What will you do if your girl is always on edge, always afraid that she'll lose you that she keeps tabs on you to the extent that if you don't call her for a day she will ask you why.?

iice:

When someone is used to something, they usually question when that thing is no more.

true

also it could be that she has had her heart broken before so she maybe afraid it might happen again

~ Policeing? ~ I'll just play the thief ~

What will you do in that position

ugo_2u:

she keeps tabs on you to the extent that if you don't call her for a day she will ask you why.?

y, in d first place,wont a man call him girlfriend 4 a whole day

~ Because he has nothing to tell her ~

Trust and Communication (not necessarily by calling) are the foundation of any relationship,

I think she has some insecurities to be frank. It seems she simply has a fear that when you're not calling her you must not be 'interested' in her, it is also natural for anyone to be used to having something is always there or having some kind of consistency in when their man or woman communicates with them and then it stops, it feels all strange, hence allowing the fear and worry to set in.

That's why I believe people should never start something that in their heart they cannot finish/continue or be consistent with, Just reassure her that all is well, and explain that there are times you will/can be busy, and maybe you will send her an sms in replacement of a call.

sometimes i wonder what will besatisfactory for guys,
to have a girl who does not care,
or one thats cares and shows it.

i see guys who complain about both, and i wonder what we really want.
if i love my girl genuinely and she shows this amount of care,
i guess its okay by me.

Its just natural,

A person u see everyday in class or office even if u too dont talk its natural to ask if u realise the person is off for somedays.

Its a sign of showing concern and i wnt to believe everyman wnts that so wetin be the wahala now?

@ poster

Are you sure you dont have roving eyes? Most men give their babes cause to be on edge cos they have eyes that go . Check yourself man.

if its the other way round. . . i would get sick.

sparta:

@ poster

Are you sure you dont have roving eyes? Most men give their babes cause to be on edge cos they have eyes that go . Check yourself man.

lol

@ poster

Why would u not call ur girl a whole day? Even if you dont have anything to say to her, at least call her to say hi or to just ask how she is faring, if you dont she would feel like you dont care for her anymore or insecured.

Besides, when u were toasting her, dont u call everyday, now wey she don be your own u no wan call abi

The only evident thing when this happen is that :

1- She's feeling you can get someone better than her( meaning she's not all that cute and weighing it you are better than her) because if your woman is really attractive and beautiful you will be the one playing the defence you will be worried someone better than you can take her away from you, I dont think there is any other answer to this than what I just said, Its simple

Doyn1 is right though but come to think of it,no matter how cute,beautiful a girl is.she would still be possesive over her guy.that is just the nature of we ladies.