't even show any fear. Throughout the day She was everywhere cooking and joking with everybody around there.

I thought she was pretending not to know me but I didn't confront her, so I asked for some of her pix from my brother and sent it to that my friend if he knows the girl and he was quick to tell me that's the girl I do bleep in ibadan. But when I told him of the relationship between my brother and the girl, he told me to tell our parents and my brother so they can cancel the relationship that the girl isn't worth it.

Now am confused, I don't know if the girl is pretending or she doesn't recognize me anymore because of her numerous customers. I don't know if I should tell my brother or just keep quiet.
Na the girl go kill you if you no tell your brother fast because she just dey play her game correctly by behaving as if she no recognise you

Na the girl go kill you if you no tell your brother fast because she just dey play her game correctly by behaving as if she no recognise you since she be regular olosho.

Wot I will advice u is 2 first of all av a one on one talk wit d lady 2 c if she has changed and if she has already told ur brother just tell her u ar nt ready 2 tell ur branother because u ar nt ready 2 break up dia relationship and u don't want her 2 break ur brothers @ as well,u don't knw wot ur own wif has went tru b4 she met u as well,women can't tell u everytin abt dia past,and 4 ur own gud stay away 4rm dia house,because if d lady feel any treathnin 4rm u she will turn d whole tin over u,right nw d lady is da most intelligent person in ur family,because uf wot she has went tru in her lif,she is more or less an armed robber that has been into d prison,God will help u and ur family,its never gud 4 u 2 expose urself u av once patronised a brothel,and manwhile its sumone of her nature dat later end up avin a lovin home,so brother u ar nt God b wise,

seunfunmi33:
In 2012, I was transferred to ibadan. I have lots of girlfriends in lagos and don't want to date any new girl in ibadan, so me and my friend that was transferred to ibadan together became regulars at a brothel. Me and my friend had just 2 customers we patronize.

6 months later (early 2013) I was transferred back to Lagos . After I left, I do invite one of the girls to Lagos because she is too good in bed till I lost her contact when my phone got lost (December 2013).

We all travelled home yesterday due to sallah celebration. I was surprised when I saw my younger brother come with the prostitute in ibadan and introduced her to me as his fiancee. I just stood there not knowing what to do because I was expecting the girl to feel somehow and but she didn't even show any fear. Throughout the day She was everywhere cooking and joking with everybody around there.

I thought she was pretending not to know me but I didn't confront her, so I asked for some of her pix from my brother and sent it to that my friend if he knows the girl and he was quick to tell me that's the girl I do bleep in ibadan. But when I told him of the relationship between my brother and the girl, he told me to tell our parents and my brother so they can cancel the relationship that the girl isn't worth it.

Now am confused, I don't know if the girl is pretending or she doesn't recognize me anymore because of her numerous customers. I don't know if I should tell my brother or just keep quiet. Advice me pls

Please don't hesitate to open up now before its tool late.

its like catching a thief and he says in his defence " I am not the only thief"...that the OP has patronized prostitutes does NOT mean he should not tell his brother. It is ridiculous and will be wicked for him not to..who among you trolls will advice your brother to marry a known prostitute? well I am not surprised, some of the females here have been plowed by several "boyfriends" in their lives so they sympathize with the olosho in the topic...mcheeeeewwww

Chaiii!! Ladies attacking d op and advising him to mind his business.

We are yet to deal wit coded prostitutes as housewives wit d high rate infidelity from women dis days and you want your brother to marry a 'popular LovePeddler'. That's suicidal!

Anything dat is prone to ruin our lives should be avoided without mincing words we shouldn't support evil because we share d same gender, age, ethnicity or religion wit d parties involved.

Op, inform ur bros as soon as possible!
If he yield to ur advice, fyn. If not, u have play ur part & should not share in his grieve when d bubble blow in d future. Allow him to carry his cross at dat tym.

Na serious matter be dis o .. Nd on monday, go for Hiv test (no fear, just gud to knw ur status esp in ur line of sex life )

Not holier than u bro... Av done worst things too : mean say U get AIDS be that o...

munchfani:
U A RETIRED SLAG TOO

You just said my mind!

tell your your brother every thing but don't put sugar inside also tell him you always go to hotel to fuke prostitute.

Na the girl go kill you if you no tell your brother fast because she just dey play her game correctly by behaving as if she no recognise you since she be regular olosho.Just b careful wit d way u go abt it.

Let's approach this from a different angle, if you as a guy goes to marry the said prostitute younger sister, what do you think she will tell the younger sis? Don't marry him he is a registered member of brothel visiting association eh.

Ask your brother how they met?

Tell him and I will come to tell ur own wife that you sleep around with prostitutes

millionboi:
say person b olosho no means say him b hiv or wateva.... thy play safer sex than dos ur so-called lover,i mean ur girlfrnd.

[email] I typed ''what if''. Anyhow. [/email]

From my own angle, ask your brother how well she knows the girl and why she made a decision to choose her. Then if she has been hiding that aspect of her life from him, then tell him. It's your bro u know.

guy if u lyk tel evrybdy d league of gisls u don fhuk .i want to tel u tht u nid to jst chop n clean mout no pur sand fo pesin garri ok.apy wknd ppl #raphycares

munchfani:
Can't turn a hoe into a house wife..TELL YOUR BRO WITH STYLE

Niga u got a real bad mouth. Hahahahaha. I love the rhythms though. Thumbs up.

Try to initiate the street talk and escort ways in private with her. Try to sweet talk her into bleeping her once more and if she refuses, threaten u 'll intimate your brother of her past. If she gives in, don't do it but save your brother by telling him. If not, still go ahead and tell him. But make him understand they can be friends. He shouldn't marry her because you bleeped her already. Its an abomination. Where did we keep our cultures for christ sakes. Well, you too stop the escort patronage. See how you will just steal your brothers joy. Thank God you you spoted her sha.

munchfani:
Can't turn a hoe into a house wife..TELL YOUR BRO WITH STYLE

In d book of d elders chapter 10000vs 2-8, says ashawoo wey go marriage, na holiday she go.

Hmmm, See case!

Smh...... You didn't think it was wrong when you were patronizing her but now your brother wants to marry her............... It's a problem for you........


All the same..... I think you should let him know........ It might be that he already knows or otherwise...

ATMC:
You don't have to tell ur brother. Don't you think your brother knows she is or was one? leave matter for Mathias. Na person go marry am ultimately. So Chill.

U sound like a prostitute

No story tell your bro.



*in Lagos agbero voice* ko se duro wo...

Tell your bro quick before she moves faster than you by telling your brother you tried to rape her sometime ago.Believe me bro ashawos are desperate,go before it's too late.

the best thing to do is find out whether she repented or she is still in the act, if she has repented then keep mum, but if she is still in the act please do not hesitate to expose as your silence will damage generations.

You'll have to tell your younger brother , but you have to be wise about it. Try to find out where they met, how they met and why he concluded that she's the woman he wants to marry. This is because girls in that line of work can engage metaphysical power to succeed in their endeavours. #JustSaying

ShyBaby:


Are you a Nigerian man pls? I can't believe I'm reading this on this forum. Your 'brothers' on NL actually do not see anything wrong in a man who patronises $luts, a man who probably has gotten countless STDs and a man who accuses another person of the same thing he is guilty of.

Please read my post again!

May be you are imagining things, and you really miss her booty

seunfunmi33:
In 2012, I was transferred to ibadan. I have lots of girlfriends in lagos and don't want to date any new girl in ibadan, so me and my friend that was transferred to ibadan together became regulars at a brothel. Me and my friend had just 2 customers we patronize.

You slept with a lot of girls and one day you would like to settle down and be accepted as such by the woman that loves you.

She slept with a lot of men in the past and now she has found someone she plans to have the future with.

Every prostitute is someone's daughter, sister, friend. Take your pick on the number of mothers that had to sell their bodies to keep their children alive in war-torn areas.

Everyone deserves a second chance.
However, ensure the lady has told your brother as in the future another customer other than you might identify her when your brother is around so that he would be ready to address the situation in case the customer is a loud mouth. Also has she gone for tests?

There still abound benefits from her past experiences but the demerits abound the more. More reason to to avoid indescriminate sex and honor the marital bed. Even God chose a prostitute as a wife for the prophet Hosea. I hope you too have gone for tests and changed your ways. I hope you handle this with maturity.

Wishing you well - Teemy

peeparty:
Who be those other men wey dey marry prostitute

Who be those women wey dey marry promiscuous or immoral men



It's not like am supporting prostitution... Both male and female, anyone that sleeps around is a Prostitute, be it for pleasure or for money

It is in her past. I have read enough stories of men including Police men who married former prostitutes and they got some of the most loyal wives one can ever ask for. Let sleeping dogs lie. I am sure when the time is right she will tell your brother herself. Be welcoming.