u've got a girl but this other chick keeps disturbing u. would u tell her to fk off or would u start cheating on ur girl with this homewrecker? be honest, abeg.

any man who says this is a real man

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Me! You ought to realize, Not all men are animals......

I will gladly cheat.

Lol males being useless ashawos since the fall of man chai

aflyingbird:
u've got a girl but this other chick keeps disturbing u. would u tell her to fk off or would u start cheating on ur girl with this homewrecker? be honest, abeg.

any man who says this is a real man

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So you know who a real man is? You? A woman (born female) who does not know the first thing about being man?

Make we hear word. Nothing dey there. I have chased a "thirsty" girl away before. I'm sure there are many other guys who have done so.

SirWere:
Me! You ought to realize, Not all men are animals......

hmmm, are u sure? u'r saying that now but if u were in the situation... let's say she's thick, got a big booty, big t'itties and she wants u. u'r telling me u will turn her down?

if u can do that tho, kudos . u'r far ahead many men out there then

seal123:
I will gladly cheat.

MrsPhyno:
Lol males being useless ashawos since the fall of man chai

my sista, i concur

AfroKnight:


So you know who a real man is? You? A woman (born female) who does not know the first thing about being man?

Make we hear word. Nothing dey there. I have chased a "thirsty" girl away before. I'm sure there are many other guys who have done so.

a real man never cheats. knows the importance of being faithful to his woman. a real man is not defined or control by his peniis

-if u hv done it before, i'm proud of u. keep it up.

I CAN. just for the records, I've done something quite similar to that.

aflyingbird:
a real man never cheats. knows the importance of being faithful to his woman. a real man is not defined or control by his peniis

-if u hv done it before, i'm proud of u. keep it up.

Babe don't deceive yourself. Will you say King David (in the Bible) was not a real man? Or his son King Solomon? Or even former President Bill Clinton? Abeg leave matter for Matthias. You are a woman. You cannot define what a real man truly is.

aflyingbird:

hmmm, are u sure? u'r saying that now but if u were in the situation... let's say she's thick, got a big booty, big t'itties and she wants u. u'r telling me u will turn her down?

if u can do that tho, kudos . u'r far ahead many men out there then

Do you think my wife will be ugly or not have the characteristics mentioned above? The only place of possible friction is when she denies me of matrimonial duty

just because those men committed adultery or in King Solomon's case ( had many wives and concubines ), doesn't make the act okay. all the men you mentioned were powerful men in their own ways but i will still lose a tad bit of respect for any man who cheats.

i can't define what a real man is because i'm a woman? do i need to steal before i know that stealing is wrong? do i need to kill before knowing that killing is wrong? i don't need to experience something before i know about it. knowledge can be attained via reason too, not only experience.


why don't u define what a real man is? since, i, as a woman, do not know, but you're a man and only you can know, or so you say.

AfroKnight:


Babe don't deceive yourself. Will you say King David (in the Bible) was not a real man? Or his son King Solomon? Or Samson? Or even former President Bill Clinton? Abeg leave matter for Matthias. You are a woman. You cannot define what a real man truly is.

aflyingbird:
just because those men committed adultery or in King Solomon's case ( had many wives and concubines ), doesn't make the act okay. all the men you mentioned were powerful men in their own ways but i will still lose a tad bit of respect for any man who cheats.

i can't define what a real man is because i'm a woman? do i need to steal before i know that stealing is wrong? do i need to kill before knowing that killing is wrong? i don't need to experience something before i know about it. knowledge can be attained via reason too, not only experience.


why don't u define what a real man is? since, i, as a woman, do not know, but you're a man and only you can know, or so you say.

If you lose a tad bit of respect anytime a man cheats I wonder how much respect you'd have left for King Solomon. Cheating does not make a man any less of a man than his neighbor. A real man is not infallible. If he is incapable of falling then he has lost his humanity. The decision to turn down a booty call is not a yardstick for "manliness". It is just a measure of his love and devotion.

I'll gladly oblige, as the saying goes; variety is the spice of life @aflyingbird u can tag me an 'unreal man' ion care...

of course, i will lose respect for a man anytime he cheats. am i supposed to give him a pat on the back or condone the act? NAH

humanity is imperfect, true, but each of us have the power to choose not to fall. u make it seem like the act of "falling" is ingrained in us, when it's not. we choose. with regards to cheating, it's that choosing NOT TO which defines a real man .

" The decision to turn down a booty call is just a measure of his love and devotion ". i agree with this, to there's more : it shows he is disciplined and controlled, that he is fair and selfless, that he knows how to exercise the goodness in him and not choose otherwise. all of these contribute to the definition of a real man .

see, was that so hard? u said i couldn't define a real man but u could, yet u dodged the question. i had to do it for you.

AfroKnight:


If you lose a tad bit of respect anytime a man cheats I wonder how much respect you'd have left for King Solomon. Cheating does not make a man any less of a man than his neighbor. A real man is not infallible. If he is incapable of falling then he has lost his humanity. The decision to turn down a booty call is not a yardstick for "manliness". It is just a measure of his love and devotion.

the words of a chronic cheater.

CivilzedTyger:
I'll gladly oblige, as the saying goes; variety is the spice of life @aflyingbird u can tag me an 'unreal man' ion care...

aflyingbird:
the words of a chronic cheater.

Lol look @ my signature

aflyingbird:
of course, i will lose respect for a man anytime he cheats. am i supposed to give him a pat on the back or condone the act? NAH

humanity is imperfect, true, but each of us have the power to choose not to fall. u make it seem like the act of "falling" is ingrained in us, when it's not. we choose. with regards to cheating, it's that choosing NOT TO which defines a real man .

" The decision to turn down a booty call is just a measure of his love and devotion ". i agree with this, to there's more : it shows he is disciplined and controlled, that he is fair and selfless, that he knows how to exercise the goodness in him and not choose otherwise. all of these contribute to the definition of a real man .

see, was that so hard? u said i couldn't define a real man but u could, yet u dodged the question. i had to do it for you.

You did not define a real man yourself. All you said was "all of these contribute to the the definition... ". Smart move. I will not define a real man for you. To me it is a concept that can be experienced but not readily described. What you described up there is a Good Man. Still, he is a Man, but a good one. A real man is not the altruistic, ideal model that ladies like you dream about. Saying we "choose" with regards to cheating presents an absolute - the absolute that a real man will always choose not to cheat. I disagree. Besides, even a good man can still make these mistakes and remain a Good Man.

Ladies should jettison this ideal concept of a man. I have met real men (by my standards and I believe yours as well) who answered the booty call and cheated on their spouses. They are still real men and some people still consider them Good men.

a guy like u can never let a lady win an argument because you're too stubborn to admit she has won or to let her.


let's just face it. i win this argument.

AfroKnight:

You did not define a real man yourself. All you said was "all of these contribute to the the definition... ". Smart move. I will not define a real man for you. To me it is a concept that can be experienced but not readily described. What you described up there is a Good Man. Still, he is a Man, but a good one. A real man is not the altruistic, ideal model that ladies like you dream about. Saying we "choose" with regards to cheating presents an absolute - the absolute that a real man will always choose not to cheat. I disagree. Besides, even a good man can still make these mistakes and remain a Good Man.

Ladies should jettison this ideal concept of a man. I have met real men (by my standards and I believe yours as well) who answered the booty call and cheated on their spouses. They are still real men and some people still consider them Good men.

CivilzedTyger:
Lol look @ my signature

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aflyingbird:


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But I heard God is a merciful judge

aflyingbird:
a guy like u can never let a lady win an argument because you're too stubborn to admit she has won or to let her.


let's just face it. i win this argument.

Lol. No mind me jare. Actually, I like your definition of a real man. It is an ideal every man should work towards.