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Why Do We Hate? by IkembaCMD(m): 5:04pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Why do we hate? Hate!, That feeling of disgust, the thought of dislike, the emotion of rejection… Well, let’s get it straight… Hate is as old as man. It sources from the time of wearing figs and hides to the hood and Sneakers era. Very well, hate has been described in many ways and in numerous forms. Every spheres of life has its own attribution of hate. Hate, is a measure to which the Human emotions can not favor a subject or object according to the conditions or environment on which the subject acts upon. That definition of mine looks technical, right? Well, it simply means having a negative attitude towards Someone or Something. Let’s get the main point aright, WHY DO WE HATE?... Seriously speaking, except when it is really intense, a lot of us sometimes find it difficult to give a tangible reason as to why we dislike something or someone, W e are just like ..”I just hate that guy, I don’t know why!”, “I don’t like going to the village, I just don’t like it”, “Oh My God! I hate that Course, it’s just somehow”….. among other examples. It is for this reason I have gone into the crypts of the Society most especially the Academic and Social environments on to why we as Humans hate. As-a-matter-of-factly speaking, I really have some interesting tips on this issue, They go thus; THREAT : Its either the Subject of Hate is a threat to us or a form of danger to our well- being. Take for example, Diseases, War and Pain are threats to the human nature , Therefore, it is pertinent to hate them. Also in human terms, is a typical example of a wicked and inhumane Dictator or terrorist whose actions are thought are to wrought evil and death; He or she also would be hated due to the nature of his actions. THE WANNABE ; People hate people sometimes because they want to be like the others. This is illustrated better as “ENVY”. It connotes Mr. A hating his fellow Mr.B because he wants to be like Mr.B and due to some circumstances or reasons, he just could not. This feeling of not being fulfilled could stir up hate for Mr.A who just gets lucky every time and never fails at any attempt. This kind of hate could really get bad and may become uncorrectable. SELF-MISCHIEF ; Quite so often, people can hate because they hate themselves as human beings. This may sound awkward but it really happens in our everyday life. I could hate you because I am not content with my living conditions. This is better described as” FRUSTRATION”. The impact of rejection, poverty, emptiness, disability and hopelessness among other paraphernalia could spring up Self-hatred which would speak out boldly on the outside world also. This parameter of hate if not kindled quickly could result into Suicide or something worse. IT DOESN’T AGREE WITH OUR CONVICTIONS : “ I hate my wife, she’s such a nag!”…A couple of husbands would have made this kind of statement quite a number of time. This centes on one thing – Their wives don’t agree with them, its like, their wives don’t want to understand them-This applies to normal folks too. A healthy dialogue could graduate into a volcanic argument if the matter of dialogue isn’t clarified or understood properly. Lastly, hate is a part of the human emotional makeup. It brings a balance between the necessities of good and evil. On a concluding note, I am confident that this reflective write-up would have added to Our collage of knowledge concerning the reasons why we Humans HATE!. Thanks. #IKEMBA_ONE … Novo Ordo Stratum Progressiva… Source: http://glasshouseorbit..in/2015/09/why-do-we-hate.html?m=1 |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by KanwuliaJara: 12:56am On Sep 28, 2015 |
In HIS own image and SICKNESS! |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by Drogbotel(m): 3:08am On Sep 28, 2015 |
My question. . . differentiate between hate and dislike. |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by IkembaCMD(m): 5:40pm On Oct 07, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: ...I don't get you.... |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by IkembaCMD(m): 5:41pm On Oct 07, 2015 |
Drogbotel: They are synonyms, used interchangeably... They point at the same thing... |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by KanwuliaJara: 11:58pm On Oct 08, 2015 |
IkembaCMD: Hatred is a sickness from that una "Godioh"! So, why you "dey surprise"? |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by Nobody: 3:08am On Oct 09, 2015 |
I have yet to experience the emotion TBH |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by IkembaCMD(m): 2:26pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: hmm, well, i still don't get your point |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by IkembaCMD(m): 2:30pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
MrsPhyno: like seriously |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
IkembaCMD:Yeah. I don't hate anybody. |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by KanwuliaJara: 12:08am On Oct 10, 2015 |
MrsPhyno: You asked? "Why do we hate"? I tried to explain the origin of ALL NEGATIVE EMOTIONS. DID YOU NOT READ IN THE BIBLE: "FOR I AM A JEALOUS GOD"? It only follows that in "HIS" own image and likeness, people will be MOSTLY filled with HATE, ENVY AND JEALOUSY. . . . Like their GOD! Q.E.D. |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by SAMBARRY: 8:27am On Oct 10, 2015 |
Don't blaspheme madam k. nothing evil comes from God. He is holy, perfect and the almighty God it's devil that brought hate into the world and workers of darkness KanwuliaJara: |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by KanwuliaJara: 1:50pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Hmmmm! How can I blaspheme about something I believereth not? Only a "believer" blasphemes! I am not and can NEVER be. Tufiaaaaaaaakwa!!!! |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by IkembaCMD(m): 9:50pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: This, sincerely, has nothing to do with religion... Do keep the religious suppositions apart... thanks |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by IkembaCMD(m): 9:55pm On Oct 10, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: This is purely a logical Writeup.... |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by KanwuliaJara: 8:51pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
IkembaCMD: I beg to differ! But, please carry on! |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by IkembaCMD(m): 10:33pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: on a fresh note,what's your view about the post |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by Yinkah15: 1:15pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Good God... Hmmmmmm, Nice one though |
Re: Why Do We Hate? by dsquare33: 4:37pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Just as love or to love irrespective whoever or whatever is inate, so does hate is inate,it's a vice while that of love is virtue.Like the OP has a stated hatred is borne out of a mind that is not sound. A mind that is not sound is not healthy, a mind that hates will always exude sorrow and that sorrow is what he unleash on others in form of envy, low self esteem, furstration e.t.c .The solution is to love Him, He truly loves, irrespective of your ethnic, religious,social and race background and that person is Jesus Christ. The more we soak ourselves in His love the more we radiate that love to others,because we become contend,love and appreciate ourselves and others around us. |
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